love

dr ddd · Post by **dr ddd** » Thu Aug 07, 2008 3:22 pm

it may be wrong of me, but i think i may well have fallen head over heels in love with my brand spanking new dishwasher...

(and yes i do mean the electric kind you plug into the wall and plumb into the mains... not some personal slave i have to do all my bidding - the latter is currently on order

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djelements · Post by **djelements** » Thu Aug 07, 2008 7:51 pm

Mr Hyde wrote:
bright maroon wrote:
DJelements wrote:Also... I'm pretty much completely in love. It's weird to think I've met the girl that I want to spend the rest of my life with at 17. But I really think I have. I mean, Jesus Christ, she likes Samiyam, and thinks my jokes are funny. The problem is that she lives miles away. 1024 miles away, to be exact.
That sound great..but I suggest you take some time and I mean - get to at least age 24 before you go deciding about the rest of your life..

people change greatly@24..and @28. That's called growing up.

..and be careful of the baby crazy girls ages 16-26..they are freakin' mentaly..and they don't care about providing daddies for the babies, but they will grab your cash.

That's my parental advice for the day...
i typed pretty much exactly the same but then decided not to reply as its perhaps a bit cuntish to try and dash young love....

but yeah my advise (not that it was asked for!), and i think pretty much anyones advise who is in their late 20's would be to hang out with friends, meet as many people and do as much stuff as you can, grow up and become your own person before getting too attached to one person and contemplating settling down...people change a lot more than they think they will, youth goes quickly- and once you are older you'll still have 40+ years just with one person and might well wish you'd played the field a bit more....(and this is from someone who stayed with 1 girl for 6 years since 22)

each to their own though, best of luck- from a bitter grumpy old git!

When I first met her,I figured she was just a cool girl. I've found out she's so much more. She's had a hard life, and so it would be even harder for me not to love her. I've a thing for mentalist girls, ya get me? But it's really weird... Like I found out shit about her that standardly would just make me go "Oh well, uh, that's undateable" but now, I just think it's cute or something... I mean, we have to give it time and all, but I'd love to spend my life with her.

nesslei · Post by **nesslei** » Thu Aug 07, 2008 10:07 pm

please define 'mentalist' in this context, i need enlightening on the subject

datura · Post by **datura** » Thu Aug 07, 2008 10:29 pm

At the moment I am in love with this album

and yes, I want his suit too

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8mBaIC0-cus

djelements · Post by **djelements** » Fri Aug 08, 2008 12:17 am

nesslei wrote:please define 'mentalist' in this context, i need enlightening on the subject

I attract emotional baggage like a magnet.

nousd · Post by **nousd** » Fri Aug 08, 2008 8:46 am

There's stuff I love doing...
surfing by myself,
Friday nights listening to mixes,
watching my team beat overdogs,
realizing a family member is happy,
winter rain greening empty fields,
conversing with chilled, unaffected peeps,
tasting leathery Hunter Shiraz,
dancing into the astral.
Man, there is so much to love eh.

dr ddd · Post by **dr ddd** » Fri Aug 08, 2008 9:36 am

SD5 wrote:There's stuff I love doing...
surfing by myself,
Friday nights listening to mixes,
watching my team beat overdogs,
realizing a family member is happy,
winter rain greening empty fields,
conversing with chilled, unaffected peeps,
tasting leathery Hunter Shiraz,
dancing into the astral.
Man, there is so much to love eh.

NICE! excellent choice

I haven't had that in time... you've just inspired me to go out and hunt down a bottle, thanks!

nousd · Post by **nousd** » Mon Aug 11, 2008 1:25 pm

^hard to find here for reasonable price...sell it all to Europe!

In a perverse way, I love
not being able to tell her
what I need to tell her,
for, in the passing of years,
I am tantalized,
by deliciously delayed,
incipient tragedy.

Irresolute,
falsely selfless,
patiently manipulative,
I fool no one.

nesslei · Post by **nesslei** » Mon Aug 11, 2008 3:07 pm

SD5 wrote: In a perverse way, I love
not being able to tell her
what I need to tell her,
for, in the passing of years,
I am tantalized,
by deliciously delayed,
incipient tragedy.

Irresolute,
falsely selfless,
patiently manipulative,
I fool no one.

wow. beautiful.

nousd · Post by **nousd** » Wed Aug 13, 2008 12:08 am

^initially flattered mate

but then I've started thinking:
fuck, that's wierd;
just confessed I'm a lying masochist
and that can be seen as beautiful!
Now that is interesting.

djelements · Post by **djelements** » Wed Aug 13, 2008 2:18 am

I'm happy. I got to hear my girlfriend's voice again today.

jaybird · Post by **jaybird** » Wed Aug 13, 2008 2:55 am

I was madly in love wif a lady that totally started to take advantage of me on our relationship, and at first I really didn't realize it.

The point that I knew that there was a major problem was the last time I took her to my families small beach house.

This is a place that I have gone every summer for my entire life. In all my life I cannot remember a time when this place did not bring some sort of joy (relaxation, fun, serenity, etc).

I dun really need to get into details, but the point is.. She made my happy place, not a happy place. This really pushed me over the edge (along wif a ton of other shit, that my stupid ass put up wif).

It's a shame too, because we have been together for a long time, but I cannot stand for this.

I hope to one day find the right women..

tempest · Post by **tempest** » Wed Aug 13, 2008 3:16 am

Man that sucks... Good on ya for not standin for it tho, lots of people are happy to get shat on for a good part of their life..

I especially liked this plural right here tho haha

jaybird wrote: I hope to one day find the right women..

kamala · Post by **kamala** » Wed Aug 13, 2008 3:19 am

tempest wrote:Man that sucks... Good on ya for not standin for it tho, lots of people are happy to get shat on for a good part of their life..

I especially liked this plural right here tho haha

jaybird wrote: I hope to one day find the right women..

... fruedian slip i suppose

kamala · Post by **kamala** » Wed Aug 13, 2008 2:39 pm

fuagofire · Post by **fuagofire** » Wed Aug 13, 2008 6:49 pm

anyone else find they tend to fall in love with people who arn't interested rather than people who are? im fucking terrible for this, i think it might be called stupid tnuc syndrome or summit

bellybelle · Post by **bellybelle** » Wed Aug 13, 2008 7:02 pm

fuagofire wrote:anyone else find they tend to fall in love with people who arn't interested rather than people who are? im fucking terrible for this, i think it might be called stupid tnuc syndrome or summit

i think people like a challenge. so you could be sitting besides Mister Right in every way, shape, or form, but somehow, because he's accessible, you don't want him (Miss for the guys). Yet if there's some cat who could care less that you exist or not, you're inexplicably drawn, as if its a special cookie to get someone interested in you that hadn't been....

what sucks is that usually in those situations, there is someone lookin at you real hard trying to figure out why not them while you're off chasin someone else askin "Why not me?"...a lovely web that is.. You become that pedestal person to someone else without even realizing it.

which continues to suck even more when the person idolizing you gives up and moves on, which is the perfect trigger for you to finally appreciate them and want the chance to make it work...

hrm.. its like a romantic comedy with no happy ending cuz its real life.

psyolopher · Post by **psyolopher** » Wed Aug 13, 2008 8:34 pm

LOVE ME!!!

jaybird · Post by **jaybird** » Wed Aug 13, 2008 9:03 pm

tempest wrote:
I especially liked this plural right here tho haha

jaybird wrote: I hope to one day find the right women..

theevilgirl · Post by **theevilgirl** » Thu Aug 14, 2008 7:40 am

"What is “frustration”? Or what is “anger” or “love”? When I say “love” the sound comes out of my mouth and hits the other person’s ear travels through the byzantine conduit in their brain through their memories of love or lack of love. They say they understand, but how do I know they understand? Because words are inert. They’re just symbols. They’re dead. You know? And so much of our experience is intangible. So much of what we perceive cannot be expressed. It’s unspeakable. And yet, you know, when we communicate with one another and we feel we have connected and think we’re understood I think we have a feeling of almost spiritual communion. That may be transient, but it’s what we live for."

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