resorting to pain to cope with problems

milkwithbutter · Post by **milkwithbutter** » Wed Dec 19, 2012 6:33 am

hey, i have a friend here where i live who is a year younger than i am and she is dealing with depression and she feels that she needs to hurt herself to relieve these feelings that she is hiding in, she smokes weed everyday to keep her sanity apparently. she says she wants to move away from everything and everyone but does that mean she is just hiding from her problems would that help her at all? shes teling me she is too broken and too far from actually being helped now and she is really sex crazed and has father issues honestly im just trying to help but dont know how or what input i can give to be of any help. i know you dudes and dude etts are great for this and may seem pathetic going to a forum but i like listening to zomby and burial and i really dig it

test_recordings · Post by **test_recordings** » Wed Dec 19, 2012 6:37 am

Go check this running thread: http://www.dubstepforum.com/viewtopic.php?f=7&t=262219

milkwithbutter · Post by **milkwithbutter** » Wed Dec 19, 2012 6:42 am

thank you but honestly the point of this was to address her hurting herself for what she is going thru and how i could help her express her feelings a different way but damn im sure that thread willbe of great help

kingGhost · Post by **kingGhost** » Wed Dec 19, 2012 6:42 am

milkwithbutter wrote:she smokes weed everyday to keep her sanity apparently.

and her brain is all jacked up? shocker

oprs · Post by **oprs** » Wed Dec 19, 2012 6:43 am

if shes hurting herself, tell a counselor please.

Terpit · Post by **Terpit** » Wed Dec 19, 2012 6:44 am

Is she a fiend for hype? or just for sex?
Might have to get her sectioned mate.

Rappone · Post by **Rappone** » Wed Dec 19, 2012 7:04 am

milkwithbutter wrote:hey, i have a friend here where i live who is a year younger than i am and she is dealing with depression and she feels that she needs to hurt herself to relieve these feelings that she is hiding in, she smokes weed everyday to keep her sanity apparently. she says she wants to move away from everything and everyone but does that mean she is just hiding from her problems would that help her at all? shes teling me she is too broken and too far from actually being helped now and she is really sex crazed and has father issues honestly im just trying to help but dont know how or what input i can give to be of any help. i know you dudes and dude etts are great for this and may seem pathetic going to a forum but i like listening to zomby and burial and i really dig it

Alright. A music forum instead of a counseling forum seems legit. We producer folk usually minor in psychology. Dubstep too. Something about the deep bass and wobbles screams love i'm guessing.

Anyway, she needs to see a shrink. seeing there's nothing you can do to ease her mind (in your words, too far from being helped). she probably needs some meds to calm her down. Some valium and xanax might solve the problem. Not so hard to access either.

oprs · Post by **oprs** » Wed Dec 19, 2012 7:05 am

Tell that bitch to pm me. ILL GIVE HER THE D

kidshuffle · Post by **kidshuffle** » Wed Dec 19, 2012 7:05 am

oprs wrote:if shes hurting herself, tell a counselor please.

this this this

i dated a girl who had gone through that before i met her...counselling is the only way

Terpit · Post by **Terpit** » Wed Dec 19, 2012 7:10 am

Father issues you say?
Send her over to fatherfigure

Rappone · Post by **Rappone** » Wed Dec 19, 2012 7:13 am

^ if you're really in dubai you gotta hit up Cavalli. Mad gorgeous women there.

*EDIT* music sucks, but tolerable coz of the women.

Terpit · Post by **Terpit** » Wed Dec 19, 2012 7:15 am

I know that place, not a fan man, awful music and shit atmosphere.

Rappone · Post by **Rappone** » Wed Dec 19, 2012 7:21 am

Terpit wrote:I know that place, not a fan man, awful music and shit atmosphere.

Iv e been there drunk, wasted, and scored a really reaaalllyyy fine swede. thot she was gonna ask for money. she didnt. ive been to other places but clubs there aren't my style at all. too commercial. also alcohol there is too expensive.

Loved the city though. u livin there? coz u said its cold where u are , windscreen n shit. never that cold in dubai. lol.

Terpit · Post by **Terpit** » Wed Dec 19, 2012 7:28 am

Yeah I live here man, its pretty cold at the moment, although probably wouldn't be cold for you lot.
When were you out here?
I hate the clubbing scene here, with a passion

Rappone · Post by **Rappone** » Wed Dec 19, 2012 7:38 am

last year, in summer. my frnd got out of jail n invited me over coz he got alot of compensation from the gvmnt since he sat for two years and ended up proven innocent. They wanted to shut him up so they gave him money. This other friend of mine DJs at a place called levels, though, his music is loungy/ambient, i liked the vibe, not the commercial edm shit. maybe you'd like to check that out.

Terpit · Post by **Terpit** » Wed Dec 19, 2012 7:51 am

was he in jail over here?
ive heard of levels, its in the Ritz i think, i only ever go to Chi and Catwalk (catwalk is shit but they play dnb sometimes).

OP, got any pics of this girl?

Rappone · Post by **Rappone** » Wed Dec 19, 2012 7:56 am

yea its in the ritz. jail in dubai, yea. long story but weed's involved. the penalty for grass there is heavier than hard drugs like coke or acid or whatever else. coz the sheikhs son was a stoner or smthg like that.

Terpit · Post by **Terpit** » Wed Dec 19, 2012 7:58 am

Nah, class A drugs have a higher penalty, your mate must have been caught with the synthetic stuff coz they had a few deaths from that and clamped down hard.
Whats his name if you dont mind me asking? I know a few people who got done for that, would be a small world if one of them was the same person.

Rappone · Post by **Rappone** » Wed Dec 19, 2012 8:03 am

Really? Coz he told me thats what the ppl in jail told him. something like 6 years for green, 4 for the hard. maybe they changed it recently. his names ty jordan. goes by taco.

EDIT* he was caught in one of his frnds hotel room, n they were smokin some space shit. that synthetic weed stuff. all around there, i even tried that shit n hated every minute of it. Only he tested positive for THC havin come from the states a month beforehand.

Terpit · Post by **Terpit** » Wed Dec 19, 2012 8:13 am

Its generally 7 years get class A stimulants, 4 for thc but people often get much more or much less, depends if you rat your friends out or not and if you ever sold anything.
That space stuff is mental, so concentrated.. not too fond of it, im glad its not around anymore.

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