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Post by fuagofire » Sun Apr 20, 2008 4:36 pm

missbrass wrote:theres actually some truth to that...
I have had a guy friend, Ian... and well, we have been together practically this whole week... I mean, we were at a show yesterday, and he held my hand the whole time ( since I am currently borderline crippled ) and i love him to death, but would NEVER do anything with him. Hes an amazing friend, and thats it.
lol surely if hes gay he would't want a bit on you either?

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Post by MissBrass » Sun Apr 20, 2008 4:48 pm

fuagofire wrote:
missbrass wrote:theres actually some truth to that...
I have had a guy friend, Ian... and well, we have been together practically this whole week... I mean, we were at a show yesterday, and he held my hand the whole time ( since I am currently borderline crippled ) and i love him to death, but would NEVER do anything with him. Hes an amazing friend, and thats it.
lol surely if hes gay he would't want a bit on you either?
haha...well, when we met, we hit it off, but never quite in THAT way. He's been around long enough to see me with about 3 boyfriends, and I 've been around long enough to see him with a bunch hos.
And when we hang out, he's always asking for advice on his females and shit. So yeah, maybe one day he wanted to, but I highly doubt thats the case.
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Post by sand leaper » Sun Apr 20, 2008 8:23 pm

Diss04 wrote:..when a guys single no ones interested but when they're with someone they are? :?
Several reasons, some of which have already been covered.

One that hasn't been mentioned, however, is that when women meet guys who are taken, they reckon it's more likely that they can interact without having to worry about the complications of sex. Pretty similar reason to why women enjoy going to gay bars.

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Post by theevilgirl » Mon Apr 21, 2008 9:21 pm

Fuck Guys.....I just wanna dance.

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Post by MissBrass » Mon Apr 21, 2008 9:38 pm

TheEvilGirl wrote:Fuck Guys.....I just wanna dance.
alright, whitney houston.
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Post by diss04 » Mon Apr 21, 2008 9:43 pm

missbrass wrote:
TheEvilGirl wrote:Fuck Guys.....I just wanna dance.
alright, whitney houston.
:lol:
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Post by shane » Mon Apr 21, 2008 9:48 pm

i get lots of girls interested in me that already have bfs. first its like "right on, i'm doing something right" then its like "enough already, i'm not into chicks w/bfs anymore" cause it always ends in games or drama.

single girls are a whole different story though. when i flirt with girls that are already occupied it comes super easy but its probably because i'm not actively trying to hook up with them, just being my normal flirty self. when it comes to single chicks i'm more shy because i make myself feel like there is something to lose.

i haven't noticed a difference in the number of girls that pursue me whether or not i'm single.

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Post by MissBrass » Mon Apr 21, 2008 9:48 pm

Diss04 wrote:
missbrass wrote:
TheEvilGirl wrote:Fuck Guys.....I just wanna dance.
alright, whitney houston.
:lol:
pardon me, she wants to feel the heat with somebody as well.
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Post by boy_arena » Mon Apr 21, 2008 9:49 pm

this is so true. :|

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Post by step correct » Mon Apr 21, 2008 10:51 pm

This is true, but there are ways around it. For the most part it's basic animal instincts...pheromones and such.

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Post by gravious » Mon Apr 21, 2008 11:16 pm

fuagofire wrote: oh yes and the classic one is ' i do like you but ive known you for so long it would be like sleeping with my brother '
In Iowa that is a come-on.

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Post by MissBrass » Tue Apr 22, 2008 12:19 am

gravious wrote:
fuagofire wrote: oh yes and the classic one is ' i do like you but ive known you for so long it would be like sleeping with my brother '
In Iowa that is a come-on.

BAHAHAHHAHAHA
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Post by djelements » Tue Apr 22, 2008 1:19 am

Time to inject some emo into this.

I'm a spastic asshole, as you guys can tell from my threads on here, but I'm actually a pretty caring person, girls just never give me the chance to like... Express my feelings and shit. And when I meet a girl that I'm really into, OF COURSE she's dating my fucking antithesis, the Perfect Boyfriend™ and I end up becoming her best friend. And let me tell you, I have TOO MANY fucking female best friends... It is not fun at all.
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Post by parson » Tue Apr 22, 2008 1:21 am

DJelements wrote:Time to inject some emo into this.

I'm a spastic asshole, as you guys can tell from my threads on here, but I'm actually a pretty caring person, girls just never give me the chance to like... Express my feelings and shit. And when I meet a girl that I'm really into, OF COURSE she's dating my fucking antithesis, the Perfect Boyfriend™ and I end up becoming her best friend. And let me tell you, I have TOO MANY fucking female best friends... It is not fun at all.
it wont ever change :D

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Post by djelements » Tue Apr 22, 2008 1:22 am

Parson wrote:
DJelements wrote:Time to inject some emo into this.

I'm a spastic asshole, as you guys can tell from my threads on here, but I'm actually a pretty caring person, girls just never give me the chance to like... Express my feelings and shit. And when I meet a girl that I'm really into, OF COURSE she's dating my fucking antithesis, the Perfect Boyfriend™ and I end up becoming her best friend. And let me tell you, I have TOO MANY fucking female best friends... It is not fun at all.
it wont ever change :D
Bastid.
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Post by werd2jah » Tue Apr 22, 2008 2:15 am

tempest wrote:
Delendi wrote:cos we're mentalist fuckwits

WERD.

i take it yu want my opinion :lol: :lol:

ill take a quote from my old friend "jack nicholas" from "as good as it gets" they are without logic and accountability, :lol: :lol:

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Post by djelements » Tue Apr 22, 2008 2:30 am

Werd2jaH wrote:
tempest wrote:
Delendi wrote:cos we're mentalist fuckwits

WERD.

i take it yu want my opinion :lol: :lol:

ill take a quote from my old friend "jack nicholas" from "as good as it gets" they are without logic and accountability, :lol: :lol:
haha smooooooth.
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Post by theevilgirl » Tue Apr 22, 2008 6:41 am

missbrass wrote:
Diss04 wrote:
missbrass wrote:
TheEvilGirl wrote:Fuck Guys.....I just wanna dance.
alright, whitney houston.
:lol:
pardon me, she wants to feel the heat with somebody as well.
LMAO! Have you been praying for me?!

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Post by sand leaper » Tue Apr 22, 2008 9:06 am

Better late than never:

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Post by kidlogic » Tue Apr 22, 2008 9:08 am

bellybelle wrote:
Delendi wrote:we forget that we're animals whose purpose is to reproduce. just like lions and reindeer we look for the strongest, healthiest partner because it's in our reproductive mindset to make strong healthy babies. even coming down to things like teeth... wonky teeth get food stuck in, making teeth rot, making them fall out, making eating hard and the owner of the no-more teeth become dependant on others (in back to nature times, before dentures). we subconsciously want a strong bloodline the same as animals do. it's all a big old courtship ritual, confused by relationships.

I guess...but wouldn't that mean that men would choose women who had a higher hip to waist ratio than whats more popular now? I mean, as much as we are partially programmed by biology, we also can't ignore the rapid changes in standards of beauty for women. In the 1970's, women were curvier, bustier, softly shaped and yadda yadda. If you look at the women who were "gorgeous" just 20-30 yrs ago and compare them to today's women, they are average nowadays. I loved that thread about the Original Hottie Gyal, because those ladies are absolutely beautiful, but I also know that quite a few of those gorgeous ladies would be passed over and made to do Camryn Manheim best friend roles to the hot girl roles in movies.

Shame really. If good ladies and gents could just find each other and leave the shallow, vapid people to their own, this wouldn't be much of a problem. Good girls and good guys can find decent people and not spend their time wondering why things aren't workin' out...
I think part of that is just that the current version has just been so force fed to us... It took me a long time to realize
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