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Re: Uni romance

Post by JBoy » Mon Mar 12, 2012 5:49 pm

I think youre worrying too much, do what you want to do. Loads of flat mates get into relationships, its hardly going to make it unbearable for the others living with you is it.

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Re: Uni romance

Post by Duffman » Mon Mar 12, 2012 6:07 pm

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Re: Uni romance

Post by ultraspatial » Mon Mar 12, 2012 6:33 pm

particle-jim wrote:
say_whut wrote:
particle-jim wrote:
say_whut wrote:It is self inflicted but I thought it'd be entertaining.

Today sucked, went and spoke to an advisor person, no conclusion since the situation is so layered.

Saw her earlier and it was silent

:u:
How have you fucked this up? you already got with her and it was all going well... how???
We both realise it's going to be awkward for everyone else, so I'm taking a backseat approach now and trying to get it off my mind for a few days
that's really fucking dumb IMO, if it's awkward for everyone else that you and her are happy seeing each other then that THEIR problem, not yours

Don't break shit off with this girl just cause you think your flatmates might be a bit funny about it at first, even if they are funny about it, if you and her are serious then they'll soon realise this and it'll no longer be an issue

don't make excuses and blame others when its none of their god damn business anyway

now just go tell her what i just told you and then rag her brains out with the door open so that all your housemates can see :4:
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Re: Uni romance

Post by apmje » Mon Mar 12, 2012 7:01 pm

My girlfriend is the ex of one of my mates...it's always awkward at first, get over it and they will too.

I don't know if this thread was entertaining or just sad....I'm inclined to go with entertaining, I want the next part. Plus I really wanna see J, you put her on a pedestal now bro.

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Re: Uni romance

Post by minusworld » Mon Mar 12, 2012 7:06 pm

ultraspatial wrote:
particle-jim wrote:
say_whut wrote:
particle-jim wrote:
say_whut wrote:It is self inflicted but I thought it'd be entertaining.

Today sucked, went and spoke to an advisor person, no conclusion since the situation is so layered.

Saw her earlier and it was silent

:u:
How have you fucked this up? you already got with her and it was all going well... how???
We both realise it's going to be awkward for everyone else, so I'm taking a backseat approach now and trying to get it off my mind for a few days
that's really fucking dumb IMO, if it's awkward for everyone else that you and her are happy seeing each other then that THEIR problem, not yours

Don't break shit off with this girl just cause you think your flatmates might be a bit funny about it at first, even if they are funny about it, if you and her are serious then they'll soon realise this and it'll no longer be an issue

don't make excuses and blame others when its none of their god damn business anyway

now just go tell her what i just told you and then rag her brains out with the door open so that all your housemates can see :4:
listen to this man :W:

Yes , this.
otherwise you'll both regret not knowing how it would have been , and then it's going to get even more akward untill you won't be able to look/talk to each other anymore.
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Re: Uni romance

Post by Shum » Mon Mar 12, 2012 7:09 pm

What particle-jim said.

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Re: Uni romance

Post by magma » Mon Mar 12, 2012 7:15 pm

Living with love interests and others is fine. You haven't got SHIT on my household...
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Re: Uni romance

Post by ScarletCyanide » Mon Mar 12, 2012 7:21 pm

Fuck J, give me H for my strobe light experiment.
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Re: Uni romance

Post by garethom » Mon Mar 12, 2012 7:23 pm

Some childish-ass sheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeit up in this situation.

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Re: Uni romance

Post by mikey_g » Mon Mar 12, 2012 7:29 pm

did you seriously go see a councillor about this? sorry but i think they have better things to do with their time as opposed to helpin you stick it to the girlnext door without upsetting a few peeps.
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Re: Uni romance

Post by Hircine » Mon Mar 12, 2012 7:32 pm

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Re: Uni romance

Post by meanmrcustard » Mon Mar 12, 2012 8:37 pm

say_whut wrote:
particle-jim wrote:
say_whut wrote:It is self inflicted but I thought it'd be entertaining.

Today sucked, went and spoke to an advisor person, no conclusion since the situation is so layered.

Saw her earlier and it was silent

:u:
How have you fucked this up? you already got with her and it was all going well... how???
We both realise it's going to be awkward for everyone else, so I'm taking a backseat approach now and trying to get it off my mind for a few days

you keep forgetting to put up photos
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Re: Uni romance

Post by Sexual_Chocolate » Mon Mar 12, 2012 8:50 pm

yes this thread needs pics....
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Re: Uni romance

Post by say_whut » Mon Mar 12, 2012 9:06 pm

mikey g wrote:did you seriously go see a councillor about this? sorry but i think they have better things to do with their time as opposed to helpin you stick it to the girlnext door without upsetting a few peeps.
it wasn't a councilor, just an advice woman, like a drop in thing. No solution, and I totally am rolling with the "fuck everyone else" thing, but when H and H2 hate the fuck out of each other but I get on very well with both of them, I feel I have to have an equilibrium of sorts. Especially since I hinted at something happening H2 hates the idea.

I know, I know, it's my choice but at this point in time, I'm easing off a bit.

today is shite.
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Re: Uni romance

Post by weedlefruit » Mon Mar 12, 2012 9:31 pm

Wasn't there thing that someone said that was like isn't it better to have gone through all of that like, awkward trouble n that for it to be great but like it ends sour coz of some heinous flatmate business than to have been nervous and awkward around a girl that you should be sinking but spend the time worrying about the flatmate who it sounds like is steaming jealous for it all to never actually happen and you spend christmas thinking about it?


Yeah I think that's the saying......


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Re: Uni romance

Post by meanmrcustard » Mon Mar 12, 2012 9:33 pm

Gotta say, you need to man up a bit, this situation is really not a big deal. Your um-ing and ah-ing is only going to make things worse though. Either go for it or don't. It's really no big deal either way, but make a decision and stick with it.
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Re: Uni romance

Post by kay » Mon Mar 12, 2012 9:37 pm

say_whut wrote:
mikey g wrote:did you seriously go see a councillor about this? sorry but i think they have better things to do with their time as opposed to helpin you stick it to the girlnext door without upsetting a few peeps.
it wasn't a councilor, just an advice woman, like a drop in thing. No solution, and I totally am rolling with the "fuck everyone else" thing, but when H and H2 hate the fuck out of each other but I get on very well with both of them, I feel I have to have an equilibrium of sorts. Especially since I hinted at something happening H2 hates the idea.

I know, I know, it's my choice but at this point in time, I'm easing off a bit.

today is shite.
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Re: Uni romance

Post by skimpi » Mon Mar 12, 2012 9:39 pm

Yeah, I dunno, you do seem to be going over the top with this really. I mean everyone I know has the same feel that you don't shag your flatmates, cos it just makes it awkward. You already have though, so like either just fucking go for it if you like her, and fuck gay H, or if you would rather be noshed off by H2, then just end it. I don't really get the awkwardness though, like I get it if it happened but then it might have been a mistake, or you just want a shag but she gets too into it and you cant get away from her. But you clearly both want it, so just do it, fuck her gently!
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Re: Uni romance

Post by noam » Mon Mar 12, 2012 9:46 pm

i think he jizzed himself and spent 30minutes pushing rope hoping she wouldn't notice

she noticed.

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Re: Uni romance

Post by ultraspatial » Mon Mar 12, 2012 9:59 pm

noam wrote:i think he jizzed himself and spent 30minutes pushing rope hoping she wouldn't notice

she noticed.
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