need some advice/encouragement from you guys

[*grand*]

This thread is interesting, vie read lots of people judging this girl without actually knowing her situation. Man is asking about life, be real... Everyone is fallable, learn to run with it. People go through ups and downs.

Sounds to me like they are friends. When it comes to situation with girls ive been in almost every situation imaginable. Just enjoy it for what it is...at most try to get her to do your home work for you. I did that kind of thing all throughout uni, female friends are the best, saluting my inner circle!

Grand

[faust.dtc]

Its been a year now.

So did you hit it Serbia???

[badger]

pointless bump alert

[*grand*]

I am going to pm him!

Grand

[nicenice]

Truth be told:

She probably Was going through a bad patch and wanted some attention.

She trusts you enough to relax and have fun with you.

She does like you but is not permitted to escalate her feelings due to her current situation.

Feel what you feel for her but at the same time feel something for someone else; she won't grate you for this, she may even help you, if she doesn't or plays the girl down then it is definitely a sign.

Just be real, by continuing to be her friend, but don't tell her how you feel. One day in the future, so long as your relationship stays the way it is you will sleep with her if her relationship goes pear shaped. Know shes potentially yours and use that knowledge to encourage you to find someone else; he'll if a cute girl likes you whats stopping another one?

Grand

For reals yo

Most sensible & level headed, least jaded advice given

[badger]

I am going to pm him!

Grand

with year old advice? i'm sure he'll be delighted

[*grand*]

Badger, sometimes keep your thoughts to yourself. I see you ever so often and I don't want to feel as if I have to smh at you.

The pm was to find out what actually happened in the year that and transpired.

Shame on you....

Grand

[badger]

you know i can't resist a chance to be a sarky tnuc

[BLAHBLAHJAH]

Asking for relationship advice online is creepy. Dunno, in itself it's enough proof that said person isn't mentally capable of the task at hand. Some things can't be neatly parcelled into a few paragraphs and "yessed" or "noeeed" and sometimes people seem to get so absorbed in the fantasy side of things they're more happy to talk/type about it than just flowing... Key points in life to realise you're on your own and familiarising with other people's strategies works only marginally, because you're not them

Maybe I'm just the kind of tnuc that would rather use the internet to scrape whatever scraps of humour remain in my failed attempts rather than trying to care or figure out why they failed/what to do right 'next time' (TBH it's pretty obvious when a date gets as low as snorting ketamine from a toilet seat then spending the night wondering where my shoes went, only to find them swimming with piss -probably my own- in a toilet cubicle)

Ain't hard making friends regardless of genders, eventually it'll spill into the sheeeets

[nicenice]

Its peace of mind. Just a way of people dealing with things, doesn't necessarily mean they weak minded. Catharsis can be found anywhere.

Although you're right about things not being summed up into neat packages. That's why I don't think there's much point in telling people, its best to do what you think you should instead of asking people to tell you what to do.

[BLAHBLAHJAH]

[finji]

pee in her butt

[deamonds]

removed

[knell]

gravytron is either the worst troll i've ever seen, or the biggest douche.

or both.

[jameshk]

This thread makes for fun reading. I actually really want to know how this turned out.

[herbalicious]

You're best off just asking her what's going on and explaining how you feel.

This.

Honesty is always the best policy. If she wasn't in a relationship there would be a possibility for her to play silly buggers...

But she'll either say "It's not been going well with my bloke for a while" = Game on. or "I'm happy with my fella, can we just be friends".

Do it. Not knowing is worse than knowing the worse.

[herbalicious]

Oh. Didn't realise it was an old thread

[siberia]

wow this is a bit strange. i completely forgot about this thread but she just texted me last night and wants to hangout. she's been broken up with her boyfriend for awhile now, we'll probably kick it next week

[Grimblee]

you know i can't resist a chance to be a sarky tnuc

you never replied to my message i sent MR. BADGER!!! i think you kinda understood the point then and why does siberia ask dubstep forum for tips on women....Is this fucking serious or did someone drug me....either way im new to this site and i wanna say you guys are fucking hilarious GREAT JOBS and thanks for letting me laugh at your internet lives and i think we need to step it up a notch and make dubstep a reality show cause this shit is just too fucking funny....

[jazzamataz]

you know i can't resist a chance to be a sarky tnuc

you never replied to my message i sent MR. BADGER!!! i think you kinda understood the point then and why does siberia ask dubstep forum for tips on women....Is this fucking serious or did someone drug me....either way im new to this site and i wanna say you guys are fucking hilarious GREAT JOBS and thanks for letting me laugh at your internet lives and i think we need to step it up a notch and make dubstep a reality show cause this shit is just too fucking funny....

What do ya mean, funny?
Let me understand this 'cause, I don't know, maybe it's me,
I'm a little fucked up maybe, but I'm funny how?
I mean, funny like I'm a clown, I amuse you?
I make you laugh... I'm here to fuckin' amuse you?
What do you mean funny, funny how?


How am I funny?