love

nousd · Post by **nousd** » Sun Sep 14, 2008 9:19 pm

I quite like the intricacies of 3D relationships.
Finding a woman willing to take me on is hard enough without having the burden of expecting perfection.
Strangely, it seems to require a form of courage on the part of both.

bellybelle · Post by **bellybelle** » Sun Sep 14, 2008 9:39 pm

SD5 wrote:I quite like the intricacies of 3D relationships.
Finding a woman willing to take me on is hard enough without having the burden of expecting perfection.
Strangely, it seems to require a form of courage on the part of both.

Whereas the level of dishonesty and manipulation for 3d is a complete turnoff to me. It seems to be very singularly focused. "What do I get out of this?" "Are you doing enough for me?" "You should take care of me." I like the unconditional nature of 4d tbh. Taking the love from all of our preconceived ideas about self-fulfillment and moving towards unity. A oneness. So much pain and discord seems to revolve around the idea that the Self is the center, which is why the ebb and flow seems so caustic as opposed to an understanding of the ebb and flow of Life.... Admitting you're part of something only partially comprised of Self lends to a deeper sense of community. Love can be so much bigger than only what it can do for the individual...and the less it is individuated, the more pervasive it can be to not only the unified couple or multiple, but to every person they touch and encounter

:U::I:

nousd · Post by **nousd** » Mon Sep 15, 2008 10:38 am

What I was essentially saying is
that i'd rather be in a realistic relationship,
ie suffering occasional pain and disappointment,
than hold out for some unattainable fantasy.

Hypocrite again am I because i am holding out for an ideal,
but I don't recommend it for those in 20s
cos you'll NEVER achieve it.

parson · Post by **parson** » Mon Sep 15, 2008 10:58 am

i'm waitin for psychic explosions

bellybelle · Post by **bellybelle** » Mon Sep 15, 2008 1:18 pm

SD5 wrote:What I was essentially saying is
that i'd rather be in a realistic relationship,
ie suffering occasional pain and disappointment,
than hold out for some unattainable fantasy.

Hypocrite again am I because i am holding out for an ideal,
but I don't recommend it for those in 20s
cos you'll NEVER achieve it.

aww see I don't believe its fantasy....just not as commonly practiced. My best friend and her husband have a more 4D type relationship and if I hadn't gotten the pleasure of watching it develop over the last few years, I probably wouldn't believe it was possible too. I really am blessed by having the few friends that I have. She and her husband have shown me just how much is possible if you're willing to work for it. They were good for correcting my vision, or more....showing me that the cycles of pain, grief, and loss that I had become used to, were not the only option.

nousd · Post by **nousd** » Wed Sep 17, 2008 3:28 am

See ya point Belle
but yr watching it not having it

As you often remind us
compassion for ourselves
prepares us for being loved.

bellybelle · Post by **bellybelle** » Wed Sep 17, 2008 3:34 am

SD5 wrote:See ya point Belle
but yr watching it not having it

As you often remind us
compassion for ourselves
prepares us for being loved.

actually....i am having it. i just didn't want to say that lest it be seen as bragadocious.

nousd · Post by **nousd** » Wed Sep 17, 2008 5:13 am

OOOOOO...yu sneeky bugger...
Well then what you goin' on about...
Enjoy!

Brag away lady, I is a little jealous.

nesslei · Post by **nesslei** » Wed Sep 17, 2008 9:54 am

i've come to consider myself an acquired taste, akin to olives. not everyone loves them, but those who do... are onto a winner.

kins83 · Post by **kins83** » Wed Sep 17, 2008 9:57 am

I like stuffed olives.

felixgash · Post by **felixgash** » Wed Sep 17, 2008 10:00 am

What's there not to like about olives? They're great.

I have this black olive puree in a jar from the Med somewhere. Real rustic stuff. A small spoon in your pasta sauce or spread on some crusty bread with dinner.. laaarrrrrverly.

d-T-r · Post by **d-T-r** » Wed Sep 17, 2008 10:02 am

The Multi-Dimensional Relationship
The new forms of partnership are very different. They are based on different criteria and needs, and are played out in different ways. As we become more at ease with the Crystal state, we will become far more accustomed to these new kinds of relationships.

Soul Resonance rather than Physical Attraction:
People will be attracted to each other on the multi-dimensional or soul level, rather than the physical. The physical will still be a part of a Crystal relationship, but it will not be the primary focus anymore.
More and more people are looking for a "Soulmate". Whatever beliefs we might hold about whether or not soulmates exist, it does seem that there is a deep longing in most people to blend energies with a compatible soul.

And it is at the level of the soul that there must be resonance and "compatibility".

This does not mean that the partners will agree on everything. In fact, if they did the relationship would probably not work. Rather there will be a healthy balance of agreement and disagreement.

Crystal people operate from the heart, and will always allow their partner to be exactly who or what he or she is. They will not need to change the person or make them "better" or rescue them or provide for them. They will share with them and support them in their adventure of growth and self-exploration, and expect the same in return. But there will be an "allowing" and a freedom that will enable each partner to grow and to blossom into their full potential within the relationship.

When there is no dominance of one by the other, and there is an allowing of what the other person is, then there is no reason for the approval seeking behaviour that is so often part of old energy relationships, where one partner constantly seeks the approval of the other. There is no emotional neediness or fear, just acceptance and love

nesslei · Post by **nesslei** » Wed Sep 17, 2008 10:11 am

kins83 wrote:I like stuffed olives.

shut it!!

djelements · Post by **djelements** » Wed Sep 17, 2008 11:22 am

kins83 wrote:I like stuffed olives.

Nice one, wins83.

nesslei · Post by **nesslei** » Wed Sep 17, 2008 1:08 pm

is it possible to fall in love with a delicatessen?

if so, i would like to marry the grocer on elgin. i go there EVERY. DAY.

FILL ME UP

www.thegroceron.com

mmmomgsrslywtf

bellybelle · Post by **bellybelle** » Wed Sep 17, 2008 1:12 pm

dTruk wrote:
The Multi-Dimensional Relationship
The new forms of partnership are very different. They are based on different criteria and needs, and are played out in different ways. As we become more at ease with the Crystal state, we will become far more accustomed to these new kinds of relationships.

Soul Resonance rather than Physical Attraction:
People will be attracted to each other on the multi-dimensional or soul level, rather than the physical. The physical will still be a part of a Crystal relationship, but it will not be the primary focus anymore.
More and more people are looking for a "Soulmate". Whatever beliefs we might hold about whether or not soulmates exist, it does seem that there is a deep longing in most people to blend energies with a compatible soul.

And it is at the level of the soul that there must be resonance and "compatibility".

This does not mean that the partners will agree on everything. In fact, if they did the relationship would probably not work. Rather there will be a healthy balance of agreement and disagreement.

Crystal people operate from the heart, and will always allow their partner to be exactly who or what he or she is. They will not need to change the person or make them "better" or rescue them or provide for them. They will share with them and support them in their adventure of growth and self-exploration, and expect the same in return. But there will be an "allowing" and a freedom that will enable each partner to grow and to blossom into their full potential within the relationship.

When there is no dominance of one by the other, and there is an allowing of what the other person is, then there is no reason for the approval seeking behaviour that is so often part of old energy relationships, where one partner constantly seeks the approval of the other. There is no emotional neediness or fear, just acceptance and love

That was really quite beautiful dtruk. thank you so much for posting that. that was really positive and uplifting and perfect for the first thing in the day. Really inspirational

ashley · Post by **ashley** » Wed Sep 17, 2008 1:16 pm

nesslei wrote:is it possible to fall in love with a delicatessen?

if so, i would like to marry the grocer on elgin. i go there EVERY. DAY.

FILL ME UP

www.thegroceron.com

mmmomgsrslywtf

What a disgusting website.

nousd · Post by **nousd** » Wed Sep 17, 2008 1:35 pm

dTruk wrote:
The Multi-Dimensional Relationship
The new forms of partnership are very different...

... the partners will not agree on everything. In fact, if they did the relationship would probably not work. Rather there will be a healthy balance of agreement and disagreement.

Crystal people operate from the heart, and will always allow their partner to be exactly who or what he or she is. They will not need to change the person or make them "better" or rescue them or provide for them. They will share with them and support them in their adventure of growth and self-exploration, and expect the same in return. But there will be an "allowing" and a freedom that will enable each partner to grow and to blossom into their full potential within the relationship.

When there is no dominance of one by the other, and there is an allowing of what the other person is, then there is no reason for the approval seeking behaviour that is so often part of old energy relationships, where one partner constantly seeks the approval of the other. There is no emotional neediness or fear, just acceptance and love

Oh that!
Where you meet soulmate, fall in love,
live together, marry, have kids,
find values diverge, seperate,
divorce without too much rancour,
develop a working relationship over time,
re-establish trust and friendship
and come to confide in each other.

Not as easy as it sounds to have one of these crystal relationships...
stuffing Olives is easier.

bellybelle · Post by **bellybelle** » Wed Sep 17, 2008 1:48 pm

SD5 wrote:
dTruk wrote:
The Multi-Dimensional Relationship
The new forms of partnership are very different...

... the partners will not agree on everything. In fact, if they did the relationship would probably not work. Rather there will be a healthy balance of agreement and disagreement.

Crystal people operate from the heart, and will always allow their partner to be exactly who or what he or she is. They will not need to change the person or make them "better" or rescue them or provide for them. They will share with them and support them in their adventure of growth and self-exploration, and expect the same in return. But there will be an "allowing" and a freedom that will enable each partner to grow and to blossom into their full potential within the relationship.

When there is no dominance of one by the other, and there is an allowing of what the other person is, then there is no reason for the approval seeking behaviour that is so often part of old energy relationships, where one partner constantly seeks the approval of the other. There is no emotional neediness or fear, just acceptance and love
Oh that!
Where you meet soulmate, fall in love,
live together, marry, have kids,
find values diverge, seperate,
divorce without too much rancour,
develop a working relationship over time,
re-establish trust and friendship
and come to confide in each other.

Not as easy as it sounds to have one of these crystal relationships...
stuffing Olives is easier.

the same can be said of world peace...but its still highly worth the effort.

nesslei · Post by **nesslei** » Wed Sep 17, 2008 2:06 pm

SD5 wrote:stuffing Olives is easier.

you're always on the ball, mister.

stuffing olives is kinda easier, i agree. but i wouldn't like it to be that way forever. thing is, i think i am my own soulmate at this point in my life.

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