Wachs Lyrical wrote:NEVER underestimate girls in their abilities to seem 100% interested and then deny you and any prior knowledge of leading you on.
You want a story to prove this? well here it goes.
About 2 month ago I started hanging out with this girl that goes to the same local gigs as me. She seemed really nice and for once, actually interested in the same things as me and could hold a decent conversation together. For the first few weeks there was some flirting (sitting very close to each other, hands accidentally brushing against each other, talk of meeting up outside of a gig scenario etc..) One night we are both getting a lift home with my friend and me and one of my other mates decide we want to get dropped off at our local. She asks if she can come to and I say that its fine but she would have to stay at my house cos she wouldn't be able to get home. On top of this I made it clear that there wasn't a spare bedroom and she would have to share my bed. She agreed with a smile on her face.
So I pay for all her drinks and at around 2 we head back to mine. We get into my bed, start hooking up and then about a minute later she just says "no". Now hold off on dissing my kissing techniqueslol, I have never had a complaint before so that wasn't the problem. She just said she wasn't sure. We stay up all night chatting anyway and then she hangs out all of the next morning with me thoroughly confused.
I thought I had been led on pretty fiercely but it gets much worse. I didn't really think it was worth me carrying on trying to hook up with her but I was talking to her on MSN and me having a free house comes up in conversation. She asks if she can come over and I think what the hell, no sweat off my back for her to just come to my house. I think that maybe she was just nervous the week before and now she has gone home and changed her mind. I was going to invite some of our mates over as well but she says that she wanted to see me on my own. Score right? RIGHT?
I get a txt on the day asking if I would mind going with her to her friend Chaz' house for a cotch. I know that Chaz split up with his fiance earlier that week so I didn't want to be a complete douche and leave him all alone at home so I agree. I had no idea how to get there and I promise you her directions were the worst directions off all time. Not even an address or postcode. Needless to say she didn't answer her phone and it took me an hour and a half to make what should have been a 10 minute journey.
Once I get there we are chatting away but I know I am not going to get any that night cos this dude's flat is too small for us to go anywhere. It gets to about 4 in the morning and she and Chaz go out for a smoke for like 30 minutes and I fall asleep. I wake up about 10 minutes later and the living room is dark. I walk to the end of the hall way and look into Chaz' room to see him hooking up with her. Pretty much in my face no? I make a hurried exit and head home at 5am.
The next day she makes out that she had no idea she was leading me on and it is my fault for being so presumptuous.
Moral of the story is: Girls do not apply to the same laws as men. They may seem like they are making sense and then pow, right in the kisser!
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