friends with the ex

bright maroon · Post by **bright maroon** » Sat Apr 05, 2008 2:09 pm

I think if you make a break clear enough at first, then you shouldn't have problems being friends..unless someone is deliberatly trying to deceive you back into it for a moment. You can usually detect that behavior fairly quickly and go about reinstating the break.

My ex would have gladly gone about partaking of my services for years if he could be single again in the moment he walked away from me.

I guess this depends on both partys and what they are after.

Relationships are so complex that to analyze them for truth is probably futile.

bright maroon · Post by **bright maroon** » Sat Apr 05, 2008 2:23 pm

I have problems just making friends these days - let alone something commital.

I'm afraid to say hello to a complete stranger out of fear of rejection - How ridiculous is that!!

I liked it when the friend platform was huge and wide...This is before everyone began assuming you were buking everyone spoken to. Maybe we should have an art of friend deliniation thread for pussy pilots having problems with the princess landmine situation.

Extreme Navigation was hard BEFORE they started pulling that blind simultaneous reality lying mirror image trap.

Trust - I'm worried about the cryptic flourescing.

Jubz · Post by **Jubz** » Sat Apr 05, 2008 3:03 pm

I'm not friends with any ex's. Corpses don't make good conversation.

shonky · Post by **shonky** » Sat Apr 05, 2008 3:10 pm

bright maroon wrote: should have an art of friend deliniation thread for pussy pilots having problems with the princess landmine situation.

Love this sentence whatever the fuck it means

ed g · Post by **ed g** » Sat Apr 05, 2008 3:10 pm

Jubscarz wrote:Corpsey don't make good conversation.

Yeah, but you shouldn't hold that against him.

Jubz · Post by **Jubz** » Sat Apr 05, 2008 5:36 pm

Ed G wrote:
Jubscarz wrote:Corpsey don't make good conversation.
Yeah, but you shouldn't hold that against him.

I don't, it's usually a blunt instrument I hold against him.

amykamala · Post by **amykamala** » Sat Apr 05, 2008 7:22 pm

Step Correct wrote:lol

you shut it punk ass, don't make me call you out about your ex

pablex · Post by **pablex** » Sat Apr 05, 2008 7:40 pm

gmk wrote:atm i'm living proof that's possible, we got over eachother big time, and we're really good friends, don't see the problem.
But it depends on the ones involved really and why they broke-up, that's why some people can and some don't. But you should never generalize and say it's impossibe, because it isn't. Francly, I never understood people who CAN'T remain friends with their ex after they've broke up from a non-serious issue.

thank you for this reply,
i'm in a situation where i would rather be more than friends but she decided things to be different,
however, she's too important for me to not be friends so i'm not going to see her for a few months untill i think i'm over her, or longer, to ensure that i'm over her.
but i hope it gets to be more than that again.
however, i think your last line is pretty important,
the "non-serious issue" bit.
things having failed to stay friends with my ex from over a year ago isn't encouraging when you're trying to do the same thing again.
good thing situations are completly different, this time i feel like i'm dealing with someone who will respect me when necessary and required, and is only selfish when really needed.

ontherise · Post by **ontherise** » Sat Apr 05, 2008 8:23 pm

Gena wrote:
frebentos wrote:
horse wrote:yeah it is possible

we have a good laugh and we know each other so well, we are like best mates. the split was tough but mutual, we both knew it was the end of the relationship and we decided to just be friends.

x2
x3 ... my 2 last ones was catastrophy though... won't ever talk to them again

x3.1 Oh is this not Trisha Goddards helpline..

andreamia · Post by **andreamia** » Sun Apr 06, 2008 7:22 pm

mikey g wrote:
nesslei wrote:
Gena wrote:
frebentos wrote:
horse wrote:yeah it is possible
x2
x3
x 4
x5

X6, 7, 8 - chin up, put your ego aside, and move along now. life to be lived and all that.

ontherise · Post by **ontherise** » Sun Apr 06, 2008 9:58 pm

andreamia wrote:
mikey g wrote:
nesslei wrote:
Gena wrote:
frebentos wrote: x2
x3
x 4
x5
X6, 7, 8 - chin up, put your ego aside, and move along now. life to be lived and all that.

Trisha Goddard >>UK's answer to 'Ricky Lake' tho she thinks she 's more of an Ophra.

I quite like my ego where i can see it, right in front of me, ta for the advice tho

tempest · Post by **tempest** » Mon Apr 07, 2008 12:09 am

I thought it was protocol to just use the ex for casual sex if it's dry after you break up when you thought you was gunna be all pimpin after losing the missus... but then your all like baby i miss you, then hit it. then be awkward. nope. can't be friends.

deviousdubs · Post by **deviousdubs** » Wed Apr 09, 2008 4:09 am

fuck no

most are psycho's ex's by this point in time.

doesn't help if your pretty bipolar yourself.

Cheers lads and lasses

parson · Post by **parson** » Wed Apr 09, 2008 4:10 am

tempest wrote:I thought it was protocol to just use the ex for casual sex if it's dry after you break up when you thought you was gunna be all pimpin after losing the missus... but then your all like baby i miss you, then hit it. then be awkward. nope. can't be friends.

this is pretty lol

amykamala · Post by **amykamala** » Wed Apr 09, 2008 4:19 am

Parson wrote:
tempest wrote:I thought it was protocol to just use the ex for casual sex if it's dry after you break up when you thought you was gunna be all pimpin after losing the missus... but then your all like baby i miss you, then hit it. then be awkward. nope. can't be friends.
this is pretty lol

there are better candidates for casual sex then the ex

but shit why not have an entire collection.

drksteppa · Post by **drksteppa** » Wed Apr 09, 2008 4:42 am

i forgot to say, if your gonna be friends with the ex, make sure theres benefits.

if not, BYE!

parson · Post by **parson** » Wed Apr 09, 2008 4:48 am

sometimes withholding sex is the sweetest of victories though

amykamala · Post by **amykamala** » Wed Apr 09, 2008 5:29 am

Parson wrote:sometimes withholding sex is the sweetest of victories though

you're evil!! and thats hot !!!

(i do that with mine to get my way.

)

nesslei · Post by **nesslei** » Wed Apr 09, 2008 6:58 am

Parson wrote:sometimes withholding sex is the sweetest of victories though

sometimes sex is the one thing you DON'T want from them anymore... hence the reason they're your friend now not your lover.

parson · Post by **parson** » Wed Apr 09, 2008 7:03 am

sometimes the tnuc is a cheater and she's never gettin any again no matter how much she waggles her booty at 3am

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