#ViolenceIsViolence: Domestic abuse advert Mankind

[wolf89]

Not hitting someone doesn't make you a sissy. I've had dudes start fights with me that I've refused to get into for fuck's sake. Most of the time there's no point.

[rickyarbino]

By his logic you're a cissy.

[rickyarbino]

Also, I don't get how taking a beating makes you a cissy, but fleeing one doesn't.

[rockonin]

So you're just as much of a cissy?

No. Not hitting a women back doesn't make you a cissy. What makes you a cissy is to keep allowing the violence to continue.

But if she follows you and keeps hitting you, you'll just keep walking. Cissy imo.

Jesslem use your logic and common sense. When i said " not allowing the violence to continue' i meant it over the coarse of the relationship not on that one occasion.

[CreamLord]

Jesslem use your logic and common sense

[Genevieve]

Nah Genevieve is dench now, and them hoes need to respect that

This

[rickyarbino]

So you're just as much of a cissy?

No. Not hitting a women back doesn't make you a cissy. What makes you a cissy is to keep allowing the violence to continue.

But if she follows you and keeps hitting you, you'll just keep walking. Cissy imo.

Jesslem use your logic and common sense. When i said " not allowing the violence to continue' i meant it over the coarse of the relationship not on that one occasion.

How're you gonna do that if she doesn't stop hitting you though?

[Lye_Form]

So you're just as much of a cissy?

No. Not hitting a women back doesn't make you a cissy. What makes you a cissy is to keep allowing the violence to continue.

But if she follows you and keeps hitting you, you'll just keep walking. Cissy imo.

Jesslem use your logic and common sense. When i said " not allowing the violence to continue' i meant it over the coarse of the relationship not on that one occasion.

How're you gonna do that if she doesn't stop hitting you though?

I don't hit women. I'd never hit a woman, Chloë! I hit a woman who was trying to hit me with a bottle! That's different, that's self defence, isn't it? Or a woman who did karate. I'd never hit a woman generaly, Chloë. Don't think that. God, you're pretty.

[Muncey]

Is a Donkey Punch relevant to this conversation? If you don't ask before is that domestic abuse?

But yeah the non-sissy thing would be not to retaliate and end it, fuck being with someone who can't argue without getting physical, physical. I don't even argue with people if they start to raise their voice, just walk off.

[ezza]

lye cahttins breeze, hes told me on many occasions hed happily beat a bitch who tried to hit him

[Lye_Form]

lye cahttins breeze, hes told me on many occasions hed happily beat a bitch who tried to hit him

Only if she knew karate m8 cant u read?

[Liam92]

If a girl attacked me I'd beat her the fuck down tbh #equality

[Muncey]

Straight tnuc punt.

[magma]

40% of Violence is suffered by men? What a bunch of cissys. They should grow a pair, lay down the law to the women, or carry on getting the shit beaten out of them.

I've been in an abusive relationship before, it's not simply a case of "laying down the law" or "growing a pair", if I'd ever hit her back you can guarantee she would have called the police

This has happened to a very close friend of mine. He actually ended up getting a conviction because he left a bruise on her wrist when he grabbed her arm to stop her raining punches at him on his doorstep. She was distracting him so her little sister could kidnap his children.

Another tale of family values from Weston Super Mare.

[nitz]

The dumb about this is it's location.

If you're in a argument at home/flat where it's just you and your partner and she does some ninja shit and start punching/kicking you or/and ripping out your hair, i'm sure the outcome would be very different. If you're a reasonable man, with reasonable strength you should be able to defence you're without the need for punching her back, but WITHOUT looking like a pussy. Force but not excessive Same for opposite sex. Women can be as strong as man. What reasonable man would stand their getting a beating and not do anything (unless you did come super dumb shit, like murdered her sister)


But when this happens in the public you got this little devil in your head; don't look aggressive or forceful because you'll be come BBC news by 10PM, and charged with assault and or battery. And if the shit goes to court - you better have a good barrister - juries don't like women beaters at all, and if the jury is also half women boooooom you fucked.

[rockonin]

What reasonable man would stand their getting a beating and not do anything (unless you did come super dumb shit, like *fucked her sister, videoed it and posted it on the the internetz)

*Fixed

[nitz]

What reasonable man would stand their getting a beating and not do anything (unless you did come super dumb shit, like *fucked her sister, videoed it and posted it on the the internetz)

*Fixed

and then post a subsequent vid of you masterbuaring of the original video

[test_recordings]

I saw a girl hit a guy, he lamped her and knocked her out, then started on me.

I agree with hitting back on occasions, as long as it's proportional to what can be taken. I don't think he should have lamped her since he wasn't hurt by it. It's better to NOT hit back at all though, but if life is in danger etc.

You don't need to hit back to deal with an attack though, plenty of ways of blocking, grappling etc. Someone armed deserves a full belting though. My mate's cousin got 'stabbed' by his bird (she stuck a knife in him a bit anyway)... but he cheated on her so he deserved it maybe

[nousd]

nuance

I've been hit by a woman
but I understood why

I know many women
have been hit by blokes
just cos they could

cowards
criminals
low-lifes

can always walk away

[rickyarbino]

Question to any person here who'd be willing to hit a woman as an act of self defense.
What about your mum fam?