sex

tempest · Post by **tempest** » Mon Aug 18, 2008 5:42 am

cheers belle, so you consider it to be safe?

kamala · Post by **kamala** » Mon Aug 18, 2008 9:45 am

i kind of feel like if i don't trust someone enough to know they aren't giving me diseases, or like them enough to still want to be with them if they do ... then i shouldn't be fucking them at all. and it just feels better without rubbers

.... the whole pregnancy thing is a diff story tho ...

elbe · Post by **elbe** » Mon Aug 18, 2008 10:24 am

it not difficult, wear a johnny, it is the best option

kamala · Post by **kamala** » Mon Aug 18, 2008 10:28 am

typically yes.

nesslei · Post by **nesslei** » Mon Aug 18, 2008 10:35 am

eLBe wrote:it not difficult, wear a johnny, it is the best option

elbe · Post by **elbe** » Mon Aug 18, 2008 10:37 am

nesslei wrote:
eLBe wrote:it not difficult, wear a johnny, it is the best option

nesslei · Post by **nesslei** » Mon Aug 18, 2008 11:02 am

eLBe wrote:
nesslei wrote:
eLBe wrote:it not difficult, wear a johnny, it is the best option

i was just trying to big you up through the use of exclamation mark emoticons.

(i failed, sorry.)

elbe · Post by **elbe** » Mon Aug 18, 2008 11:07 am

nesslei wrote:
eLBe wrote:
nesslei wrote:
eLBe wrote:it not difficult, wear a johnny, it is the best option

i was just trying to big you up through the use of exclamation mark emoticons.

(i failed, sorry.)

von · Post by **von** » Mon Aug 18, 2008 11:10 am

nesslei wrote:
eLBe wrote:
nesslei wrote:
eLBe wrote:it not difficult, wear a johnny, it is the best option

i was just trying to big you up through the use of exclamation mark emoticons.

(i failed, sorry.)

Lol a baby woulda got that. Dont feel bad. Elbe, man

elbe · Post by **elbe** » Mon Aug 18, 2008 11:20 am

Von wrote:
nesslei wrote:
eLBe wrote:
nesslei wrote:
eLBe wrote:it not difficult, wear a johnny, it is the best option

i was just trying to big you up through the use of exclamation mark emoticons.

(i failed, sorry.)
Lol a baby woulda got that. Dont feel bad. Elbe, man

yep completely my fault, was just making sure tho

deamonds · Post by **deamonds** » Mon Aug 18, 2008 11:47 am

thinking about it over a XL bacon double cheeseburger, i dont think i have ever had sex where it wasnt "all about the lust"...which is quite bad....

bellybelle · Post by **bellybelle** » Mon Aug 18, 2008 1:01 pm

tempest wrote:cheers belle, so you consider it to be safe?

well i've been in a tricky spot once. i was engaged but not ready to be a mom years ago just yet so i had to go get it. felt really nauseous for a day. but after that, everything was fine-ish---i don't really like how hormones affect the body but its at times a necessary evil. its not supposed to be a method of BC....just get the pill or use condoms if its not a serious relationship. Sorry but seriously....the amount of money you have to spend for a condom is way less than 18 years of child rearing. And same for the pleasure. I'm sure there are plenty of new parents who wish they had cared a lil less about pleasure and a lil more about being responsible partners.

and see, this is why i think there need to be qualifications to breed. like, tests and shit. willy nilly breeding is not the one!

dubluke · Post by **dubluke** » Mon Aug 18, 2008 4:30 pm

eLBe wrote:it not difficult, wear a johnny, it is the best option

truesay

silentk · Post by **silentk** » Mon Aug 18, 2008 4:33 pm

I absolutly hate condoms, and so does my girlfriend, that why shes on the pill, also cause she can just take to months worth B2B if she don't feel like a peroid.

Condoms really ruin a good momen. its like, you really getting into it, a nice bit of foreplay, you getting really intimate, then BAM, "sorry love, just gotta look like a twat for a second while i put this latex sock over my cock" urgh.

kins83 · Post by **kins83** » Mon Aug 18, 2008 4:35 pm

SilentK wrote: Condoms really ruin a good momen. its like, you really getting into it, a nice bit of foreplay, you getting really intimate, then BAM, "sorry love, just gotta look like a twat for a second while i put this latex sock over my cock" urgh.

lol so very true.

bellybelle · Post by **bellybelle** » Mon Aug 18, 2008 4:38 pm

SilentK wrote:I absolutly hate condoms, and so does my girlfriend, that why shes on the pill, also cause she can just take to months worth B2B if she don't feel like a peroid.

Condoms really ruin a good momen. its like, you really getting into it, a nice bit of foreplay, you getting really intimate, then BAM, "sorry love, just gotta look like a twat for a second while i put this latex sock over my cock" urgh.

is it any worse than diapers, bottles, shots, dentists, dance lessons, lil league uniforms, college tuition, schooling, new clothes because they grow so fast, besides the 18 years worth of time it takes to feed, clothe, school, tend, and care for a person that could have been avoided by a $3.00 investment?

seriously......a few dollars versus years worth of money...

men....you could always get a vasectomy....they can be reversed y'know?

BESIDES the risk of STDs and AIDS, for which there is still no cure...

Unless you're in a serious relationship, be smart about it. Stop thinking in the moment and think longer term. If you're ready to be a parent, go for it. If not, wrap your shit and just deal.

silentk · Post by **silentk** » Mon Aug 18, 2008 4:45 pm

bellybelle wrote:
SilentK wrote:I absolutly hate condoms, and so does my girlfriend, that why shes on the pill, also cause she can just take to months worth B2B if she don't feel like a peroid.

Condoms really ruin a good momen. its like, you really getting into it, a nice bit of foreplay, you getting really intimate, then BAM, "sorry love, just gotta look like a twat for a second while i put this latex sock over my cock" urgh.
is it any worse than diapers, bottles, shots, dentists, dance lessons, lil league uniforms, college tuition, schooling, new clothes because they grow so fast, besides the 18 years worth of time it takes to feed, clothe, school, tend, and care for a person that could have been avoided by a $3.00 investment?

seriously......a few dollars versus years worth of money...

BESIDES the risk of STDs and AIDS, for which there is still no cure...

Unless you're in a serious relationship, be smart about it. Stop thinking in the moment and think longer term. If you're ready to be a parent, go for it. If not, wrap your shit and just deal.

i am not just saying "fuck it, dont bother with condoms" i am saying, find a different method of contraception that works for you and/or your partner. if you are just taking some random bird home from the pub, then by all means use a conny. but if you are in a good relationship with someone, then i think a different (perhaps longer term) form of contraception is better. i am by no means condoning the abandonment of contraception, just voicing my problems with having to use a condom

bellybelle · Post by **bellybelle** » Mon Aug 18, 2008 4:46 pm

SilentK wrote:
bellybelle wrote:
SilentK wrote:I absolutly hate condoms, and so does my girlfriend, that why shes on the pill, also cause she can just take to months worth B2B if she don't feel like a peroid.

Condoms really ruin a good momen. its like, you really getting into it, a nice bit of foreplay, you getting really intimate, then BAM, "sorry love, just gotta look like a twat for a second while i put this latex sock over my cock" urgh.
is it any worse than diapers, bottles, shots, dentists, dance lessons, lil league uniforms, college tuition, schooling, new clothes because they grow so fast, besides the 18 years worth of time it takes to feed, clothe, school, tend, and care for a person that could have been avoided by a $3.00 investment?

seriously......a few dollars versus years worth of money...

BESIDES the risk of STDs and AIDS, for which there is still no cure...

Unless you're in a serious relationship, be smart about it. Stop thinking in the moment and think longer term. If you're ready to be a parent, go for it. If not, wrap your shit and just deal.
i am not just saying "fuck it, dont bother with condoms" i am saying, find a different method of contraception that works for you and/or your partner. if you are just taking some random bird home from the pub, then by all means use a conny. but if you are in a good relationship with someone, then i think a different (perhaps longer term) form of contraception is better. i am by no means condoning the abandonment of contraception, just voicing my problems with having to use a condom

vasectomies also work and they're reversible

silentk · Post by **silentk** » Mon Aug 18, 2008 4:50 pm

bellybelle wrote:
SilentK wrote:
bellybelle wrote:
SilentK wrote:I absolutly hate condoms, and so does my girlfriend, that why shes on the pill, also cause she can just take to months worth B2B if she don't feel like a peroid.

Condoms really ruin a good momen. its like, you really getting into it, a nice bit of foreplay, you getting really intimate, then BAM, "sorry love, just gotta look like a twat for a second while i put this latex sock over my cock" urgh.
is it any worse than diapers, bottles, shots, dentists, dance lessons, lil league uniforms, college tuition, schooling, new clothes because they grow so fast, besides the 18 years worth of time it takes to feed, clothe, school, tend, and care for a person that could have been avoided by a $3.00 investment?

seriously......a few dollars versus years worth of money...

BESIDES the risk of STDs and AIDS, for which there is still no cure...

Unless you're in a serious relationship, be smart about it. Stop thinking in the moment and think longer term. If you're ready to be a parent, go for it. If not, wrap your shit and just deal.
i am not just saying "fuck it, dont bother with condoms" i am saying, find a different method of contraception that works for you and/or your partner. if you are just taking some random bird home from the pub, then by all means use a conny. but if you are in a good relationship with someone, then i think a different (perhaps longer term) form of contraception is better. i am by no means condoning the abandonment of contraception, just voicing my problems with having to use a condom
vasectomies also work and they're reversible

waah? you serious? i thought that was a VERY one way street?
i wish theywould just invent a pill/injection for blokes, becase at the moment, its basicaly

Men = Condoms, versectomy
Women = the pill, a diaphram, the injection, the implant, and im sure im missing a few, oh, and the femidom haha

bellybelle · Post by **bellybelle** » Mon Aug 18, 2008 4:56 pm

SilentK wrote:
bellybelle wrote:
SilentK wrote:
bellybelle wrote:
SilentK wrote:I absolutly hate condoms, and so does my girlfriend, that why shes on the pill, also cause she can just take to months worth B2B if she don't feel like a peroid.

Condoms really ruin a good momen. its like, you really getting into it, a nice bit of foreplay, you getting really intimate, then BAM, "sorry love, just gotta look like a twat for a second while i put this latex sock over my cock" urgh.
is it any worse than diapers, bottles, shots, dentists, dance lessons, lil league uniforms, college tuition, schooling, new clothes because they grow so fast, besides the 18 years worth of time it takes to feed, clothe, school, tend, and care for a person that could have been avoided by a $3.00 investment?

seriously......a few dollars versus years worth of money...

BESIDES the risk of STDs and AIDS, for which there is still no cure...

Unless you're in a serious relationship, be smart about it. Stop thinking in the moment and think longer term. If you're ready to be a parent, go for it. If not, wrap your shit and just deal.
i am not just saying "fuck it, dont bother with condoms" i am saying, find a different method of contraception that works for you and/or your partner. if you are just taking some random bird home from the pub, then by all means use a conny. but if you are in a good relationship with someone, then i think a different (perhaps longer term) form of contraception is better. i am by no means condoning the abandonment of contraception, just voicing my problems with having to use a condom
vasectomies also work and they're reversible
waah? you serious? i thought that was a VERY one way street?
i wish theywould just invent a pill/injection for blokes, becase at the moment, its basicaly

Men = Condoms, versectomy
Women = the pill, a diaphram, the injection, the implant, and im sure im missing a few, oh, and the femidom haha

no they're reversible. For some reason, the onus of protection from babies got passed to us. I wish there was a pill for men too. But vasectomies are reversible....just....a lot of men are all "No not my sackage." I mean...hormones aren't great by any stretch of the imagination....a necessary evil, is more like it. The side-effects suck. Migraines, swelling, depression, etc.--all common side effects for users of the pill. Its not super....just...well, necessary evil, yeah?

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