ideas, tips for meeting women

[clifford_-]

Oh and James hit the nail on the head pretty much. Hahaha.

We should just go out in gfd soon for joke and find some beautys

i like the sound of this. pissss up!

[brettheaslewood]

Oh and James hit the nail on the head pretty much. Hahaha.

We should just go out in gfd soon for joke and find some beautys

i like the sound of this. pissss up!

i'll just be the guy on the side in this group activity...

[clifford_-]

Oh and James hit the nail on the head pretty much. Hahaha.

We should just go out in gfd soon for joke and find some beautys

i like the sound of this. pissss up!

i'll just be the guy on the side in this group activity...

wingman.

[dreamizm]

crazy-dar

Dun kno abt the Crazy-dar.. Welcome to my life also.

[jameshk]

Fuck going to guildford I'd rather go.... well anywhere else.

[Sreedy]

Screw u then hgay haha joke. Nah not casino/dusk. Like the cooler pubs and that full off less wankaz

[Sreedy]

Wat u saying tonight clifford? I'm down

[LA_Boxers]

Do we have 'cougar' bars in the UK?

Holiday Inn's do over 30s nights (read over 40 and desperate).

[clifford_-]

my mates band is playing at a bar in woking tonight, could be good for a laugh....

[Sreedy]

Yeah I only have like 20 pound till Sunday aswell pm me your number

[bright maroon]

I have this problem too guys!!

I am painfully introverted...and I never hang around randomly to meet people.

[clifford_-]

you should come out on the baz to woking with us BM

[Johnlenham]

I used to be the same, every girl I got with was proper nuts. I started to develop a complex about it after one ex said to me that I would have to deal with it forever because she reckoned I subconsciously went for crazy girls because I wanted to 'fix' them, like I had some crazy-dar or someshit.

7 months into a relationship now and no signs of craziness yet though!

Well youve done it now havent you!
My brother has a long record of nutty Exs, thankfully ive avoided crazy women.

Sucks for OP.
Ive heard a bunch of times from many girls that they get drawn to guys they see having fun, last few nights out just dancing about with friends weve had girls just randomly join us for no reason. I guess because you arnt lurking around grinding on them like alot of cranks in clubs.

Smoking area is pretty good aswell, I go for a breather rather than to actually smoke but it allways leads to random conversations.

Failing all that, Lots of money.

[Today]

thread went slightly amiss of helpful for a bit, but by and large, still appreciated
I agree i need to get out and enjoy myself to attract anyone
But as per grinding on women like cranks in the club
I've been told thats the only way to get their attention
I'm not an aggressive type and i've never done that, doesn't seem like a proper greeting.. and having been kidnapped/assaulted I;ve become rly self conscious about not giving unwanted attention/touching

But like i said, at clubs i get bombarded by gay men and ignored by women
It started out slightly annoying and slightly flattering, and now it just makes me downright angry.. literally has happened like 10 times. i don't know why i look gay, i'm clean but not obsessive, not a hip fashion glam type but not falling apart raggedy, all in all pretty much neutral... very frustrating

[magma]

thread went slightly amiss of helpful for a bit, but by and large, still appreciated
I agree i need to get out and enjoy myself to attract anyone
But as per grinding on women like cranks in the club
I've been told thats the only way to get their attention
I'm not an aggressive type and i've never done that, doesn't seem like a proper greeting.. and having been kidnapped/assaulted I;ve become rly self conscious about not giving unwanted attention/touching

Unless they're teenagers, the club wind/grind just doesn't work... you've got to talk to adults to get them interested. This is a good thing... I was never any good at the wind/grind and finding out what someone's like AFTER you've got a boner isn't the best way of sorting the wheat from the chaff. My best mate from school has a wannabe Jeremy Kyle guest as a babymomma for exactly this reason!

Dance classes are a GOOD LOOK. The girl I'm seeing at the moment does "Modern Jive" and took me the other week... if I'd not arrived with a girl, I'm pretty sure I would've still left with one.

[gwa]

post a pic of yourself so gok gwa can help.

you need a fade like me

[DRTY]

+1 for dance classes. Salsa/Mojive/Ceroc there's plenty to choose from, probably a lot of fun and everyone arrives partnerless; that's one of it's major seling points, to meet new people. Worth a shot!

[herbalicious]

Not sure SNH is really the place to ask for advice on meeting women. I mean...look at us.

[Today]

i'll consider anyones advice
already got some very decent tips and things to change
I'm not only asking here..
but (as sad as it sounds) yall are my friends
I have one mate IRL .. and no facebook account
This is where i come to hang out.

[gwa]

where did you used to hang out before you signed up?

i'm stroking my chin here