Being too nice to people you don't really enjoy

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Re: Being too nice to people you don't really enjoy

Post by gnome » Sat Apr 02, 2011 10:08 am

Genevieve you seem to be the one with the problem. Fill your karma bank and be a bit kinder you evil being.

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Re: Being too nice to people you don't really enjoy

Post by nowaysj » Sat Apr 02, 2011 10:24 am

haha, one thing that I've tried, but that has never worked was sort of upstaging these people by either being more monotonous or more unacceptably crazy. Just doesn't work! Straight sitcom thinking there, always backfires.
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Re: Being too nice to people you don't really enjoy

Post by Genevieve » Sat Apr 02, 2011 10:30 am

nowaysj wrote:haha, one thing that I've tried, but that has never worked was sort of upstaging these people by either being more monotonous or more unacceptably crazy. Just doesn't work! Straight sitcom thinking there, always backfires.
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Re: Being too nice to people you don't really enjoy

Post by Badman Juice » Sat Apr 02, 2011 11:15 am

if I don't give a fuck about someone I tell them so.
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Re: Being too nice to people you don't really enjoy

Post by kingGhost » Sat Apr 02, 2011 2:14 pm

i'm not even really more than cordial to the people i do like, generally keeps the extra random people at a minimum.






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Re: Being too nice to people you don't really enjoy

Post by bright maroon » Sat Apr 02, 2011 2:19 pm

WOW - Genevieve - I'm gonna have to try that!!!

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Re: Being too nice to people you don't really enjoy

Post by bright maroon » Sat Apr 02, 2011 2:42 pm

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Re: Being too nice to people you don't really enjoy

Post by deadcell » Sat Apr 02, 2011 9:29 pm

i do this too much as well. then it turns int oa blag when u have to ditch people to hang with people u actually want to hang with say when u see them out. this is why its good to always be with ur main posse, then youl never get stuck in a shitty little scenario where you have t entertain some goon you dont really like, wand not have to try and pretend to like them
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Re: Being too nice to people you don't really enjoy

Post by Genevieve » Sun Apr 03, 2011 4:12 am

deadcell wrote:i do this too much as well. then it turns int oa blag when u have to ditch people to hang with people u actually want to hang with say when u see them out. this is why its good to always be with ur main posse, then youl never get stuck in a shitty little scenario where you have t entertain some goon you dont really like, wand not have to try and pretend to like them
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I wish. A friend of mine recently introduced a new guy to the crew that we go out with each Saturday and everyone's annoyed shitless by him and he keeps on coming back and there's no nice way of telling him to fuck off. It's not like he's... a bad person. Just annoying as shit.
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Re: Being too nice to people you don't really enjoy

Post by AllNightDayDream » Sun Apr 03, 2011 4:35 am

I'm an extremely nice person, shy, but nice. To everybody, whether I think you're a douche or not. Probably too much. You know I genuinely like you if I make a little snotty remark about you.

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Re: Being too nice to people you don't really enjoy

Post by jaydot » Sun Apr 03, 2011 1:36 pm

Is this girl fit? I would go out of way to be nice to a girl to get into her knickers. Depending on how fit,
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Re: Being too nice to people you don't really enjoy

Post by ketamine » Sun Apr 03, 2011 5:05 pm

kingGhost wrote:i'm not even really more than cordial to the people i do like, generally keeps the extra random people at a minimum.






i'm so lonely :corntard:
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Re: Being too nice to people you don't really enjoy

Post by Genevieve » Sun Apr 03, 2011 6:22 pm

I forgot to sign off Facebook chat:

autistic girl: what did you do this weekend?
me: go to a dubstep party, it was fun
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me: fun
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Re: Being too nice to people you don't really enjoy

Post by TheBrownie » Mon Apr 04, 2011 2:59 am

Block her, then have your friend tell her you died.

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Re: Being too nice to people you don't really enjoy

Post by hayze99 » Mon Apr 04, 2011 3:31 am

I have a whole group of Filipino stalkers. Teenagers who I have never met will add me on facebook and start chatting to me. 99% of the time I'll look at their profile and they'll be from the Philippines.

It started out on MSN about 4 years ago. Some kid who couldn't speak English added me and asked for advice on how to stop being so shy. I told him my opinion, and it was the worst mistake of my life. Tons of Filipino teenagers tried to add me. When I stopped using MSN and started using facebook it STILL continued on there. It's literally been going on for years.

Shit's so messed up.

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Re: Being too nice to people you don't really enjoy

Post by nowaysj » Mon Apr 04, 2011 4:21 am

This might be the funniest shit I heard all day ^
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Re: Being too nice to people you don't really enjoy

Post by Dartma » Mon Apr 04, 2011 4:26 am

Tell her honestly that you can't talk to her every moment. She will probably never get the message if you just block her. Do everyone a favor that she will ever encounter and tell her the truth about how you feel.

It can be as simple as "hey I think your messaging me too frequently" and you can even follow it up with "why are you doing that?". Don't beat around the bush, it never works ;)
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Re: Being too nice to people you don't really enjoy

Post by christophera » Mon Apr 04, 2011 4:42 am

tell her about girls you are trying to bang

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Re: Being too nice to people you don't really enjoy

Post by christophera » Mon Apr 04, 2011 4:43 am

for example

what did you do this weekend

went to a dubstep event. it was fun.

how was it?

i got laid, if that's what you mean.

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Re: Being too nice to people you don't really enjoy

Post by Estylus » Mon Apr 04, 2011 5:21 am

Ignore Everyone... Wait.. What?

I need some sleep. :)
I just started so don't hate :)

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