The Fedora/Cringe thread

[SignalRecon]

signal what happened to yr apostrophe?

French keybz at work :é

[ezza]

sometimes you smile at someone who isnt smiling/looks sad and then they smile... you've brightened their day

feminism is going to ruin that ffs

[ezza]

I'm not going in too hard on this one tbh... I can't believe anyone with half a brain buys all this anti-feminist shit. It's completely fucking mindless and I struggle to believe anyone really buys into it for the sake of anything more than lolz.

are you joking?

did you watch the vid

other than a few cases It's completely fucking mindless and I struggle to believe anyone really buys into the fact that sayin 'god bless you have a nice day' could offend or scare women

everyone is not ready to even be spoken to in a public situation so....

well, wounded to them

if i catch eyes with anyone on the street i normally nod/smile or say something

i mean even if u can make an argument for it, at the end of the day its so fucking small and harmless that getting upset over a guy smiling and wishing you a good day is dumb a/f imo

like i fully cant get my head round how that is a bad thing. ive read some of the feminist comments from that video on different sites and i just fully cannot see their point of view. can someone try explain to me what im missing

also to add to this. ive had girls smile at me and say hi. hows that different

i just dont get feminism when it boils down to this level of winging.

half of the video... ye bad

a quarter... ye maybe

the rest... absolutely harmless polite human interaction

[DJoe]

i think if you pick people up in the middle of the street or someone going about their day to day stuff, youre a fucking weirdo.
saying hi or nodding is perfectly fine tho
if youre not able to establish where that line is youve got problems

[SignalRecon]

if someone reciprocates and wants to talk to you its not weird dude. The only thing thats weird is if you`re trying to make something happen where theres no opportunity/the person jsut wants you to fuck off.

[DJoe]

to even be in that situation though youre actively going up to random ppl and effectively propositioning them. even if they reciprocate thats weird i also dont believe that everytime you do that youre 'succesful' as you put it

[Phigure]

Ez bud, I was beating the horse with that. I was hammered and you were feeling ways so i kept going.

I dunno what you`re talking about compensation tho tbf, Its just banter.

You`re always trying to pour hatorade on anything im on. Take it to snapchat or inbox if you have some feels you want to sort out k? Im serious. Jah bless.

Edit: Im not even boasting im just saying theres ways to talk to women in public without being rapey or a pushy creep if you look around. Anyways man, don`t lose sleep over this im sorry.

lol you're thinking of someone else (jags maybe?), this is the first time I've said something to you

[SignalRecon]

to even be in that situation though youre actively going up to random ppl and effectively propositioning them. even if they reciprocate thats weird i also dont believe that everytime you do that youre 'succesful' as you put it

No you`re not dude, you`re walking or going about your life and you catch someone giving you a look or a smile, you smile back and say hi, wtf is weird or propositional about that? You dont go up to people and stop them in their path and smile intensely at them while not blinking, the whole interaction is much much more casual then you seem to make it out as. How the fuck are you supposed to meet new people if you dont talk to people and give other people a chance to talk to you? You want to be that perennial sloppy seconds guy in the crew that only talks to his friends ex`s because he cant meet new people?

[DJoe]

No you`re not dude, you`re walking or going about your life and you catch someone giving you a look or a smile, you smile back and say hi, wtf is weird or propositional about that? You dont go up to people and stop them in their path and smile intensely at them while not blinking, the whole interaction is much much more casual then you seem to make it out as. How the fuck are you supposed to meet new people if you dont talk to people and give other people a chance to talk to you? You want to be that perennial sloppy seconds guy in the crew that only talks to his friends ex`s because he cant meet new people?

youre still talking to them with the intention of fucking them, not because youre being friendly or you want to be pals wiht them
its objectification

lol youre still going to be the sloppy seconds guy, just of someone else's crew, i highly doubt some yat you meet in the street is going to be a virgin. who cares about that anyway
i dont need to meet new people by talking to people in the street or the green grocers
i meet plenty of people through my friends, through going uni, through going to my job, throuhg djing (or whatever hobby). which is how most people meet other people, not through hoping that random people in the street whove smiled at me want to have sex with me

[SignalRecon]

No you`re not dude, you`re walking or going about your life and you catch someone giving you a look or a smile, you smile back and say hi, wtf is weird or propositional about that? You dont go up to people and stop them in their path and smile intensely at them while not blinking, the whole interaction is much much more casual then you seem to make it out as. How the fuck are you supposed to meet new people if you dont talk to people and give other people a chance to talk to you? You want to be that perennial sloppy seconds guy in the crew that only talks to his friends ex`s because he cant meet new people?

youre still talking to them with the intention of fucking them, not because youre being friendly or you want to be pals wiht them
its objectification

lol youre still going to be the sloppy seconds guy, just of someone else's crew, i highly doubt some yat you meet in the street is going to be a virgin. who cares about that anyway
i dont need to meet new people by talking to people in the street or the green grocers
i meet plenty of people through my friends, through going uni, through going to my job, throuhg djing (or whatever hobby). which is how most people meet other people, not through hoping that random people in the street whove smiled at me want to have sex with me

No man, Im talking to them to meet them and see if they are compatible/fun. I`ve met all my gf`s in a similar context at friends parties etc... its not objectification, wtf is this concept that any type of physical attraction is bad, the attraction isn't bad its how you treat the person beyond this point lmfao...by that logic you smiled and/or talked to girls at uni?? In the hallway or a class?? you fucking disgusting chauvinistic pig you talked to them and thought they were cute or mildly physically attractive and thought you would like to get to KNOW THEM!? You fucking disgust me.

As for sloppy seconds, i use the term locally, you know what i meant.

[DJoe]

lol im not going to bother going on maybe were just from different cultures. theres a difference between a social context and the middle of the street
back to sloppy seconds. i couldnt care less if someones fucked one of my mates, unless i know that particular mate is riddled

[soronery]

some people are just professional victims

[ezza]

No you`re not dude, you`re walking or going about your life and you catch someone giving you a look or a smile, you smile back and say hi, wtf is weird or propositional about that? You dont go up to people and stop them in their path and smile intensely at them while not blinking, the whole interaction is much much more casual then you seem to make it out as. How the fuck are you supposed to meet new people if you dont talk to people and give other people a chance to talk to you? You want to be that perennial sloppy seconds guy in the crew that only talks to his friends ex`s because he cant meet new people?

youre still talking to them with the intention of fucking them, not because youre being friendly or you want to be pals wiht them
its objectification

lol youre still going to be the sloppy seconds guy, just of someone else's crew, i highly doubt some yat you meet in the street is going to be a virgin. who cares about that anyway
i dont need to meet new people by talking to people in the street or the green grocers
i meet plenty of people through my friends, through going uni, through going to my job, throuhg djing (or whatever hobby). which is how most people meet other people, not through hoping that random people in the street whove smiled at me want to have sex with me

i dont get whats wrong with that lol

its all natural instincts at the end of the day.

if woman cant get over the fact that men want to fuck them, then they've got a problem which is never going to be fixed (and the other way round... women like men too if u didnt know lolol )

the least you can do as a man is be friendly and polite about it

but honestly i smile and say hello to people just out of common courtesy, sometimes i dont even realise they're hot at first

i love strangers who are friendly basically. peak that nowadays thats a crime against women

the ppl arguing with this... how did u meet your gfs or ex's out of curiosity?

[ezza]

wtf is this concept that any type of physical attraction is bad, the attraction isn't bad its how you treat the person beyond this point

thats basically what im getting at

attraction is human instict, its not going away. how you handle it is what shoud matter. dont be a fucking rapey creep basiclyz

[nobody]

It's all about being chatty with people, you can tell straight away if they don't wanna talk, you're only being a pest if you persist and they clearly want nothing to do with you.

[ezza]

word

[DJoe]

im not saying theres anything wrong with smiling and talking to random people.

[ezza]

oh sik

thats all my point was

i think thats what signals is sayin too doe

[DJoe]

yeah i think i just get that creepy vibe of signals. i think its the finger in the bum snapchat and the constant retelling of how he fucks bare gyal

[Harkat]

this should be its own thread