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[Sexual_Chocolate]

its coming across that you are far too emotionaly involved in this subject.

and i only say that because you're taking a 'im right, you're wrong" approach with everyone

[dubfordessert]

its coming across that you are far too emotionaly involved in this subject.

and i only say that because you're taking a 'im right, you're wrong" approach with everyone

if only i had your cool detachment, i could come off as ignorant and privileged, like you!

[Sexual_Chocolate]

its coming across that you are far too emotionaly involved in this subject.

and i only say that because you're taking a 'im right, you're wrong" approach with everyone

if only i had your cool detachment, i could come off as ignorant and privileged, like you!

point proven

[dubfordessert]

its coming across that you are far too emotionaly involved in this subject.

and i only say that because you're taking a 'im right, you're wrong" approach with everyone

if only i had your cool detachment, i could come off as ignorant and privileged, like you!

point proven

no, no point has been proven.

your idea of being "emotionally uninvolved in the subject" is just having no fucking clue how much it affects people because of wilful blindness, privilege and, yes, sexism.

that's why you get to be "emotionally detached". because it's unlikely you will be harassed, assaulted or belittled in the same way women are every day.

i am "emotionally involved" - yeah, in that i have a personal interest in opposing sexism. i don't see that as a bad thing. i think my anger is perfectly proportionate to the issue at hand (which is not "just a heckler", but the wider issue of the video, and sexism in general).

[dubfordessert]

most recent comment on the heckling video:

"You're the twat sticking up for a glorified slag. This video is genius."

glorified slag - nothing to do with gender though guys!

[Sexual_Chocolate]

FUCKING LOL

yes, i will never ever know what its like to be harassed, assaulted or belittled .... oh wait a minute, im brown and grew up in a predominantly white area.

i aint turning this into a pissing contest, but the reality is, i know more about this subject than you think....

[Phigure]

most recent comment on the heckling video:

"You're the twat sticking up for a glorified slag. This video is genius."

glorified slag - nothing to do with gender though guys!

i wasn't talking about that, i was specifically referring to what nevalo was saying. and i stand by my statement - what he was saying wasn't sexist

[dubfordessert]

FUCKING LOL

yes, i will never ever know what its like to be harassed, assaulted or belittled .... oh wait a minute, im brown and grew up in a predominantly white area.

i aint turning this into a pissing contest, but the reality is, i know more about this subject than you think....

would you like it if a white person turned round to you when you got pissed off about some racism and told you you were too "emotionally involved" in it?

how about if a white woman turns around to you and says she knows what it's like to be brown and experience racism, because she's a woman?

yeah, because you're brown, you know all about what it's like to experience sexism.

NO. being brown doesn't mean shit. you have no fucking idea what it's like.

well done missing the point AGAIN. i said it's unlikely you will be harassed IN THE SAME WAY WOMEN ARE. i.e. sexually. because of their gender. learn to fucking read.

[dubfordessert]

most recent comment on the heckling video:

"You're the twat sticking up for a glorified slag. This video is genius."

glorified slag - nothing to do with gender though guys!

i wasn't talking about that, i was specifically referring to what nevalo was saying. and i stand by my statement - what he was saying wasn't sexist

i was using that to support my general point.

if you genuinely think the guy in the video is not in any way sexist, fine. stand by whatever you want mate.

[Sexual_Chocolate]

FUCKING LOL

yes, i will never ever know what its like to be harassed, assaulted or belittled .... oh wait a minute, im brown and grew up in a predominantly white area.

i aint turning this into a pissing contest, but the reality is, i know more about this subject than you think....

would you like it if a white person turned round to you when you got pissed off about some racism and told you you were too "emotionally involved" in it?

how about if a white woman turns around to you and says she knows what it's like to be brown and experience racism, because she's a woman?

yeah, because you're brown, you know all about what it's like to experience sexism.

NO. being brown doesn't mean shit. you have no fucking idea what it's like.

well done missing the point AGAIN. i said it's unlikely you will be harassed IN THE SAME WAY WOMEN ARE. i.e. sexually. because of their gender. learn to fucking read.

lol

wtf are you on about now?

there is no difference when it comes to be discriminated against. discrimination is discrimination regardless of the subject or content.

[dubfordessert]

FUCKING LOL

yes, i will never ever know what its like to be harassed, assaulted or belittled .... oh wait a minute, im brown and grew up in a predominantly white area.

i aint turning this into a pissing contest, but the reality is, i know more about this subject than you think....

would you like it if a white person turned round to you when you got pissed off about some racism and told you you were too "emotionally involved" in it?

how about if a white woman turns around to you and says she knows what it's like to be brown and experience racism, because she's a woman?

yeah, because you're brown, you know all about what it's like to experience sexism.

NO. being brown doesn't mean shit. you have no fucking idea what it's like.

well done missing the point AGAIN. i said it's unlikely you will be harassed IN THE SAME WAY WOMEN ARE. i.e. sexually. because of their gender. learn to fucking read.

lol

wtf are you on about now?

there is no difference when it comes to be discriminated against. discrimination is discrimination regardless of the subject or content.

lol, of course there is a fucking difference.

the experience of being non white is fundamentally different from the experience of being a woman, which is fundamentally different from being transgender or disabled. they operate differently, through different institutions and in different ways. this means you have to respond to them differently, they will affect you differently.

for a start, the amount of sexism/misogyny i experience FAR OUTWEIGHS the amount of racism i get (i am also brown). by tonnes and tonnes and tonnes. if a system of oppression is not targeted at you, you do not experience its effects in the same way. if you genuinely think being brown means you know all about sexism, you can actually fuck the fuck off. lmao.

[Sexual_Chocolate]

for a start, the amount of sexism/misogyny i experience FAR OUTWEIGHS the amount of racism i get (i am also brown). by tonnes and tonnes and tonnes. if a system of oppression is not targeted at you, you do not experience its effects in the same way. if you genuinely think being brown means you know all about sexism, you can actually fuck the fuck off. lmao.

it is targeted at us (and i use the word us, because its not just me).

and hell no, obviously being involved with racism doesnt mean i know whats up with sexism, but i know about being discriminated against (thats the point im trying to get across)

look, lets just leave it at this, we arent gonna see eye to eye on this and we seem to be taking up a large chunk of the happy thread with pointless rebutles.

pm me if you really think this needs to continue.

[antipode]

lol internet is srs.

what does he even shout?

[Sexual_Chocolate]

tulisa chokes on dick .... or summin along those lines.... cant remember tbh

[sigbowls]

when did this turn into a gay thread?

chocking on dick

[dubfordessert]

i said the dude in some video was a prick. which he is.

[sigbowls]

http://blogs.artvoice.com/exitmusic/201 ... big-basha/

[antipode]

downloadin her vid now doe

[Sexual_Chocolate]

prepare to be dissapointed

[antipode]

thx for the warning. that was shit