The things that pissed you off today ™ thread

[mason666]

The father had the correct response Imo violence won't change shit

Did he actually rape her or try to kiss her or summin?

[hubb]

Exactly

But you're not bringing any nuance to this subject dudes. This is just one upping each other now. Like just mentioning tough shit we've heard of.

[nobody]

what did he do to her?

[hifi]

Exactly

But you're not bringing any nuance to this subject dudes. This is just one upping each other now. Like just mentioning tough shit we've heard of.

kinda knew this from the getgo, little clearer now/less flustered,

situation:friend and the perp were downstairs, parents + victim asleep 2nd floor. perp crept upstairs (drunken stupor, no empathy from me) into sisters bedroom, she was really terrified but didn't yell. after he was done, he went downstairs & she went into the master bedroom to tell her parents what just happened.

[nobody]

full on vaginal fuck?

[hifi]

yea, trying so hard not to be solinear , blemishes cause i feel wrong sayin f*cd

[nobody]

i'd go and punish him tbh, with a blunt object.

[hifi]

i'm thinking i'd challenge him 1 versus 1 on the court caus my dribbling has improved along w/ my skill as a center

[nobody]

good idea

[hifi]

how can i simulate that overreaction (fisticuff) so i get a better vision of the yield ie influence approach / see how many technical jabs i land if i

[hifi]

sorry, im weak, this is more Akin to my Capabilty

pce

[nobody]

shit on his head

[nobody]

so annoying when an ex gets fitter

[soronery]

so annoying when an ex gets fitter

Don't stalk their FB then

[nobody]

it's not stalking if they pop up on your news feed

[hubb]

I'm with you on the vigilante side of it (on a felt level). And needing to vent .
There's no excusing this at all.

But the dad in the family basically decided for all involved (as a parent) that this wasn't a rape.
(Atleast from what you are telling us, hifi)

I don't even know if it's important if it's a rape or actual penetration happening though. Anything forced like that which the kid might have to associate to having sex from then on via the fear she experienced is obviously his responsibility in a lot of ways.

TBH the dad could either have handled it really smart doing that or it could be a sign of weakness/fear.

It could be that the parents decided that the victimisation itself in a grey scale situation like this could be the worst part and at the same time it being the 'notion' of a rape happening that makes it so incredibly tough to bare for the rest of you - 'bistanders'.

[Harkat]

that's scary shit. Like women talking about how the trial etc after they report their rape being worse than the incident itself.

Seems impossible to avoid doesn't it, as to not have that "notion" as you say you'd have to take rape less seriously in a way, which sounds horrible/impossible doesn't it?

[hubb]

TBH we do actually have a stupid as fuck society where violence has to happen for most men to be able to comprehend there being a negative side to a rape.
At least in the sense that our judicial system is a retarded macho bully.

Maybe a rape is really anything where you turn a situation into unwanted sex. There could be sexy stuff going on willingly previously to the moment where its then RAPE. That would be the sensible version.

[hubb]

that's scary shit. Like women talking about how the trial etc after they report their rape being worse than the incident itself.

Seems impossible to avoid doesn't it, as to not have that "notion" as you say you'd have to take rape less seriously in a way, which sounds horrible/impossible doesn't it?

Just this point by itself. There's that Louie CK bit where he talks about treating pedofiles with less fear. Louie basicly asking the pedofile to call him up to say when he's done with his kid so that Louie can come and pick him up now that he's through, so the pedo wouldn't decide to just throw the kid in a ditch.

[mason666]

so annoying when an ex gets fitter

i keep dreaming about exes and it makes me sad :'(