Me personally, I would do my best to intergrate.-dubson- wrote:I agree you should adopt some of the culture of where you now live and integrate yourself into the society. But if you were suddenly came over from Pakistan and lived in a community with lots of other Pakistani families, shops, traditions ect. would you try and back yourself more "British" or would you just stay with what you know??
Why the fuck would I travel all that way, uproot myself and my family and everything,
then purposefully shoot myself in the foot and deny myself all the opportunities open
to me by not integrating with society? It makes no sense. But then, I have drive and ambition.
My grandparents, for example, couldn't speak English properly and didn't integrate much at all.
They weren't in control of a lot of their lives, lived vicariously through their sons and daughters
(My uncles, aunt, and my mum) and were set in their ways. It made their lives ridiculously hard,
and they had to rely on everyone else for outside contact with the world.
It's quite sad when you think about it, really.