Socially awkward around females?

[ehbes]

Tell her on Facebook that you want to talk to her the next day and then make an effort to not see that way she'll she go on Facebook and ask you at which point you make up some bullshit excuse and say some sappy shit = woman acquired

[bigfootspartan]

I think I'm gonna talk to her a bit, be flirty and nice, then after a week or two ask her out? It's fucking difficult for me to talk to her in person, as I literally never see or get a chance to speak to her... But I'd feel weird asking her out if we'de only spoken on Facebook obviously... Might have to try and catch her away from friends, or invite a load of people her and friends included to something like a party and then get talking... hmm :p

Parties are a golden idea, but rarely work out the way you want them to...

My roommate and I decided to have a "beach party" complete with a kids swimming pool in our dorm room a few years back (sounds really douchebag/frat boy like now that I think about it). Anyways, long story short we got too drunk to pick up the pool, so everyone just hopped in the shower, and the girl I wanted ended up becoming infatuated with my roommate. By the end of the night we had almost gotten evicted, had a tongue lashing by the campus 5-0 and the only girl left at the end of the night was this horse that I wasn't really into. I walked the horse home, went back home to my head stash for some solace...

Probably for the better though, she was a Conservative...

Also, don't be too worried about it. I know that often times guys think that being awkward is the end of the world, but to be honest most women I know think it's pretty "cute". I've got a good friend who said she was attracted to her husband originally because he was this tall awkward sort of fellow.

[bigfootspartan]

it's cute =3

LACE knows!

[LACE]

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[Kochari]

If you're awkward around her she ain't the one imo
It should alllll be natural baby.

i like the awkward ''get to know each other'' part.. figuring out what to say, trying not to make a fool out of yourself..it's the most exciting and certainly not telling whether she/he is the one or not. i'm not really socially awkward, but i'll get nervous like any human who has a bit of an attraction..it's cute =3

Yeah totally, but thats not really the awkwardness this guy's talking about. He's talking about never speaking to this girl but putting her up on some pedastal and saying OHMYGODILOVEHER when actually you don't know her
Which is just weird.

And for what it's worth, I fucking love the "getting to know each other bit" ... I love it cus you both know exactly whats going on; you don't say nothing but you're exchanging glances and smiles.

Dem glances

*forgive me if I seem cynical in the first part of this post, I REALLY want a cigarette.

[cityzen]

And for what it's worth, I fucking love the "getting to know each other bit" ... I love it cus you both know exactly whats going on; you don't say nothing but you're exchanging glances and smiles.

Dem glances

Absolutely the best bit. All down hill pretty soon after.

[Pedro Sánchez]

And for what it's worth, I fucking love the "getting to know each other bit" ... I love it cus you both know exactly whats going on; you don't say nothing but you're exchanging glances and smiles.

Dem glances

Absolutely the best bit. All down hill pretty soon after.

, yeah you get to know too much, and before long, you can't stand to be in the same room.

[Kochari]

Aaaaaaaaaand now I'm nostalgic

[cityzen]

And for what it's worth, I fucking love the "getting to know each other bit" ... I love it cus you both know exactly whats going on; you don't say nothing but you're exchanging glances and smiles.

Dem glances

Absolutely the best bit. All down hill pretty soon after.

, yeah you get to know too much, and before long, you can't stand to be in the same room.

Break up, change number coz they're mental, find next girl, rinse & repeat.

[ScarletCyanide]

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[cityzen]

Too much too soon. Talk to her first. If that's too much, fb her (is that what people call it). Build a bit of a rapport (over a couple of weeks maybe), then talk in person, then the Camden thing. If you're as young as I think you are, then a group outing may be the best option.

[flyingointment]

When in doubt, whip da dick out.

[MrAural]

When in doubt, whip da dick out.

[Devry_Kaneda]

this probably stems from low confidence.

you're probably a lot cooler than you think, and she'd probably like to talk to you.

now i don't want to make any generalizations, but if you post on a forum like this one, you probably have at least something interesting to say.

talk about life. complain about something. make fun of a teacher. tell her about production and what you're into.

i was in your position and looking back on high school, I missed the opportunity to stick my wiener in all kinds of stuff, if only I had a little more confidence.

best of luck.

for kidnapping tips, pm me

[Kochari]

[quote="Devry[Kaneda]"
you're probably a lot cooler than you think, and she'd probably like to talk to you.
[/quote]

It's true man, you're the cat's pyjamas.

[Kochari]

you're probably a lot cooler than you think, and she'd probably like to talk to you.

It's true man, you're the cat's pyjamas.

EDIT: what the fuck, did I accidentally quote myself?

[bigfootspartan]

What I've always seen work:

Go for coffee sometime in the afternoon. Shoot the shit, see what she's into, tell her what you're into. If you got your timing right and she's someone you're actually interested in then say "wow, I'm starved, wanna come over for supper?" Then make something simple like pasta. If you're cooking doesn't suck then ask her if she wants to stay for a movie...

If she says yes, then you know where it's going next!

[wobbles]

its ok to be nervous
that means you have feelings
if you are shy around people try holding off on massterbaat. it will make you more aggressive with the females
weigh out your options, she will either say yes or no
you only live once
etc etc

[Raggles]

What I've always seen work:

Go for coffee sometime in the afternoon. Shoot the shit, see what she's into, tell her what you're into. If you got your timing right and she's someone you're actually interested in then say "wow, I'm starved, wanna come over for supper?" Then make something simple like pasta. If you're cooking doesn't suck then ask her if she wants to stay for a movie...

If she says yes, then you know where it's going next!

[Molzie]

What I've always seen work:

Go for coffee sometime in the afternoon. Shoot the shit, see what she's into, tell her what you're into. If you got your timing right and she's someone you're actually interested in then say "wow, I'm starved, wanna come over for supper?" Then make something simple like pasta. If you're cooking doesn't suck then ask her if she wants to stay for a movie...

If she says yes, then you know where it's going next!

Next stop, the friend-zone.