resorting to pain to cope with problems

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in general, we have a policy to close threads like this, chiefly because its way beyond the realm of DSF. Harming oneself, or rather concern for a friend in trouble or need, are serious issues, and should be handled by professionals outside of a website like this one. a few minutes on google can direct you on to resources and answers that can help your situation further.

if you want to discuss this privately, please use PM's with any of the moderating team. more info in relation to this can also be found in our rules. locking this down now. good luck to you and your friend.