feminine issues in electronic music...

[lovelydivot]

I know that I am guilty of a certain amount of righteous hypocricy...
but I am trying...


I used to dream of the day that my boyfriend and I could move to the city
- and he could get a job in the record store..and I could work in the coffee shop

because the record job was way too popular for me.


It's all different now.

[butter_man]

[lovelydivot]

I was using an entire man as a mask...

That's how much of a pimp I am...

[Phase Down]

But you are just flat out wrong if you think girls don't fully use looks to stack on above other girls...

are you fucking kidding me stating the obvious, of course they do, so do some men, they are better looking than you get over it.. imo you seem like you have massive issues about the way you look, or think you can't get anywhere because of it or without it?

on topic, learn to mix, put on a good mix, gain respect as a dj.... same as any ol men, you just moan about doing it, useless bullshiz

[Electric_Head]

I girl recently started playing at a regular outdoor party I play at.
She has got there purely based on talent and not looks.
She is very pretty but that meant nothing when she tanked the mix and never got asked to play again.

Some of us actually do care more about the music.

[lovelydivot]

The whole thing is immature...

And that's why I am so shocked - That as an adult - I am facing these issues more than ever.


I guess when white guys hit 24 and are comfortable with drinking, get a little money in their pocket...
- They turn their sites to scoring sex as a sport.

Gotta catch up with the black dudes who have been doing it since 14 - and that is NOT a whole different story or dynamic.


So It goes way beyond me being insecure - This is me hating these fuckers and their ultra sexed up hos.



I sound so mad in this post - but I really am not...I'm just frustrated with people trying to make me look like I'm the one with the petty issues.
This is not me with a petty issue - this is about a hypersexualized culture that leads to the breakdown of male/female relations to an extreme...

I've have friends from South America where machismo is rampant and they are fucked up to an extreme...

[garethom]

Funny, plenty of people here seem to have perfectly fine male female relations that don't seem to have fallen foul of hypersexualisation.

You make some genuinely bizarre comments, just, basically, are you uncomfortable that there are more confident people out there, or just uncomfortable that everyone isn't like you?

[lovelydivot]

Stop trying to make it seem like I'm mad because some girl looks cute in a sun dress.

That's not what I'm talking about.

[garethom]

Yeah, I dunno what you're talking about. If you look mad, I don't think it's because of what anybody else has said.

Goodbye.

[lovelydivot]

I'm uncomfortable with the normalization of this...

[Terpit]

You make some genuinely bizarre comments

[Genevieve]

fix me a sammich bla bla bla

Dude, you have no idea how awesome dis was to me. I've always seen massive holes in feminist theory and disagreed with it on the grounds of it being anti-individualist, but she made me research a lot of things and it turns out that feminist that all major feminist theories are bullshit. Especially the partriarchy.

Oh man, I'm gonna have so much fun with all the new stuff I've learned since looking into this.

[magma]

I'm uncomfortable with the normalization of this...

That's not normalisation, that's a gangster rapper with a history of pimping who's married to a porn star.

Jane from round the corner doesn't dress like Coco. Coco's an entertainer who came up through the sex industry she probably doesn't even dress like that herself when the cameras aren't on her.

You've spent the last 4 years on this site blaming every woman in the world for your own unhappiness. It's really not their fault that you refuse to take the world for what it is - it's nowhere near perfect, but you get ONE GO at being alive - you really want to let other people make you miserable?

I know women of all shapes, sizes and stylistic approaches (or lack of) who find happiness, success and love... you assume just because SOME people are shallow that all are.

Every time sex is brought up on the forum you throw a wobbly... I know we're quick to bite, but seriously.. it's not healthy to be this concerned with how other people dress themselves. Look after yourself. Find your own happiness because nobody else will find it for you. Let other people look after themselves. Stop turning them into excuses to do fuck all with your own existence.

[lovelydivot]

Seriously - Where did you get this shit from...

You've spent the last 4 years on this site blaming every woman in the world for your own unhappiness.

I never - not once said anything close to this - you are adding very distorted shit.


I don't need you to tell me what I've experienced or to what distorted degree.
I'm sharing my experience and views on a real issue.


You are just denying it because you benefit...

Haven't you seen the movie Dr. Strangelove? t's not new - and it's not fabricated by me...

[lovelydivot]

This is what it's like whenever I try to do something...Kibble Chaos

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[Genevieve]

Tbh, a life that is like a room full of kittens is purrty awesome

..that wasn't meant to be a pun. I use 'purty' all the time

[lovelydivot]

lol

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[lovelydivot]

I try to talk to my friend Dan at school - cats
I try to talk to Kode9 on twitter - cats
I try to meet for Japanese with my friend Ed - cats
Helixdelay comes over to spin records - he brings cats
South American lesbian friends - cats
DSF - cats

[lovelydivot]

now wu-tang with it..and do that thang

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[Phase Down]

You have some serious issues, I completely agree with what magma said, and you need to get the fuck over it, or learn how to use make-up, either way the choice is up to you.