The Being Single Appreciation Thread

bellybelle · Post by **bellybelle** » Wed Sep 03, 2008 10:27 pm

seriously....

why is this a whole us v them thing? single people and coupled people are equally necessary.

Single people have the liberty to actualize a lot of their dreams without having to think about anyone else. They have freedom and can enjoy solitary lives.

Coupled people have the opportunity to share a deep love with someone else and enjoy the company of someone special.

At some point, most people will probably be both. Inclusion in one doesn't elevate it. And exclusion from one doesn't elevate it.

If you're happy being single, then you're happy being single, regardless of whether the whole world got married or not, not in spite of it. And if you're in a relationship, the potential compromises you make for the sake of including someone else in your life are completely worth it.

Why is this a competition?

bellybelle · Post by **bellybelle** » Wed Sep 03, 2008 10:29 pm

deamonds wrote:oh no bellebelly i was being gender friendly in that statement, thats why i said partner lol...

i know what you mean by that though, and can definately see women in there mid 20's being a threat to couples..

especially if they are smoking..

however im not really on the thought of vegetating on the sofa every night with someone i wished i had the guts to break up with, but am staying with them just purely for the couple factor/security/whatever...

when i could be doing anything else

yeah i'm never a fan of stayin in a bad relationship just for the sake of it. i spent 4 years doing that. get out while you can while its good...

however...not all relationships work like bondage. sometimes, its a willing partnership.

deamonds · Post by **deamonds** » Wed Sep 03, 2008 10:32 pm

bellybelle wrote: however...not all relationships work like bondage. sometimes, its a willing partnership.

i liked that

there shouldnt be couples everyone should be in love with everyone..

..

wait..

bellybelle · Post by **bellybelle** » Wed Sep 03, 2008 10:34 pm

deamonds wrote:
bellybelle wrote: however...not all relationships work like bondage. sometimes, its a willing partnership.
i liked that

there shouldnt be couples everyone should be in love with everyone..

..

wait..

rawr....frisky thing you

felixgash · Post by **felixgash** » Wed Sep 03, 2008 10:36 pm

felixGash wrote:Ness. We're clearly very compatible.

I say we get hitched.

What say you?

ashley · Post by **ashley** » Wed Sep 03, 2008 10:37 pm

felixGash wrote:

felixGash wrote:Ness. We're clearly very compatible.

I say we get hitched.

What say you?

deamonds · Post by **deamonds** » Wed Sep 03, 2008 10:43 pm

bellybelle wrote:
deamonds wrote:
bellybelle wrote: however...not all relationships work like bondage. sometimes, its a willing partnership.
i liked that

there shouldnt be couples everyone should be in love with everyone..

..

wait..
rawr....frisky thing you

i know, blusky...tee hee

im not saying couples are bad or i am dissagreeing btw, id love to have a regular girlfriend, i just havent met someone i could tolerate being that close with..

saying that as modest as possible by the way..

bellybelle · Post by **bellybelle** » Wed Sep 03, 2008 10:51 pm

deamonds wrote:i know, blusky...tee hee

im not saying couples are bad or i am dissagreeing btw, id love to have a regular girlfriend, i just havent met someone i could tolerate being that close with..

saying that as modest as possible by the way..

i took a year off from my last to now. every guy i had been with in the last 10 years cheated or lied or proved to be dishonest. i shoulda spent the time by myself but i got trapped in the idea that i had to be with someone to count. to be whole. to matter. it was silly really.

i spent so much time trying to be with someone that i didn't pay attention to what i wanted or what made me happy. thats no good. that was really shitty, actually. i really should have just been by myself and figured out who i was.

just be happy being who you are. i want people to be happy. in or out of a relationship, the most important one we can ever have is the relationship we have with ourselves.

start : stop · Post by **start : stop** » Wed Sep 03, 2008 11:01 pm

deamonds wrote:does anyone hate it the way your friends partners look at you as if to say, why havent you got a girlfriend, why arent you with her, instead of here with me and my boyfriend, why are you such a bad influence, why do you try and take him to meet girls, why are you such a dickhead?

just me?

This, and your 'mates' doing a disappearing act as soon as they get a girl.

Me: "footy today down pub?"
Wastemate: "nah i'm staying in with *generic girls name* to watch the Hollyoaks omnibus & Eastenders omnibus all day"

nesslei · Post by **nesslei** » Wed Sep 03, 2008 11:09 pm

felixGash wrote:

felixGash wrote:Ness. We're clearly very compatible.

I say we get hitched.

What say you?

only if you let me wear a wedding dress that just covers my nipples, k?

ashley · Post by **ashley** » Wed Sep 03, 2008 11:21 pm

nesslei wrote:
felixGash wrote:

felixGash wrote:Ness. We're clearly very compatible.

I say we get hitched.

What say you?
only if you let me wear a wedding dress that just covers my nipples, k?

Something like this?

nesslei · Post by **nesslei** » Wed Sep 03, 2008 11:24 pm

Ashley wrote:
nesslei wrote:
felixGash wrote:

felixGash wrote:Ness. We're clearly very compatible.

I say we get hitched.

What say you?
only if you let me wear a wedding dress that just covers my nipples, k?
Something like this?

FAIL.

felixgash · Post by **felixgash** » Wed Sep 03, 2008 11:32 pm

nesslei wrote:
felixGash wrote:

felixGash wrote:Ness. We're clearly very compatible.

I say we get hitched.

What say you?
only if you let me wear a wedding dress that just covers my nipples, k?

DEAL!

So, when shall we has the wedding?

Who's your Ninja of honour? I think I know who I want to be my Best Ninja.. not 100% tho..

gwa · Post by **gwa** » Wed Sep 03, 2008 11:33 pm

Essentially if it wasnt for me this thread wouldn't of happend. So i am going to be the one marrying you 2.

nesslei · Post by **nesslei** » Wed Sep 03, 2008 11:37 pm

felixGash wrote:
nesslei wrote:
felixGash wrote:

felixGash wrote:Ness. We're clearly very compatible.

I say we get hitched.

What say you?
only if you let me wear a wedding dress that just covers my nipples, k?
DEAL!

So, when shall we has the wedding?

Who's your Ninja of honour? I think I know who I want to be my Best Ninja.. not 100% tho..

i think we should have it on xmas day and rename xmas 'the holy day of gashness'.

as for ninja of honour... hmm. can i just have a dolphin?

felixgash · Post by **felixgash** » Wed Sep 03, 2008 11:46 pm

nesslei wrote:
felixGash wrote:
nesslei wrote:
felixGash wrote:

felixGash wrote:Ness. We're clearly very compatible.

I say we get hitched.

What say you?
only if you let me wear a wedding dress that just covers my nipples, k?
DEAL!

So, when shall we has the wedding?

Who's your Ninja of honour? I think I know who I want to be my Best Ninja.. not 100% tho..
i think we should have it on xmas day and rename xmas 'the holy day of gashness'.

as for ninja of honour... hmm. can i just have a dolphin?

Hmm.. ok.. well I spot two fails in that.

That name is rubbish and no you cannot have a dolphin.

I don't want to marry you anymore, sorry.

Plus I LOVE being single duh.

nesslei · Post by **nesslei** » Wed Sep 03, 2008 11:50 pm

i see your game. pussy tease.

felixgash · Post by **felixgash** » Wed Sep 03, 2008 11:52 pm

nesslei wrote:i see your game. pussy tease.

Ha! You've got lyrics, girl.

ashley · Post by **ashley** » Wed Sep 03, 2008 11:58 pm

Ill marry you ness as a gesture of goodwill to help you restore your confidence after felixGash's rejection. You can have me drunk or sober...

dubluke · Post by **dubluke** » Thu Sep 04, 2008 12:27 am

eeeeeeeeh its alright i guess, i do like the closeness of being with someone but had a bit of a shit time with the last one so might leave it out for a while

oh and ness, if you're done with gash i'll have him back THANK YOU VERY MUCH

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