what do you guys do when heart broken?

[chekov]

lol at this thread

[alphacat]

I remember what it was like to be young and have feelings that were overwhelming. Now I'm just bitter and jaded and old.

But:

My breakup cure was pretty simple. Listen to "Sailin' On" by Bad Brains like 10, 15 times in a row and dance to it in your own one-man pit.

You don't want me anymore
So I walk through the door
I play the game right from the start
I trust you, you use me, now my life's all torn apart

So I'm sailing, yeah I'm sailing on
I'm moving, yeah I'm moving on
Sail on, sail on, sail on, sail on

Tried to see if I'll give up
But there wasn't any luck
It's a fact, a fact of life
That's the game, game of strife everything is all in stride

So I'm sailing, yeah I'm sailing on
I'm moving, yeah I'm moving on
Sail on, sail on, sail on, sail on

So I'm sailing, yeah I'm sailing on
I'm moving, yeah I'm moving on
Sail on, sail on, sail on, sail on
Yeah, La-la-la, La-la-la

Too many years with too many tears
And too many days with none to say
So how will we know when there's nowhere to grow
And what's the facts for life to show?

[Johoosh]

9/10 would read again

[Samuel_L_Damnson]

You kissed someone else of course shes mad lol

[Eat Bass]

hahahaha! shit i forgot i posted this. bit of a train wreck thread eh. oh well lol, i gotta stick to my personification.

and you guys dont understand our relationship anyway. it sounds stupid to say i sacrificed countless hookups for her, but thats because i started dating her when i was 18. so i've only been with a few people because i have been committed to her. im just saying there was periods of temptation but im over that now. and no i didnt act immature because she acted immature. im saying her immature drama pushed me away to the point where i didnt want to be in the relationship anymore and it made me not care, and i ended up kissing a girl.

i slipped up but took some time off and realized i do love her. so she begged for me back so i said okay but we have to both try and change. i stuck to my end of the bargain and was a pretty good bf, but she just couldnt forgive me and ended up treating me like shit for 4 months then basically cutting me off. like if she was going to beg for me back and say we will both try to work on things but then not forgive me after four months and proving to her it was a huge mistake thats no longer on me. if she really loved me and wanted to work shit out, she would have forgiven me or just moved on in the first place. but she took pretty much the shittiest route she could have.

but oh well, ill just let it play out. nothing i can really do. i shouldn't have posted this thread but i was drunk as shit last night and probably thought it was a good idea at the time

[chekov]

it sounds stupid to say i sacrificed countless hookups for her, but thats because i started dating her when i was 18. so i've only been with a few people because i have been committed to her

doesn't sound much better put that way tbh

[Eat Bass]

it sounds stupid to say i sacrificed countless hookups for her, but thats because i started dating her when i was 18. so i've only been with a few people because i have been committed to her

doesn't sound much better put that way tbh

whatever man, i was young and went to college without my girlfriend and resisted temptation with a long distance relationship. my friends told me i was crazy. i was just pointing out the fact that i was committed. i know thats what you do when your in a relationship but a lot of people dont do it.

[kidshuffle]

before i read this thread, i need to post dis

[garethom]

lol Lyons, dunno if it's just your writing style but you come across like the most arrogant and naive person in this situation

"if she truly loved me, she wouldn't be upset at me for cheating on her"

just do more drugs again dude, no coke though, you've got a serious ego already (that, or a hench dick, cos you seem pretty confident in yourself)

[kidshuffle]

and enlist me in the army gwa. do it

[Eat Bass]

lol Lyons, dunno if it's just your writing style but you come across like the most arrogant and naive person in this situation

"if she truly loved me, she wouldn't be upset at me for cheating on her"

just do more drugs again dude, no coke though, you've got a serious ego already (that, or a hench dick, cos you seem pretty confident in yourself)

you missed the point. the point is she begged for me back after i cheated on her and we both agreed to fix things and try. but then she just treated me like shit for 4 months and didnt try shit. do you not get it? she should have either moved on in the first place or forgave me. and after 4 months of me proving to her my commitment, she never forgave me, so therefore she just should have moved on to begin with not begged for me back and made me try everything to fix things. you all love to quote one thing, throw it out of context and take a piss on it. its amusing none the less.

[Terpit]

Become an alcoholic. Trust. PM me ig you want tips.

[Liam92]

lol Lyons, dunno if it's just your writing style but you come across like the most arrogant and naive person in this situation

"if she truly loved me, she wouldn't be upset at me for cheating on her"

just do more drugs again dude, no coke though, you've got a serious ego already (that, or a hench dick, cos you seem pretty confident in yourself)

you missed the point. the point is she begged for me back after i cheated on her and we both agreed to fix things and try. but then she just treated me like shit for 4 months and didnt try shit. do you not get it? she should have either moved on in the first place or forgave me. and after 4 months of me proving to her my commitment, she never forgave me, so therefore she just should have moved on to begin with not begged for me back and made me try everything to fix things. you all love to quote one thing, throw it out of context and take a piss on it. its amusing none the less.

Still, doesn't seem like she's the bad person in this and it's difficult to forgive someone with a click of the fingers mate

[SCope13]

i know i give that impression. i am a bit conceited and douche baggy. however, once you get to know me im one of the most real and trust worthy friends you can have.

might sig this

[Genevieve]

Everyone understands the situation rather well, mah man. You're just repeating yourself saying the same thing with slightly different words. We get it. To people in a relationship, outsiders never "get it". But they do, it's called objectivity. You're telling us that we don't underatand your relationship because we're not blinded by emotions (I'm not attacking you, that's just how it works).

I've been in a really destructive, on both sides, relationship somewhere between "friends" and "couple" with a girl. Everyone told the both of us we were bad for each other and we kept telling everyone that they didn't 'get it'. We were blinded by lust, danger, excitement and no bullshit love. We were fucking CRACK to each other and we loved how bad we were treating each other. But we were fucking each other up bad and it took us a long time apart to realize that and to stop making excuses for each other and ourselves.

I get hit on the most when I'm with a girl. By some hotties too. Even when I was younger. I didn't think it was a sacrifice, it was my choice cuz I really wanted to be with my girlfriends. Grow up.

lol Lyons, dunno if it's just your writing style but you come across like the most arrogant and naive person in this situation

"if she truly loved me, she wouldn't be upset at me for cheating on her"

just do more drugs again dude, no coke though, you've got a serious ego already (that, or a hench dick, cos you seem pretty confident in yourself)

you missed the point. the point is she begged for me back after i cheated on her and we both agreed to fix things and try. but then she just treated me like shit for 4 months and didnt try shit. do you not get it? she should have either moved on in the first place or forgave me. and after 4 months of me proving to her my commitment, she never forgave me, so therefore she just should have moved on to begin with not begged for me back and made me try everything to fix things. you all love to quote one thing, throw it out of context and take a piss on it. its amusing none the less.

That's because you're both making each other stupid for each other and you're afraid of realizing that what you're doing is a bad thing. EVERYONE HAD THAT HAPPEN TO THEM. You love each other and hate each other. It's called being young. And most of us here are young.

Everyone gets it. What you don't get is that we think that neither of you have the balls to break up and rethink what you want out of a relationship.

[Eat Bass]

^ fair points. see im not objecting to anything you have said, but other people are taking shit out of context and trying to take the piss when its not due.

but anyways, we are broken up now. and im trying to give it space just to see what happens when it plays out. its just hard at the moment. and i didnt want her to forgive me at a snap of a finger, but if she agreed to try then she should have tried, not led me on for 4 months then just end things in the worst way possible. really theres nothing more to be said on it i dont think. like you said, its getting redundant so i guess lets just leave it be?

[skimpi]

Eat bass I think what we need to do here is just let me fucking bone your girlfriend and then we will take it from there see what happens ye?

I promise we wont kiss tho

[SCope13]

Just got done reading this thread....hearty laughs were had. Was difficult deciding which quote to sig, but I found my final decision to be particularly entertaining.

[Genevieve]

^ fair points. see im not objecting to anything you have said, but other people are taking shit out of context and trying to take the piss when its not due.

but anyways, we are broken up now. and im trying to give it space just to see what happens when it plays out. its just hard at the moment. and i didnt want her to forgive me at a snap of a finger, but if she agreed to try then she should have tried, not led me on for 4 months then just end things in the worst way possible. really theres nothing more to be said on it i dont think. like you said, its getting redundant so i guess lets just leave it be?

Aiight and you're taking it rather well haha. And you know.. if you feel you're sacrificing yourself. Really try to think if a relationship is right you. I've had times where I didn't want to be in a commited relationship and just bang, so it hasn't got much to do with you having to 'grow up', but think about your priorities. You prioritized banging girls over being commited and when you can't bang other girls, you blame her and call it a sacrifice. That was unfair. If you wanna be in a relationship, you gotta figure out what you want.

And love makes people irrational. I don't think she was trying to lead you on, but she loved you but sadly couldn't make it work. And you went along with it for 4 months without breaking it off. You could've ended the relationship after 1 or 2 months, but you want along for the entire 4. Both of you are to blame for your bad decisions. It wasn't easy for you to break it off and it wasn't for her. And just because you couldn't 'see' her try didn't mean that she didn't.

Take some time, bang some random girls and get on with your life. In 6 months you'll wonder why the fuck you stuck with her for so long.

[ninjadog]

My advise is to harden the fuck up. No way this should have reached 5 pages. And Genevieve is pretty much on point.