Post Your Random Thoughts Thread!

[mIrReN]

would rather find out that she's pregnant instead of her having a shit disease

[Laszlo]

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[Sexual_Chocolate]

would rather find out that she's pregnant instead of her having a shit disease

im in that point of my life where i dont reallly wish harm on any one

but yea, you're right

[magma]

Probably not the wisest piece of advice, but a well-timed acid trip did WONDERS for particularly stubborn thoughts of an ex-girlfriend.

[mIrReN]

not saying you were wishing harm upon her Nev just that I would rather be happy knowing she is is what I meant

[Electric_Head]

Probably not the wisest piece of advice, but a well-timed acid trip did WONDERS for particularly stubborn thoughts of an ex-girlfriend.

Yes, acid will solve it, yes.

[Sexual_Chocolate]

not saying you were wishing harm upon her Nev just that I would rather be happy knowing she is is what I meant

we both have medical problems as well

but i would be devestated if i found out she was terminal with something

[wub]

Probably not the wisest piece of advice, but a well-timed acid trip did WONDERS for particularly stubborn thoughts of an ex-girlfriend.

Only if you're prepared to accept what you see about her. If you don't like it and try to push it away, you'll have a very bad trip indeed.

[Laszlo]

Links for acid or anything 2c(?) ?

[Sexual_Chocolate]

silkroad

[garethom]

Links for acid or anything 2c(?) ?

Hope the mods don't mind... keep it on the down low...

http://online.daytripper.com/shop

[Laszlo]

Links for acid or anything 2c(?) ?

Hope the mods don't mind... keep it on the down low...

http://online.daytripper.com/shop

Do you think they sort me out if I wear my special badge?

[mIrReN]

not saying you were wishing harm upon her Nev just that I would rather be happy knowing she is is what I meant

we both have medical problems as well

but i would be devestated if i found out she was terminal with something

yeah...
stay ok guys

[Genevieve]

I'm not going to lie, she crushed me (emotionally, she wasn't obese) and I just haven't been able to recover. Never learned those skills and have manly men friends/family who don't talk about gay things like feelings.

Well yeah, but next time you think about her, just think the thought, breathe in and out, relax and just go on with the day. And you will think about her again that day and it WILL hurt again. It's not about stopping the pain, but how much that pain affects you. And when you let the pain affect you less, it'll appear less frequently until it's gone. The pain won't lessen, it'll just be spaced out more and more.

Your mind's like your body. When you curl a barbell, you're training your bicep. When you engage a thought and emotion, you're training your mind to engage them.

Don't focus on stopping the pain or thoughts. Focus on having them and then let them go.

[Pedro Sánchez]

Your mind's like your body. When you curl a barbell, you're training your bicep. When you engage a thought and emotion, you're training your mind to engage them.

Don't focus on stopping the pain or thoughts. Focus on having them and then let them go.

[Nihilism]

Probably not the wisest piece of advice, but a well-timed acid trip did WONDERS for particularly stubborn thoughts of an ex-girlfriend.

You also read that article in Psychology Today (don't sure if it was in this magazine) about the working of LSD and negative thoughts?

But to be honest, i never gonna do some lucy for getting an girl out of my head. That's just stupid.

[Laszlo]

I'm not going to lie, she crushed me (emotionally, she wasn't obese) and I just haven't been able to recover. Never learned those skills and have manly men friends/family who don't talk about gay things like feelings.

Well yeah, but next time you think about her, just think the thought, breathe in and out, relax and just go on with the day. And you will think about her again that day and it WILL hurt again. It's not about stopping the pain, but how much that pain affects you. And when you let the pain affect you less, it'll appear less frequently until it's gone. The pain won't lessen, it'll just be spaced out more and more.

Your mind's like your body. When you curl a barbell, you're training your bicep. When you engage a thought and emotion, you're training your mind to engage them.

Don't focus on stopping the pain or thoughts. Focus on having them and then let them go.

I appreciate that but it's not my conscious thoughts that bother me. It's not really about pain any more as it was so long ago, it's just the residual feeling I have when I wake up from a dream featuring her. I can't control my dreams (inb4 lucid dreaming). When I say she crushed me emotionally I just mean I am unwilling to fall in love again (hence "haven't been able to 'recover'") and so have put up barriers to stop that happening. I'm fine with that and it's not as if i'm unhappy it's just a case of "really?!? I'm still dreaming about her?!? Brain please!"
Haven't even seen/spoken to her in about two years. It amazes me that my mind has nothing better to come up with when i'm in the land of nod

[magma]

Probably not the wisest piece of advice, but a well-timed acid trip did WONDERS for particularly stubborn thoughts of an ex-girlfriend.

Only if you're prepared to accept what you see about her. If you don't like it and try to push it away, you'll have a very bad trip indeed.

Tbh, it wasn't what I saw about her that fixed it, it was what I saw about me.

[garethom]

Really feel like the first few weeks after breaking up with someone really shape how you're gonna feel about them in the future. Nothing better than some hardcore distraction in whatever form after breaking up. I went out so much, did so much sport and hooked up with some girl I thought was fit for a while after breaking up with my ex that within a month or so, I'd almost forgotten what it was like to be with her. Now, I don't have a clue, I don't know what it felt like to be going out with her. If you just dwell on it, then it just reinforces your ex in your mind and it'll go on longer and longer. Still see her around every now and then, but like, it's just that, I see her, I'm like, "huh, it's my ex", and then thoughts are gone.

That's not advice, or meant to help by the way, I dunno how to (Sorry Laszlo!), just a few thoughts.

[Genevieve]

Your mind's like your body. When you curl a barbell, you're training your bicep. When you engage a thought and emotion, you're training your mind to engage them.

Don't focus on stopping the pain or thoughts. Focus on having them and then let them go.

That's a nod of agreement! YOU'RE AGREEING WITH ME!!!!