The Being Single Appreciation Thread

deamonds · Post by **deamonds** » Thu Sep 04, 2008 10:48 am

kins83 wrote:
deamonds wrote:im in love at the minute, she just doesnt know it yet..one of them ones..
you gonna do something about it? Maybe when you get the lambo?

lol, its only got 2 seats hahahaha!!!:D

oh noo, i wished i could do something about it, sadly not..what happened to your relationship kins?

do you reccomend that from personal experiance Jazamatazz?

kins83 · Post by **kins83** » Thu Sep 04, 2008 10:51 am

deamonds wrote:
kins83 wrote:
deamonds wrote:im in love at the minute, she just doesnt know it yet..one of them ones..
you gonna do something about it? Maybe when you get the lambo?
lol, its only got 2 seats hahahaha!!!:D

oh noo, i wished i could do something about it, sadly not..what happened to your relationship kins?

do you reccomend that from personal experiance Jazamatazz?

It's going well...we're still just kind of seeing each other. She came over for some kins cuisine yesterday, and we're seeing each other again on Friday, so yeah, it seems to be going alright! I wouldn't say we were in a relationship, but here's hoping.

Why can't you do anything about it mate?

ashley · Post by **ashley** » Thu Sep 04, 2008 10:52 am

nesslei wrote:
felixGash wrote:maybe I'm just so used to not being in one that I can't ever get that deep into one.. meh..
i hear ya. i'm starting to wonder whether i'm becoming too comfortable in my singledom as well! at least the only person i have to worry about in that conundrum is me... hehe.

Innit. Love being single me. Not being tied down. All that jazz.

jazzamataz · Post by **jazzamataz** » Thu Sep 04, 2008 10:54 am

HAHAH!
No, I saw it in a film... The one with Michael Douglas and Glenn Close...
Indecent proposal?

kins83 · Post by **kins83** » Thu Sep 04, 2008 10:55 am

Jazzamataz wrote:HAHAH!
No, I saw it in a film... The one with Michael Douglas and Glenn Close...
Indecent proposal?

I think it's Fatal Attraction, isn't it?

felixgash · Post by **felixgash** » Thu Sep 04, 2008 10:55 am

kins83 wrote:^ So do you just sort of lose interest and things fizzle out?

I don't know.. pretty much yes, I think.

Example, the last girl I was seeing I went into the 'relationship' telling myself it was just about the sex. I met her when I was wondering around outside the smoking area at Mission, classy, I was on my todd and I don't even smoke.. anyway, we pulled. Ended up seeing her for about three months and all the relationship consisted of was me or her calling each other after nights out for sex. In all that time I took her out for a drink once. Not that I didn't offer, cos I did actually ask but she didn't seem interested. It actually ended when I caught her pulling another guy after she'd come to the Fav where I was out with about 30 mates on a massive one, and she dragged me with her to come to Mission, can you believe the cheek! Got there, I dragged my mate Lyds with me, and we all got lost. Then I caught her!

I actually lol'd.

So I considered it totally over, but then she started to text/call me and wonder where I was. The cheek! Again! To the point where she was getting her housemate to call me off her phone (cos she knew I wouldn't pick up her calls) telling me how upset she was and had no idea what she'd done to deserve that treatment. Aww.

Anyway.. apparently she was so drunk she didnt even realise I'd seen her or what she'd done. I didn't care much, we wern't a couple, but the CHEEK!!

So there you go.. wrong type of girl, clearly.

Another one, who I actually did like, and who loved me to bits, ended because she got too clingy and lovey dovey. I worked at a bar where I pulled pretty much whenever I wanted - so I wasn't ready for a relationship. It's sad because, looking bad, she sucked a good dick boy.

deamonds · Post by **deamonds** » Thu Sep 04, 2008 10:55 am

i have got too say though that what i have noticed from looking at my friends relationship that i could see how being "too close" could drive you apart, for example the way she cracks the whip and he does whatever she says which i know is cliche, but if you see it in front of you, like in front of your eyeballs, you wouldnt believe it, seriously, some of the situations are unbelievable..

ashley · Post by **ashley** » Thu Sep 04, 2008 10:56 am

Jazzamataz wrote:HAHAH!
No, I saw it in a film... The one with Michael Douglas and Glenn Close...
Indecent proposal?

Indecent Proposal is where the billionaire guy pays $1million to shag this guys wife.

felixgash · Post by **felixgash** » Thu Sep 04, 2008 10:57 am

nesslei wrote:
felixGash wrote:maybe I'm just so used to not being in one that I can't ever get that deep into one.. meh..
i hear ya. i'm starting to wonder whether i'm becoming too comfortable in my singledom as well! at least the only person i have to worry about in that conundrum is me... hehe.

Awwz, babez. Ooookay oookay.. I'lllll marry you. We can worries about conundrumz togeva.

felixgash · Post by **felixgash** » Thu Sep 04, 2008 11:02 am

Also, to top it off, the bitch had the nerve to text me about 3 months after we'd stopped seeing one another.. THE CHEEK!

(Tbf, I was well up for a shag.. but I held back, gota keep my pride!)

jazzamataz · Post by **jazzamataz** » Thu Sep 04, 2008 11:05 am

kins83 wrote:
Jazzamataz wrote:HAHAH!
No, I saw it in a film... The one with Michael Douglas and Glenn Close...
Indecent proposal?
I think it's Fatal Attraction, isn't it?

That's the one!

Not really a fan of Big Mike or Glenn Close really, so forgive my ignorance.

jazzamataz · Post by **jazzamataz** » Thu Sep 04, 2008 11:07 am

Felix - i'd call that a fuckbuddy - that's not a relationship.

creepz · Post by **creepz** » Thu Sep 04, 2008 11:08 am

dam i remember what it was like , miss certain asspects of it too
ahh well nookie on tap ftw

felixgash · Post by **felixgash** » Thu Sep 04, 2008 11:09 am

Jazzamataz wrote:Felix - i'd call that a fuckbuddy - that's not a relationship.

I didn't say otherwise.

I just used the term 'relationship' to illustrate how long we were being what we were. Maybe I should say "during our fuckbuddyness" next time.

jazzamataz · Post by **jazzamataz** » Thu Sep 04, 2008 11:12 am

felixGash wrote:
Jazzamataz wrote:Felix - i'd call that a fuckbuddy - that's not a relationship.
I didn't say otherwise.

I just used the term 'relationship' to illustrate how long we were being what we were. Maybe I should say "during our fuckbuddyness" next time.

did you honestly feel hurt at all though? (not like male pride hurt, but genuinely) or was it like water off a duck's back?

felixgash · Post by **felixgash** » Thu Sep 04, 2008 11:16 am

Jazzamataz wrote:
felixGash wrote:
Jazzamataz wrote:Felix - i'd call that a fuckbuddy - that's not a relationship.
I didn't say otherwise.

I just used the term 'relationship' to illustrate how long we were being what we were. Maybe I should say "during our fuckbuddyness" next time.
did you honestly feel hurt at all though? (not like male pride hurt, but genuinely) or was it like water off a duck's back?

No, honestly, wasn't hurt at all. A bit angry at the time - you've got to understand, the girl came to the club I was at, had a drink, then decided to leave and BEGGED me to come along. So I did.. only after begging my housemate to come too.

So to catch her snogging some other tramp (he was a right goon) was a bit annoying.. but because of the cheek of it all, to re-use my favourite phrase of today, and how ugly/scrawny the other lad was, I literally laughed in her face and walked off. And had to stop Lydia (housemate) from slapping her.

nousd · Post by **nousd** » Thu Sep 04, 2008 11:18 am

^ Which brings us to the nub: being single's fine if it's by choice.

deamonds · Post by **deamonds** » Thu Sep 04, 2008 11:31 am

felixGash wrote: So I considered it totally over, but then she started to text/call me and wonder where I was. The cheek! Again! To the point where she was getting her housemate to call me off her phone (cos she knew I wouldn't pick up her calls) telling me how upset she was and had no idea what she'd done to deserve that treatment. Aww.

does that not show that she obviously had feelings for vu...and the fact that you was pissed at her for pulling? another geezer, do you not think that the only reason she did this was that she felt that just bcoz use 2 were just fucking and you wouldnt seem bothered

btw define "pulling" because exchanging numbers isnt really something to get worried about, kissing & shit, thats another story

felixgash · Post by **felixgash** » Thu Sep 04, 2008 11:34 am

deamonds wrote:
felixGash wrote: So I considered it totally over, but then she started to text/call me and wonder where I was. The cheek! Again! To the point where she was getting her housemate to call me off her phone (cos she knew I wouldn't pick up her calls) telling me how upset she was and had no idea what she'd done to deserve that treatment. Aww.
does that not show that she obviously had feelings for vu...and the fact that you was pissed at her for pulling? another geezer, do you not think that the only reason she did this was that she felt that just bcoz use 2 were just fucking and you wouldnt seem bothered

btw define "pulling" because exchanging numbers isnt really something to get worried about, kissing & shit, thats another story

Mate, if you knew the girl you'd know it was all an act. She's a party girl, a MASSIVE cigarette hag, and is out pilled up off her (rather large) tits every night. Add to the fact that we didn't really ever have any 'deep' convos.. not about God and stuff, but about each other.. it never got intimate.

So no, I don't think it does.

As for 'pulling'.. I only use that word to mean a full on snog.

deamonds · Post by **deamonds** » Thu Sep 04, 2008 11:43 am

lol @ cigarette hag...

yea party girl's arent normally the ones you see attached to a fella, ill give you that...

to be honest with you though, any girls you think in your eyes that you see as girlfriend material (dont worry im going somewhere with this) seem to not be on it or tend to string you along, and im not talking about the girls that are banging and the ones you fall in love with on sight, because in my eyes thats lust, rather than love..but how does it fucking work, if you go on like that, they think you are only after one thing, but if you befriend them, they always say
*me putting on a whiney patronising accent*
"i dont want to spoil the friendship we have"

and the way you feel after, well boy...

and THEN they get the hump with you because u cant be as pally pally as you was before you told them how you feel....you just cant win

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