friends with the ex

amykamala · Post by **amykamala** » Fri Apr 04, 2008 2:53 pm

my ex is my best friend but he also has this uncanny ability to crush me with the blink of an eye.

frebentos · Post by **frebentos** » Fri Apr 04, 2008 2:56 pm

badger wrote:
frebentos wrote:
amykamala wrote:you know the rules. pics 4 proof
you should be so lucky, this is the most your getting.

OMG frank, will you be my husband?

sorry man i cant...Im not into big hair.

theevilgirl · Post by **theevilgirl** » Fri Apr 04, 2008 2:57 pm

i dont think its the safest thing to be friends with ur ex...

weak spirited people get caught up in emotions and its hard to get over it.

If youre strong enough to accept the fact that its over, and can tolerate seeing the other person with someone else, then cool, but seldom does that happen.

boy_arena · Post by **boy_arena** » Fri Apr 04, 2008 2:58 pm

I really dont think it is to be honest, theres too many feeling or feeling that were involved and wen new partners come on the scene things could become akward.

badger · Post by **badger** » Fri Apr 04, 2008 2:58 pm

i can change my hair for you frank!

frebentos · Post by **frebentos** » Fri Apr 04, 2008 3:00 pm

badger wrote:i can change my hair for you frank!

amykamala · Post by **amykamala** » Fri Apr 04, 2008 3:01 pm

i think said flaming ninja and the badger would make a lovely pair. but would you still be friends if you broke up ?

badger · Post by **badger** » Fri Apr 04, 2008 3:01 pm

TheEvilGirl wrote:i dont think its the safest thing to be friends with ur ex...

weak spirited people get caught up in emotions and its hard to get over it.

If youre strong enough to accept the fact that its over, and can tolerate seeing the other person with someone else, then cool, but seldom does that happen.

this is very true. i'm a lot more ok seeing my ex than she is with seeing me. which is why i rarely see her tbh, just ends up being far too stressful. saw her the other day though and it was ok, but had been months since i'd seen her before that

datura · Post by **datura** » Fri Apr 04, 2008 3:04 pm

frebentos wrote:
badger wrote:i can change my hair for you frank!

awww

badger · Post by **badger** » Fri Apr 04, 2008 3:05 pm

i have actually been comtemplating a drastic hairstyle change, this might just be the motivation i need

what style should i go for?

amykamala · Post by **amykamala** » Fri Apr 04, 2008 3:06 pm

mullet

theevilgirl · Post by **theevilgirl** » Fri Apr 04, 2008 3:06 pm

badger wrote:
TheEvilGirl wrote:i dont think its the safest thing to be friends with ur ex...

weak spirited people get caught up in emotions and its hard to get over it.

If youre strong enough to accept the fact that its over, and can tolerate seeing the other person with someone else, then cool, but seldom does that happen.
this is very true. i'm a lot more ok seeing my ex than she is with seeing me. which is why i rarely see her tbh, just ends up being far too stressful. saw her the other day though and it was ok, but had been months since i'd seen her before that

usually its the girls who get more caught up in emotions.

frebentos · Post by **frebentos** » Fri Apr 04, 2008 3:06 pm

badger wrote:i have actually been comtemplating a drastic hairstyle change, this might just be the motivation i need

what style should i go for?

shaved head EVERY TIME!

datura · Post by **datura** » Fri Apr 04, 2008 3:07 pm

frebentos wrote:
badger wrote:i have actually been comtemplating a drastic hairstyle change, this might just be the motivation i need

what style should i go for?
shaved head EVERY TIME!

Mushroom cut or stfu

vonboyage · Post by **vonboyage** » Fri Apr 04, 2008 3:08 pm

Stick a UK sized cereal bowl around ur head and trim to the brim.

Thats u badger

I mean, bowlio.

mikey_g · Post by **mikey_g** » Fri Apr 04, 2008 3:09 pm

TheEvilGirl wrote:i dont think its the safest thing to be friends with ur ex...

weak spirited people get caught up in emotions and its hard to get over it.
.

so what do you suggest?
"sorry love its over and you're too weak to be a my friend"

cruel to be kind and all that i suppose.

theevilgirl · Post by **theevilgirl** » Fri Apr 04, 2008 3:11 pm

would u rather see ur 'friend' miserable...you know after getting all emotional you will either fall back into it cuz u dont want to see them upset, or u will end up pissed off from hearing their bullshit. Lets be realistic here.

sines · Post by **sines** » Fri Apr 04, 2008 3:12 pm

Nope.
never ever ever.
Friends with benefits with your ex skrews it up even more.

badger · Post by **badger** » Fri Apr 04, 2008 3:13 pm

i aint no thug so no shavey for me, and i definitely aint getting a bowlie. thinking maybe an emo fringe...

mikey g wrote:
TheEvilGirl wrote:i dont think its the safest thing to be friends with ur ex...

weak spirited people get caught up in emotions and its hard to get over it.
.
so what do you suggest?
"sorry love its over and you're too weak to be a my friend"

cruel to be kind and all that i suppose.

sounds harsh but it might actually be the best thing to do. especially in the short term. things are a lot better with my ex now largely because i haven't really seen or spoken to her much

mikey_g · Post by **mikey_g** » Fri Apr 04, 2008 3:15 pm

i find it quite difficult to say nasty things to lasses once ive already made them cry

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