love

kamala · Post by **kamala** » Wed Jun 18, 2008 4:27 am

love don't come easy

and it sure as fuck don't fade easy either

psyolopher · Post by **psyolopher** » Wed Jun 18, 2008 2:30 pm

kamala wrote:love don't come easy

and it sure as fuck don't fade easy either

Yeah, tryin to get over mine!

pdomino · Post by **pdomino** » Wed Jun 18, 2008 2:40 pm

kamala wrote:love don't come easy
and it sure as fuck don't fade easy either

The ones, aint shamed, been a good year or 2 for me.

theevilgirl · Post by **theevilgirl** » Wed Jun 18, 2008 3:14 pm

ive never been in love....

so i dont know what its like...

as quoted from Amelie...

"a woman without love wilts like a flower with no sun."

yes im fuckin bitter about it.

kins83 · Post by **kins83** » Wed Jun 18, 2008 3:33 pm

TheEvilGirl wrote:ive never been in love....

so i dont know what its like...

That's a curse and a blessing all rolled into one.

bellybelle · Post by **bellybelle** » Wed Jun 18, 2008 3:41 pm

kins83 wrote:
TheEvilGirl wrote:ive never been in love....

so i dont know what its like...

That's a curse and a blessing all rolled into one.

and because of that.....when you're feelin it.... man its better than every single drug high rolled into one

better than good ice cream cake

better than warm weather

better than anything....

Its as if you win at life. Thats the best kinda lottery to win...

theevilgirl · Post by **theevilgirl** » Wed Jun 18, 2008 3:56 pm

im gonna go cut myself now....

kins83 · Post by **kins83** » Wed Jun 18, 2008 3:56 pm

bellybelle wrote:
and because of that.....when you're feelin it.... man its better than every single drug high rolled into one

And the comedown is on a similar vibe...

bellybelle · Post by **bellybelle** » Wed Jun 18, 2008 4:00 pm

kins83 wrote:
bellybelle wrote:
and because of that.....when you're feelin it.... man its better than every single drug high rolled into one

And the comedown is on a similar vibe...

true that. I was in love once before current. And I have to say....it took me several years and a few bfs before I really got over it. Its not easy....very rough actually. When you hear those stories of people who wanna die afterwards.....until you're in it, you'll never know how accurate a description it is...

It'll toughen you up, for sure....but.....its not an easy road at all

kins83 · Post by **kins83** » Wed Jun 18, 2008 4:10 pm

bellybelle wrote:
kins83 wrote:
bellybelle wrote:
and because of that.....when you're feelin it.... man its better than every single drug high rolled into one

And the comedown is on a similar vibe...

true that. I was in love once before current. And I have to say....it took me several years and a few bfs before I really got over it. Its not easy....very rough actually. When you hear those stories of people who wanna die afterwards.....until you're in it, you'll never know how accurate a description it is...

It'll toughen you up, for sure....but.....its not an easy road at all

Yeah, I'm 7 months down the line from a break up, and I'm still a fucking mess. She wants to stay friends too which is probably worse. Still, plenty more fish in the sea.

jah wobble · Post by **jah wobble** » Wed Jun 18, 2008 4:27 pm

kins83 wrote:Yeah, I'm 7 months down the line from a break up, and I'm still a fucking mess. She wants to stay friends too which is probably worse. Still, plenty more fish in the sea.

stop torturing yourself and cut out that cancer, man. you'll be happier for it.

elbe · Post by **elbe** » Wed Jun 18, 2008 4:28 pm

kins83 wrote:
bellybelle wrote:
kins83 wrote:
bellybelle wrote:
and because of that.....when you're feelin it.... man its better than every single drug high rolled into one

And the comedown is on a similar vibe...

true that. I was in love once before current. And I have to say....it took me several years and a few bfs before I really got over it. Its not easy....very rough actually. When you hear those stories of people who wanna die afterwards.....until you're in it, you'll never know how accurate a description it is...

It'll toughen you up, for sure....but.....its not an easy road at all
Yeah, I'm 7 months down the line from a break up, and I'm still a fucking mess. She wants to stay friends too which is probably worse. Still, plenty more fish in the sea.

friends can work out well, thats the route I went down, then again she was my best friend, still is today.

tho as I understand it I am one of the lucky few.

psyolopher · Post by **psyolopher** » Wed Jun 18, 2008 4:37 pm

eLBe wrote:
kins83 wrote:
bellybelle wrote:
kins83 wrote:
bellybelle wrote:
and because of that.....when you're feelin it.... man its better than every single drug high rolled into one

And the comedown is on a similar vibe...

true that. I was in love once before current. And I have to say....it took me several years and a few bfs before I really got over it. Its not easy....very rough actually. When you hear those stories of people who wanna die afterwards.....until you're in it, you'll never know how accurate a description it is...

It'll toughen you up, for sure....but.....its not an easy road at all
Yeah, I'm 7 months down the line from a break up, and I'm still a fucking mess. She wants to stay friends too which is probably worse. Still, plenty more fish in the sea.
friends can work out well, thats the route I went down, then again she was my best friend, still is today. tho as I understand it I am one of the lucky few.

Hope so to, i made a bad mistake by getting sexually involved with my best friend! After a year, she didnt want me this way!
and im currently trying to pick my head up together!
Dont want to loose her as friend, relaly the best one i had!

Fuck

bellybelle · Post by **bellybelle** » Wed Jun 18, 2008 4:53 pm

eLBe wrote:
kins83 wrote:
bellybelle wrote:
kins83 wrote:
bellybelle wrote:
and because of that.....when you're feelin it.... man its better than every single drug high rolled into one

And the comedown is on a similar vibe...

true that. I was in love once before current. And I have to say....it took me several years and a few bfs before I really got over it. Its not easy....very rough actually. When you hear those stories of people who wanna die afterwards.....until you're in it, you'll never know how accurate a description it is...

It'll toughen you up, for sure....but.....its not an easy road at all
Yeah, I'm 7 months down the line from a break up, and I'm still a fucking mess. She wants to stay friends too which is probably worse. Still, plenty more fish in the sea.
friends can work out well, thats the route I went down, then again she was my best friend, still is today. tho as I understand it I am one of the lucky few.

Same here. That guy is one of my closest friends and I can talk to him about everything. And since he knows me, he can always help me figure out things I can't see when I'm in it. Sucks, tho, that we had to travel such a painful road to get to the friendship. Five years later, I can finally just shoot the shit with him and its ok. No residuals. And all he wants me to do is be happy. Good friend, indeed. We're so totally wrong for each other now.....both grew in two diff directions so I can see why it was necessary....but...he's still a stand up guy. I'm very happy for he and his lady and I keep pushin him to marry her....I mean 4.5 years?! Shit or get off the pot jeeeeebus....LOL anyhooo....

Yeah....it can work.

djelements · Post by **djelements** » Wed Jun 18, 2008 11:46 pm

TheEvilGirl wrote:

im gonna go cut myself now....

I'll be your emo buddy.

nousd · Post by **nousd** » Thu Jun 19, 2008 12:59 am

This worked for me:
DO NOT GO ANYWHERE NEAR THEM (quit or move if necessary)
then
every time you drift into thinking about them
cut the thought
think of something else
keep doing it.

Keep cutting out the thoughts.

tempest · Post by **tempest** » Thu Jun 19, 2008 1:32 am

cutting out the thoughts??? fuck that..

if you think its worth saving, have a crack at it... if you can get some roots in the afternath to make it easier, do it...

my opinion anyway... sort of going through it now tho, so should be interesting to see my opinion with a bit more hindsight..

psyolopher · Post by **psyolopher** » Thu Jun 19, 2008 8:52 am

Notice that people here on dubstep forum talk 50% more about sex than Love?
Amazing!

bellybelle · Post by **bellybelle** » Thu Jun 19, 2008 2:03 pm

Psyolopher wrote:Notice that people here on dubstep forum talk 50% more about sex than Love?
Amazing!

more like a sad commentary on our contemporary state of affairs, tbh. SMH

pdomino · Post by **pdomino** » Thu Jun 19, 2008 2:36 pm

Evilgirl better be cutting up the buds ... and Kins shouldnt even get all 'friends' with ex ...

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