things that have made you happy today

kins83 · Post by **kins83** » Thu Aug 28, 2008 1:46 pm

gwa wrote:Got picture of her?

yes thanks.

gwa · Post by **gwa** » Thu Aug 28, 2008 1:48 pm

Ah, I see.

elbe · Post by **elbe** » Thu Aug 28, 2008 1:55 pm

kins83 wrote:
eLBe wrote:
kins83 wrote:^ Jealous
yes....yes I am
Don't worry, I'm sure it'll go wrong one way or another. It can't be too long before she realises that I'm a tit.

Thats the spirit.

nah mate I'm sure things will be fine

kins83 · Post by **kins83** » Thu Aug 28, 2008 2:13 pm

gwa wrote:Ah, I see.

lol. I don't really want to be plastering photos of her on the internet, and I don't really need the ego boost of people saying "yeah she's fit". I like her and fuck what anyone else thinks anyway.

bellybelle · Post by **bellybelle** » Thu Aug 28, 2008 2:15 pm

kins83 wrote:
gwa wrote:Ah, I see.
lol. I don't really want to be plastering photos of her on the internet, and I don't really need the ego boost of people saying "yeah she's fit". I like her and fuck what anyone else thinks anyway.

deamonds · Post by **deamonds** » Thu Aug 28, 2008 2:16 pm

are you taking her out kins or have u got something else planned?

kins83 · Post by **kins83** » Thu Aug 28, 2008 2:19 pm

deamonds wrote:are you taking her out kins or have u got something else planned?

Yeah, we're going out for some food at a place called 'Sous le Nez', some swanky french restaurant. Thing is, she's insisted on paying (I cooked her a meal a couple of weeks back and she wants to even things up). Do you think I should go along with it or insist on paying at least half? God I'm rubbish at this shit.

deamonds · Post by **deamonds** » Thu Aug 28, 2008 2:23 pm

well you could insist on paying, then if she still says no, let her go to the toilet n pay when she isnt looking...?

deamonds · Post by **deamonds** » Thu Aug 28, 2008 2:23 pm

oh and learning the meaning of a "dental dam" made me happy 2day

gwa · Post by **gwa** » Thu Aug 28, 2008 2:25 pm

kins83 wrote:
deamonds wrote:are you taking her out kins or have u got something else planned?
Yeah, we're going out for some food at a place called 'Sous le Nez', some swanky french restaurant. Thing is, she's insisted on paying (I cooked her a meal a couple of weeks back and she wants to even things up). Do you think I should go along with it or insist on paying at least half? God I'm rubbish at this shit.

Pay before she can even think about it. I.e give the waiter your card and ask for the bill!

elbe · Post by **elbe** » Thu Aug 28, 2008 2:31 pm

I have completely different advice, let her pay, your both adults, both able to make decisions, she has decided to pay, let her pay it is her treat to you. Simple thing is this leaves it open for another date because you need to take her out somewhere and pay to even things out.

bellybelle · Post by **bellybelle** » Thu Aug 28, 2008 2:40 pm

eLBe wrote:I have completely different advice, let her pay, your both adults, both able to make decisions, she has decided to pay, let her pay it is her treat to you. Simple thing is this leaves it open for another date because you need to take her out somewhere and pay to even things out.

I'm kinda with you eLBe. If you wanna make a show of it, offer. But if she still insists on paying, let her. Its important for us to feel like we can do nice things too. Don't take that from her if she really wants to do it.

kins83 · Post by **kins83** » Thu Aug 28, 2008 2:44 pm

Thanks ninjas.

badger · Post by **badger** » Thu Aug 28, 2008 2:52 pm

kins83 wrote:My bathroom is spick and span. Not a pube in sight. That's the bathroom, not me. I've got 5

you even cleared the beard clippings off the sink? she gets better treatment than i did

elbe · Post by **elbe** » Thu Aug 28, 2008 2:53 pm

bellybelle wrote:
eLBe wrote:I have completely different advice, let her pay, your both adults, both able to make decisions, she has decided to pay, let her pay it is her treat to you. Simple thing is this leaves it open for another date because you need to take her out somewhere and pay to even things out.
I'm kinda with you eLBe. If you wanna make a show of it, offer. But if she still insists on paying, let her. Its important for us to feel like we can do nice things too. Don't take that from her if she really wants to do it.

I'm just going on previous experiance, my ex used to like me paying but not all the time, she liked to keep things even though not necessarily in monitary value. Also have friends that actually end up in big arguments started by stupid things like who is going to pay.

bellybelle · Post by **bellybelle** » Thu Aug 28, 2008 2:53 pm

badger wrote:
kins83 wrote:My bathroom is spick and span. Not a pube in sight. That's the bathroom, not me. I've got 5
you even cleared the beard clippings off the sink? she gets better treatment than i did

i think he'd rather curl up with a happy lady than a happy badger tho. and thus, the preferential treatment

triky · Post by **triky** » Thu Aug 28, 2008 2:54 pm

bellybelle wrote:
eLBe wrote:I have completely different advice, let her pay, your both adults, both able to make decisions, she has decided to pay, let her pay it is her treat to you. Simple thing is this leaves it open for another date because you need to take her out somewhere and pay to even things out.
I'm kinda with you eLBe. If you wanna make a show of it, offer. But if she still insists on paying, let her. Its important for us to feel like we can do nice things too. Don't take that from her if she really wants to do it.

definitely! let the girl pay. oh make sure you dont get cheated on the wine. good wine years in france : 1989, 1990, 2000, 2005
bad wine years: 2003 and 2004 (tell the waiter to take it back, if it's a real french restaurant, it will please them you know your wine). don't take anything after 05 (wine is too young). just a tip.

elbe · Post by **elbe** » Thu Aug 28, 2008 2:56 pm

triky wrote:
bellybelle wrote:
eLBe wrote:I have completely different advice, let her pay, your both adults, both able to make decisions, she has decided to pay, let her pay it is her treat to you. Simple thing is this leaves it open for another date because you need to take her out somewhere and pay to even things out.
I'm kinda with you eLBe. If you wanna make a show of it, offer. But if she still insists on paying, let her. Its important for us to feel like we can do nice things too. Don't take that from her if she really wants to do it.
definitely! let the girl pay. oh make sure you dont get cheated on the wine. good wine years in france : 1989, 1990, 2000, 2005
bad wine years: 2003 and 2004 (tell the waiter to take it back, if it's a real french restaurant, it will please them you know your wine). don't take anything after 05 (wine is too young). just a tip.

or tell them french wine is shit and you want something Austrailian.

badger · Post by **badger** » Thu Aug 28, 2008 2:56 pm

bellybelle wrote:i think he'd rather curl up with a happy lady than a happy badger tho. and thus, the preferential treatment

are you saying i'm not good enough for him?

triky · Post by **triky** » Thu Aug 28, 2008 2:59 pm

elbe, je suis out-rah-jed! but i must agree to a certain extent. sardinian wine beats the grape juice outta all wines. relatively unknown, but unforgettably divine!

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