my girlfriend of almost 3 years dumped me

[firky]

When that happened to me she fucked off to NZ and married an architect she met on the fucking internet. Fucking comedy gold.

Takes time to get over it. Took me a few months to stop thinking about her and then a good two years before I was ready to commit properly in a relationship again. Now I just have a fuck buddy and it works well... sort of.

[diss04]

one of my ex's fucked off to Thailand after an argument and came back all weird and churchy

[selrahc]

i only got to page 2 but this thread is a fucking car crash

[flashharry]

hmm

my advice to you is do not use this forum for any kind of consultation

[Neurotik]

I know it can be hard but just take a positive no matter how small it might be then focus and build on it. Look to the future because it's whatever you make it.

For any variations on what i just said watch the concluding 5 minutes of any Scrubs episode.

[surface_tension]

thing is i cant even look at other girls right now, she is honestly a dime piece most beautiful girl in the world no joke theres no way i could get with another girl like that

Did you, by chance, fuck this up in some way? Do you DESERVE this girl? Be honest. Not saying shit about you, but if you're a decent guy/girl, there is nobody out of your league.

[the acid never lies]

if you're a decent guy/girl, there is nobody out of your league.

jackpot

Edit: helps if you're not ugly as sin though

[spooKs]

Get with some other girl you like on the rebound, realise you don't actually like her cause you're on the rebound and break up with her. Now you're confidence is restored, remain single and happy until either a) you find someone who really is worth it, who isn't manipulative and don't just go for any girl that gives you a bit of attention or b) you die.

haha QFT. I've just gone through the second rebounder though, and the third is being lined up as we speak. Gaaahhh!

[deamonds]

hmm

my advice to you is do not use this forum for any kind of consultation

what I would say, oh and props on this thread, havent been on here recently, but this was a good read.

My 2p, go to where she is with a next chick.

or

link up with your pals as much as poss & fuck loads of brasses.

@Diss, i fear the girl you were seeing may be a romford slosher and deserves the same amount of time & attention i give the main forum of this forum. (i.e. very little)

apology's on the romford slosher part. no off.

[kruptah]

5 pages and still no pics, geez

[lil-tee]

he hasn't posted in quite a while, so we can only assume that he's got her back and has been spending all his time having make up sex.

[magma]

Whatever you do. Don't be still living with her in nearly 3 years time with your current partners because you both really like your flat.

Actually do, it's a stone cold certainty you won't want to be together ever again!

[_boring]

same here, but not so much dump as like, big fight BOOM, been about a year and i'm still tryin to figure out how i can get that broad back and make my babies

we had broken up a few times before that, and got back togetherrrr i dno man

19 year old girls are FUCKED UP!!

[_boring]

but yea, its really fucking blows going from a girl who is absolutely gorgeous exactly what you want (as far as looks, and no im not superficial) and trying to find someone that measures up. even worse than that is going from having a relationship where its so fucking amazing, the deepest most meaningful true love, to being so horny that you want to hook up with someone but whorish hooking up is absolutely nothing like being someone who you love and loves you back in the realist way.

i just cant really get the burden of the broken heart off my back and it sucks because i never meant for that to happen im not some easily woo'd over bastard, but my relationship with that girl and her family, man, its like half of your family is gone all of the sudden.

dubstep has saved my life tho, my new GF is bass, which is pretty geigh, i need to do something about that.

[86.]

great thread

[bagelator]

she was fucking someone else.

deal with it.

my bird of 7 years did the same to me in january.

best day of my life.

[deepsteppa]

so heres my bleeding heart story...

i was goin out with a girl for two years then i decided to do long distance,with the intention of her moving over once i save up enough cash for her flights and all. i wanted to see new places and get out of the loop of "same old, same old",couldnt wait around for her to finish college...just had to go or i'd go mental with my stupid job back home...I knew we'd always be together and would of never considered doing long distance with anyone else before (even a girl i went out with for five years). This was the prettiest, sweetest, coolest girl I'd ever been with, but yet I was prepared to do this crazy thing cause I knew we'd be cool....

So off I go, literally the opposite side of the planet, both of us find it really hard to deal with, although, we both know the reasons i had to go. Time goes on and things get wierder and after 6 months of long distance, she decides not to move over and so i decide to move home to ireland this july,(from earning 1000euro a week in a sunny climate to shitty no-job in boring ireland) cause if we left it any longer things would go too wierd.

I get home and things are reeeal wierd.we were waaay too long apart. I spent all my time away holding onto what we had in my head, always telling myself it was worth it, ignoring other chicks advances, which is the hardest thing i've ever done in my whole life, literally, took so much ambition, intention and belief and self restraint to do that for 6 months.... while she quietly moved on,although faithfully..... and got used to having space, she said didnt see it coming it just slowly happened...

FUCK.FFFFFUUUUUCCCCCCKKKKKKK so she said she didnt feel the same, she didn't have the balls to break up with me, wanted us to stay in a limbo state of semi-relationship,while she figured out for sure what she wanted... i couldnt handle it....so i just had to break up with her cause i couldnt bare being on front of her and not with her.

BROKE MY FUCKING HEART.

I was so fucked up I didnt evenwant to get drunk or take drugs cause my stomach was such a mess from the whole thing that I couldnt even drink properly. Would get sick way too easy. Had no appetite. All I did for the first few weeks was sleep 12 hours a night, get up mope around then go back to bed close my eyes and hope that I fall asleep eventually cause thats the only escape I had. I was the biggest fucking mess I've ever been in. Like some dude said in an earlier post, I couldnt even be bothered getting with other chicks cause my ex was so hot, no-one compared, it just seemed like a cheap stupid idea anyway to rebound with anyone.

Anyway that was two months ago and all I can say is it does get easier, although I am still well fucked in the head I am not as bad as I was. Trying to keep busy with whatever you love doing most and chatting to mates is probably the two best bits of advice I can give. Thank fuck I have music like dubstep to keep me occupied. Oh and try get some exercise, any at all, if you could be bothered, its bad enough being emotionally fucked but an ill body makes it harder to deal with....

[firky]

I couldnt even be bothered getting with other chicks cause my ex was so hot, no-one compared, it just seemed like a cheap stupid idea anyway to rebound with anyone.

I still love mine. I don't think I'll ever love anyone as much as I loved her and I know she still loves me, it just wasn't to be. That's partly why I stay single (sort of) now and partly 'cos am ugly tnuc, like. But every relationship are lass who I have been with post her just isn't the same. You shouldn't compare but you can't help it. It's not the sex I miss, we were together long enough that we didn't fuck five times a night, it's the daft little things. Just having her things around me, cooking something for her, coming home to a house with someone who was waiting for me, and so much more. Don't care if people call me a soft shite or emo for writing this, I had the best thing ever and if they do take the piss, they evidently haven't had 'it'.

Although she doesn't like dubstep.

[deepsteppa]

I couldnt even be bothered getting with other chicks cause my ex was so hot, no-one compared, it just seemed like a cheap stupid idea anyway to rebound with anyone.

I still love mine. I don't think I'll ever love anyone as much as I loved her and I know she still loves me, it just wasn't to be. That's partly why I stay single (sort of) now and partly 'cos am ugly tnuc, like. But every relationship are lass who I have been with post her just isn't the same. You shouldn't compare but you can't help it. It's not the sex I miss, we were together long enough that we didn't fuck five times a night, it's the daft little things. Just having her things around me, cooking something for her, coming home to a house with someone who was waiting for me, and so much more. Don't care if people call me a soft shite or emo for writing this, I had the best thing ever and if they do take the piss, they evidently haven't had 'it'.

Although she doesn't like dubstep.

yup, totally agree with ya. although my ex loved dubstep! sure we even used to go skanking to clubs by ourselves when the rest of our mates werent around. thats why I was so fucked up when we broke up, we seemed right in so many ways... You're not a soft shite and I dont miss the sex near as much as the other things too. It takes balls to say that anyway, cause most guys are too fucking dumb to realise theres alot more to relationships than fucking, and if you cant see the value in that then you're wasting your time with any chick IMHO. The older you get the more you realise that.

[manillathrilla]

great advice everyone i think im gonna try boning a ugly chick because either way the girl will seem ugly at this point. also i defianately think she is a raging tnuc.