''nice guys'' of okcupid

lovelydivot · Post by **lovelydivot** » Sun Dec 30, 2012 8:46 pm

Terpit · Post by **Terpit** » Sun Dec 30, 2012 8:51 pm

chekov · Post by **chekov** » Sun Dec 30, 2012 9:16 pm

Rappone wrote:
Phigure wrote:
Rappone wrote:some girls do somewhat enjoy being treated like shit.They're not the ones you'd want to end up being with though. Ive had a friend who had black eyes every few days from her guy punching her out. He also cheated on her countless times. I stopped talking to them both. They're married now.
Some somewhat dumb girls like being mistreated coz they're submissive by nature, and think it displays dominance from the male.
do you even realize how incredibly sexist this is?

you really think women in abusive relationships enjoy it?
Yeah, I do think some women enjoy being in abusive relationships as I witnessed it firsthand. She acts like she's pissed off but I can tell she wants it. She married him ffs. n he still beats her.

She even told my ex she likes it because she thinks she deserves gettn slapped. Behind her tears theres some perverse enjoymeny happening

IMO gthere are guys that also enjoy being treated like shit. a girl doesnt giv em the time of day, and they chase after her, tongue out. I've also seen that.

Its not just the women. Personalities go far and wide. There are no generalizations in this subject. I am far from sexist.

where to start with this

chekov · Post by **chekov** » Sun Dec 30, 2012 9:16 pm

think i might just tell you to fuck off again

fuck off

lovelydivot · Post by **lovelydivot** » Sun Dec 30, 2012 9:40 pm

mmm...What about

Girl tries to talk to someone - gets abused for no reason out of the blue - doesn't believe the guy is a dick...

..tries to figure out what the problem is...

That equals what? Shotgun Wedding...

Nope - That equals me having a pretty good attitude after being treated kind of bad.

Terpit · Post by **Terpit** » Sun Dec 30, 2012 9:43 pm

Why wouldn't she believe the guy is a dick?

lovelydivot · Post by **lovelydivot** » Sun Dec 30, 2012 9:49 pm

..she wouldn't have tried to talk to him in the first place - If she believed he was a dick.

So maybe some girls have problems accepting that people are mean.

Maybe that is a form of stupidity.

Female stupidity

- Girls aren't really taught to fight like that - They are taught to solve problems amicably

unless that is a sexist myth...

Terpit · Post by **Terpit** » Sun Dec 30, 2012 9:52 pm

Cant think of any sort of reply that doesnt involve me sounding cheesy and big penised

lovelydivot · Post by **lovelydivot** » Sun Dec 30, 2012 9:58 pm

You want to stand up for the nature of your penis...

Stop comparing mean people to penii...

lovelydivot · Post by **lovelydivot** » Sun Dec 30, 2012 10:03 pm

ha...

you should have seen the cheese factor on this post before I editted...

lovelydivot · Post by **lovelydivot** » Sun Dec 30, 2012 10:09 pm

some girls are mean
some girls are power grubby
some are greedy
self-centered
stupid
entitled
vein
lazy
boring
weak
corny
crazy
full on psychotic
narcissistic

overbearing
rude

inconsiderate

arrogant

lovelydivot · Post by **lovelydivot** » Sun Dec 30, 2012 10:14 pm

coniving
manipulative

Terpit · Post by **Terpit** » Sun Dec 30, 2012 10:15 pm

lovelydivot wrote:some girls are mean
some girls are power grubby
some are greedy
self-centered
stupid
entitled
vein
lazy
boring
weak
corny
crazy
full on psychotic
narcissistic

overbearing
rude

inconsiderate

arrogant

I dont think those traits are exclusive to females,

Terpit · Post by **Terpit** » Sun Dec 30, 2012 10:16 pm

What i don't get are the claims that women who get treated like shit by they're partners dont realise they're being treated like shit? Thats what you were saying right?

lovelydivot · Post by **lovelydivot** » Sun Dec 30, 2012 10:22 pm

My guess is that they think there is something wrong that they can fix...

Not something wrong with their mate - but something wrong happening to their mate...

You know - the first six months of the relationship was fine - but now he is getting moody - something must be wrong...
Not - dude is bored and instead of being a mature and leaving - he takes the frustration out on his lady.

lovelydivot · Post by **lovelydivot** » Sun Dec 30, 2012 10:25 pm

People are willing to put up with a lot instead of being alone or having to 100% pay their own way.

I don't know though - there is a lot of straight up just weird stuff that I could never tolerate and people just do...

Terpit · Post by **Terpit** » Sun Dec 30, 2012 10:29 pm

lovelydivot wrote: penii...

Is this really the plural?

I think we have different ideas of what 'abuse' is, I thought you were talking punches to ovaries and physical nastiness, as opposed to being moody etc

cheese cheese cheese

lovelydivot · Post by **lovelydivot** » Sun Dec 30, 2012 10:35 pm

I meant moodiness as it descends into abuse...

I'm sure there is some amount of moodiness and verbal abuse before it becomes physical.

But - I have seen girls - right off the bat - go for guys who are insulting them...so who knows

I have been told that my perception is rotted before - and stripping a person of their ability to judge can be really dehumanizing.

Terpit · Post by **Terpit** » Sun Dec 30, 2012 10:40 pm

Im way out of my depth im afraid, but this one time i raised my voice at this girl

magma · Post by **magma** » Sun Dec 30, 2012 10:48 pm

Terpit wrote:
lovelydivot wrote: penii...
Is this really the plural?

No.

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