there's always periods of chaos in between periods of harmonic resonance.
Cheers parson, I needed that just now. I just got dumped for the second time this year by the same girl. I'm pretty sure i'm not going to go back for a third go. She has walked all over me yet again. I'm pretty upset but that video made sense.
*grand* wrote:relationships are nothing more than experiences, some are good and some are bad
Knowledge right thurr.
silkie wrote:people are happy to be ur best friend n shit when they think they can get something out of u, then when they surpass u, they couldnt give a flying fuck about ya. that not dubstep thats life
You're still alive. Take your pain and express it, you'll probably create something beautiful. The only two moments in a relationship worth writing a song about are the first and last five minutes!
P Daley wrote:Ended up at a party last night with a bunch of people I don't know and blacked out,
Woke up this morning with an email about ordering a $70 pair of UFO pants.
P Daley wrote:Ended up at a party last night with a bunch of people I don't know and blacked out,
Woke up this morning with an email about ordering a $70 pair of UFO pants.
jameshk wrote:You're still alive. Take your pain and express it, you'll probably create something beautiful. The only two moments in a relationship worth writing a song about are the first and last five minutes!
This^^
It's going to be hard no matter what, but you have the power to choose what you do with the pain. You can bum yourself out and become self-destructive, or you can channel it into music (assuming most of us here are musicians) and possibly create something awesome. This could also potentially distract your mind for a moment and give you some general motivation.
Just mix. Had a shit break up a while back and whenever I got really miserable I just went for my decks, doing music changes the way your brainwaves work and you forget the shit that's going on.
See your mates loads as well that does no end of good, so does a night out. Ontop of that, go watch that god is in the neurons thread somewhere, explains stuff.
Unempty wrote:Ninjas are never unemployed, merely between missions.
jameshk wrote:You're still alive. Take your pain and express it, you'll probably create something beautiful. The only two moments in a relationship worth writing a song about are the first and last five minutes!
This^^
It's going to be hard no matter what, but you have the power to choose what you do with the pain. You can bum yourself out and become self-destructive, or you can channel it into music (assuming most of us here are musicians) and possibly create something awesome. This could also potentially distract your mind for a moment and give you some general motivation.
Yeah man i get you, I started on an ok wee beat today to eat the hours instead of festering wondering what could have been.
Its just a tnuc, we had been together 5 years, I thought things were going ok too.. I really love her, but i guess that means fuck all if its not mutual. I had plans for the future all of them including her, now i'm in a bit of a rut.
Fuck it Outlook in a couple of weeks, she has decided she's not going now so i've got an apartment to my self for a week (or hopefully not).
jameshk wrote:You're still alive. Take your pain and express it, you'll probably create something beautiful. The only two moments in a relationship worth writing a song about are the first and last five minutes!
This^^
It's going to be hard no matter what, but you have the power to choose what you do with the pain. You can bum yourself out and become self-destructive, or you can channel it into music (assuming most of us here are musicians) and possibly create something awesome. This could also potentially distract your mind for a moment and give you some general motivation.
Yeah man i get you, I started on an ok wee beat today to eat the hours instead of festering wondering what could have been.
Its just a tnuc, we had been together 5 years, I thought things were going ok too.. I really love her, but i guess that means fuck all if its not mutual. I had plans for the future all of them including her, now i'm in a bit of a rut.
Fuck it Outlook in a couple of weeks, she has decided she's not going now so i've got an apartment to my self for a week (or hopefully not).
Sounds good man.
Just think, you could be a Californian like me and not even be able to go to Outlook
Seriously though, just keep your head up as simple as that sounds. Keep looking forward and be thankful for what you have. Health, friends, family, shit even a sunny day or something. Life comes in chunks, just make sure each chunk was better than the last and everything will be awesome.
On a side note, go fucking crazy at Outlook for me! I will be here in SoCal stuck with a bunch of e-tard brosteppas moshing and screaming in my ear.
Atac wrote:Just think, you could be a Californian like me and not even be able to go to Outlook
Seriously though, just keep your head up as simple as that sounds. Keep looking forward and be thankful for what you have. Health, friends, family, shit even a sunny day or something. Life comes in chunks, just make sure each chunk was better than the last and everything will be awesome.
On a side note, go fucking crazy at Outlook for me! I will be here in SoCal stuck with a bunch of e-tard brosteppas moshing and screaming in my ear.
Cheers matey, I am struggling but i just need to man up.
I will go proper fucking crazy at Outlook dont worry... no doubt i'll be left in the apartment, wanking, by my self, at the end tho
Ennayess wrote:
Cheers parson, I needed that just now. I just got dumped for the second time this year by the same girl. I'm pretty sure i'm not going to go back for a third go. She has walked all over me yet again. I'm pretty upset but that video made sense.
Come on dude, going for attempt 3? Are you mad.
Do you have no self worth?
Be secure in your own individuality.
And keep saying to yourself,"I am a winner, I am a winner, I am a winner"
Well the last part might not do anything for you other than feeling like a self-help guru but the rest definitely apply.
Ennayess wrote:
Cheers parson, I needed that just now. I just got dumped for the second time this year by the same girl. I'm pretty sure i'm not going to go back for a third go. She has walked all over me yet again. I'm pretty upset but that video made sense.
Come on dude, going for attempt 3? Are you mad.
Do you have no self worth?
Be secure in your own individuality.
And keep saying to yourself,"I am a winner, I am a winner, I am a winner"
Well the last part might not do anything for you other than feeling like a self-help guru but the rest definitely apply.
yeah i said i'm pretty sure i'm not going back.
i have self worth i just feel shitty at the moment.
