Agent 47 wrote:
becoming a 'real dj' and not a 'bedroom dj' is about everything but the dj'ing bit it seems

you're right, its about becoming a professional.
as someone who used to promote heavy, i have no problem with dj's getting paid to sell tickets (even though we never used that tactic), and i don't think you can necessarily blame the promoters for having kids play for free. while some promoters are obviously greasy bastards, the oversaturation of dj's has contributed to this just as much.
i got my first gigs because my big homie didn't want to play for 30 people on wednesday night, where there was no cover charge. sometimes we got paid by the bar, or got drinks, but usually we got nothing. after a year or so of getting our branding down and getting a nice core of followers, we started paying all the dj's for our gigs (there was about 6 of us doing shows on a consistent basis). fast forward three years down the road, and we had kids begging us for timeslots and even saying they would play for free to get that 15 minutes of fame. at one point in time, our crew had an "extended family" of up to 40 people at one point. most of them played for free, and if you had been around for a while, you'd get a +1 on the guestlist if you played.
there are too many kids out there djing for the thrill, and from a business perspective, why wouldn't you take someone playing for free when you know they can bring people out? if i'm spending $5000 on one night, you're damn right i'm cutting costs where ever i can. if these up and comers want to change that, imo start your own nights. play for free for the promoters above you to build your brand (hopefully you play to a point where you get compensation), then branch off and do your own thing once you get that credibility. if you're not doing that, than being a dj is just a hobby for you, not a job.
dubunked wrote:thats dumb imo. a lot of DJs (esp the good ones) are introverted people and turning it into a popularity contest is not going to get the best talent at your night.
you are right about alot of musicians and dj's being introverts, but this is a really poor excuse imo. there is a difference in being an introvert and having no confidence. i'm really introverted and i spent plenty of time postering the streets/public transit, talking to people and doing other street promo... putting in work and having confidence got me recognition...it had nothing to do with my demo cd. at the end of the day its not about having "the best talent" (whatever that really means), its about making sure that your audience enjoys themselves - its not about the dj's technical skills until they've earned that respect from the audience.