Sonika wrote:meh weed and alcohol cant hurt in moderation like everything else
What is moderation to a 13/14 year old? Careful who you base yourself against.
Going from personal experience (obviously don't take this as a reflection on you Sonika, I don't know you) but of all the kids I know that started drinking and smoking at about 13/14, I know one who's holding down a good job 9/10 years on (and he still smokes hella weed, doesn't drink though), the rest are all dipping from metal band to metal band proclaiming that this one is finally gonna be the big one (so big they've took jobs painting car doors at a factory).
I used to get fuuuuucked up really quickly at about 17/18 on booze, so yeah, all I'm saying is, what might seem like moderation to you if you're comparing yourself to people 5/6 years older than you, may in fact be too much (especially booze, don't claim to be knowledgeable on weed). Also, you will quickly find yourself become a fat mother fuck.
Hope that didn't come across as condescending.