girls, why is it that..

theevilgirl · Post by **theevilgirl** » Sun Apr 20, 2008 1:50 pm

sometimes I feel like maybe we were better off without an opinion.

Ignorance is bliss.

but then again....maybe not.

bellybelle · Post by **bellybelle** » Sun Apr 20, 2008 1:51 pm

fuagofire wrote:i think the problem is that this equal rights buisness has gone too far

exactly. since when did it become ok to let men out for more than an hour a day to go and do their potty business...?

jokes!

I know you guys don't seem to hear many of the times that your female dubsteppahs are having the same problems. It was said that we ladies won't go out with a guy who doesn't have any money. How many of you guys overlooked a chick because she wasn't tiny and stacked? You don't want the chicks who only want your money? Stop choosing the chicks, then, based on what she looks like and ask more questions than, "Boyfriend?" "Single?" "Whats your fav tv show?" and "Wanna fuck?"

Like....a close friend of mine is 29 and totally picked this 19 yr old girl because her star tats on her hips were hot and she looked good naked and she was sweet because she was pierced and wanted to fuxx0rz his brains out. A few months later, he wants to come bitch to me when the 19 yr old doesn't want a serious relationship and only wants to get drunk and hook up. So i asked him, "You want sympathy from me because your 19 yr old gf acted like a 19 yr old and you're upset about it? Fuck you!"

both sides need better decision-making skills. way better

shonky · Post by **shonky** » Sun Apr 20, 2008 1:53 pm

Delendi wrote:i agree in terms of society. the dynamics are a bit fucked now...

Yep, was reading something in the Guardian today about how all women mp's are judged on their looks and how this didn't cross over to male counterparts, and thought it utter tosh - William Hague got lambasted for being bald, Menzies Campbell for being too old - there hasn't been a US president without a full head of hair since since Gerald Ford over 30 years ago, so it's clear that cosmetic irrelevancies play just as much of a role for men as they do women, which was neatly skirted over in the article.

I can't really figure why people would want their politicians to be pin-ups too, it's essentially showbiz for ugly people isn't it

delendi · Post by **delendi** » Sun Apr 20, 2008 1:55 pm

i don't want a guy with money. evidence of this is in my backcatalogue. i want one with a job tho, preferably, because i don't wanna get into a relationship in which i'll still be paying for both of us in a years time. appealing as down and out but talented bums are, it's time to grow up... i'm not 16 and misty eyed anymore.

theevilgirl · Post by **theevilgirl** » Sun Apr 20, 2008 1:56 pm

bellybelle wrote:
fuagofire wrote:i think the problem is that this equal rights buisness has gone too far
exactly. since when did it become ok to let men out for more than an hour a day to go and do their potty business...?

jokes!

I know you guys don't seem to hear many of the times that your female dubsteppahs are having the same problems. It was said that we ladies won't go out with a guy who doesn't have any money. How many of you guys overlooked a chick because she wasn't tiny and stacked? You don't want the chicks who only want your money? Stop choosing the chicks, then, based on what she looks like and ask more questions than, "Boyfriend?" "Single?" "Whats your fav tv show?" and "Wanna fuck?"

Like....a close friend of mine is 29 and totally picked this 19 yr old girl because her star tats on her hips were hot and she looked good naked and she was sweet because she was pierced and wanted to fuxx0rz his brains out. A few months later, he wants to come bitch to me when the 19 yr old doesn't want a serious relationship and only wants to get drunk and hook up. So i asked him, "You want sympathy from me because your 19 yr old gf acted like a 19 yr old and you're upset about it? Fuck you!"

both sides need better decision-making skills. way better

i agree....but most guys are incapable of thinking outside of the groin area...at least during the first encounter...meaning...a guy would most likely approach a girl based on looks/body language mainly to figure out whether or not he wants to fuck her or vice versa. his decision there after will be based on whether or not he succeed with the first step.... IMO

delendi · Post by **delendi** » Sun Apr 20, 2008 1:57 pm

u know i WISH popstars were allowed to be ugly still. then we might still have some decent sounding music.

delendi · Post by **delendi** » Sun Apr 20, 2008 1:59 pm

TheEvilGirl wrote:
bellybelle wrote:
fuagofire wrote:i think the problem is that this equal rights buisness has gone too far
exactly. since when did it become ok to let men out for more than an hour a day to go and do their potty business...?

jokes!

I know you guys don't seem to hear many of the times that your female dubsteppahs are having the same problems. It was said that we ladies won't go out with a guy who doesn't have any money. How many of you guys overlooked a chick because she wasn't tiny and stacked? You don't want the chicks who only want your money? Stop choosing the chicks, then, based on what she looks like and ask more questions than, "Boyfriend?" "Single?" "Whats your fav tv show?" and "Wanna fuck?"

Like....a close friend of mine is 29 and totally picked this 19 yr old girl because her star tats on her hips were hot and she looked good naked and she was sweet because she was pierced and wanted to fuxx0rz his brains out. A few months later, he wants to come bitch to me when the 19 yr old doesn't want a serious relationship and only wants to get drunk and hook up. So i asked him, "You want sympathy from me because your 19 yr old gf acted like a 19 yr old and you're upset about it? Fuck you!"

both sides need better decision-making skills. way better
i agree....but most guys are incapable of thinking outside of the groin area...at least during the first encounter...meaning...a guy would most likely approach a girl based on looks/body language mainly to figure out whether or not he wants to fuck her or vice versa. his decision there after will be based on whether or not he succeed with the first step.... IMO

hands up who's ever been a trophy girlfriend

theevilgirl · Post by **theevilgirl** » Sun Apr 20, 2008 2:01 pm

Delendi wrote:u know i WISH popstars were allowed to be ugly still. then we might still have some decent sounding music.

HA!

theevilgirl · Post by **theevilgirl** » Sun Apr 20, 2008 2:02 pm

Delendi wrote:
TheEvilGirl wrote:
bellybelle wrote:
fuagofire wrote:i think the problem is that this equal rights buisness has gone too far
exactly. since when did it become ok to let men out for more than an hour a day to go and do their potty business...?

jokes!

I know you guys don't seem to hear many of the times that your female dubsteppahs are having the same problems. It was said that we ladies won't go out with a guy who doesn't have any money. How many of you guys overlooked a chick because she wasn't tiny and stacked? You don't want the chicks who only want your money? Stop choosing the chicks, then, based on what she looks like and ask more questions than, "Boyfriend?" "Single?" "Whats your fav tv show?" and "Wanna fuck?"

Like....a close friend of mine is 29 and totally picked this 19 yr old girl because her star tats on her hips were hot and she looked good naked and she was sweet because she was pierced and wanted to fuxx0rz his brains out. A few months later, he wants to come bitch to me when the 19 yr old doesn't want a serious relationship and only wants to get drunk and hook up. So i asked him, "You want sympathy from me because your 19 yr old gf acted like a 19 yr old and you're upset about it? Fuck you!"

both sides need better decision-making skills. way better
i agree....but most guys are incapable of thinking outside of the groin area...at least during the first encounter...meaning...a guy would most likely approach a girl based on looks/body language mainly to figure out whether or not he wants to fuck her or vice versa. his decision there after will be based on whether or not he succeed with the first step.... IMO

hands up who's ever been a trophy girlfriend

i have too much respect for myself for trophy-ism

i think thats why i get stuck masterbating. ugh...but like ive said before....GUARANTEED ORGASMS!

shonky · Post by **shonky** » Sun Apr 20, 2008 2:03 pm

bellybelle wrote:I know you guys don't seem to hear many of the times that your female dubsteppahs are having the same problems. It was said that we ladies won't go out with a guy who doesn't have any money. How many of you guys overlooked a chick because she wasn't tiny and stacked? You don't want the chicks who only want your money? Stop choosing the chicks, then, based on what she looks like and ask more questions than, "Boyfriend?" "Single?" "Whats your fav tv show?" and "Wanna fuck?"

Does any bloke really just choose purely on looks though? I mean it's important to find them attractive but if there's not much of interest mentally and personality-wise it's going to get very dull very quickly. I prefer women that spend more time on being witty and intelligent than what they should wear to maximise their narcissistic supply.

shonky · Post by **shonky** » Sun Apr 20, 2008 2:05 pm

TheEvilGirl wrote:
Delendi wrote:u know i WISH popstars were allowed to be ugly still. then we might still have some decent sounding music.
HA!

MTV is to blame for this. Jesus there were some ugly popstars before video came along

delendi · Post by **delendi** » Sun Apr 20, 2008 2:05 pm

i don't tend to realise i'm a trophy until a while down the line... little bits of body language like a strong hold when in public and in front of other men they know. and insisting that you're perfect together despite having shit all in common

delendi · Post by **delendi** » Sun Apr 20, 2008 2:07 pm

Shonky wrote:
TheEvilGirl wrote:
Delendi wrote:u know i WISH popstars were allowed to be ugly still. then we might still have some decent sounding music.
HA!
MTV is to blame for this. Jesus there were some ugly popstars before video came along

i know... TOTP2 is a real eye opener... and then closer to save yourself the torture of non-orthodentistry.

theevilgirl · Post by **theevilgirl** » Sun Apr 20, 2008 2:07 pm

Shonky wrote:
bellybelle wrote:I know you guys don't seem to hear many of the times that your female dubsteppahs are having the same problems. It was said that we ladies won't go out with a guy who doesn't have any money. How many of you guys overlooked a chick because she wasn't tiny and stacked? You don't want the chicks who only want your money? Stop choosing the chicks, then, based on what she looks like and ask more questions than, "Boyfriend?" "Single?" "Whats your fav tv show?" and "Wanna fuck?"
Does any bloke really just choose purely on looks though? I mean it's important to find them attractive but if there's not much of interest mentally and personality-wise it's going to get very dull very quickly. I prefer women that spend more time on being witty and intelligent than what they should wear to maximise their narcissistic supply.

i can agree with this....but why humor them and then when they decline the invitation to have sex...all of a sudden they aren't worth the time?

thats happened to me so many times....I will be myself, make jokes, laugh, entertain your flirting comments, but if i don't wanna have sex with you tonight...you dont speak to me again? lame...

delendi · Post by **delendi** » Sun Apr 20, 2008 2:10 pm

you're old enough (no offence, obv) to realise that intelligent conversation and interest is important shonks. younger guys take a while to figure this out and think the perfect girl is one they REALLY wanna screw and will let them. some men never realise this... and still act like youts.

delendi · Post by **delendi** » Sun Apr 20, 2008 2:11 pm

TheEvilGirl wrote:thats happened to me so many times....I will be myself, make jokes, laugh, entertain your flirting comments, but if i don't wanna have sex with you tonight...you dont speak to me again? lame...

'what? LESBIAN'

theevilgirl · Post by **theevilgirl** » Sun Apr 20, 2008 2:15 pm

Delendi wrote:
TheEvilGirl wrote:thats happened to me so many times....I will be myself, make jokes, laugh, entertain your flirting comments, but if i don't wanna have sex with you tonight...you dont speak to me again? lame...
'what? LESBIAN'

might as well be....damn.

im not a fan of the pussy tho.

bellybelle · Post by **bellybelle** » Sun Apr 20, 2008 2:17 pm

Delendi wrote:hands up who's ever been a trophy girlfriend

I was once, but only so the guy could prove how much he wasn't a racist, being that he had a black gf.... *sighs*

Shonky wrote:Does any bloke really just choose purely on looks though? I mean it's important to find them attractive but if there's not much of interest mentally and personality-wise it's going to get very dull very quickly. I prefer women that spend more time on being witty and intelligent than what they should wear to maximise their narcissistic supply.

Its more that in order to even have the conversation about whether or not a guy is attracted, you have to meet the physical requirements strictly. I'm a cute chick (not judging by the Ninja photo. I put that up because I really dun wanna be seen like a cutie here) but even still I've noticed how many guys overlook a girl who is completely wonderful because she might not fit what he finds sexually appealing--that is, until the girl has a bf and all of a sudden becomes the most beautiful thing ever when he sees how good her new mans got it. He coulda been there for years, been her friend all that time and never did anything. Now all of a sudden, she's got herself a man who loves and appreciates her and she's giving him love and trust and being a good lady, and now all of a sudden her friend realizes that she's awesome? Fuggidabbadit.

The problem is that good people on either side want the whole package. And because looks are so important, you make the person you're initially attracted to fit all the other things you want. You'll say the person is witty if they catch an allusion or you'll say she's funny if she laughed at one of your jokes. A lady will say a guy is sensitive because he called her up to say he missed her once or will say a guy is responsible because he had a job intv when they first met. You're just making the square peg fit.

Maybe its an age thing tho. Things are supposed to be different the older we get.....I'm still waiting tho..

fuagofire · Post by **fuagofire** » Sun Apr 20, 2008 2:18 pm

bellybelle wrote:
fuagofire wrote:i think the problem is that this equal rights buisness has gone too far
exactly. since when did it become ok to let men out for more than an hour a day to go and do their potty business...?

jokes!

I know you guys don't seem to hear many of the times that your female dubsteppahs are having the same problems. It was said that we ladies won't go out with a guy who doesn't have any money. How many of you guys overlooked a chick because she wasn't tiny and stacked? You don't want the chicks who only want your money? Stop choosing the chicks, then, based on what she looks like and ask more questions than, "Boyfriend?" "Single?" "Whats your fav tv show?" and "Wanna fuck?"

Like....a close friend of mine is 29 and totally picked this 19 yr old girl because her star tats on her hips were hot and she looked good naked and she was sweet because she was pierced and wanted to fuxx0rz his brains out. A few months later, he wants to come bitch to me when the 19 yr old doesn't want a serious relationship and only wants to get drunk and hook up. So i asked him, "You want sympathy from me because your 19 yr old gf acted like a 19 yr old and you're upset about it? Fuck you!"

both sides need better decision-making skills. way better

yeah i was joking, and i think you make a good point, but when you grow up in a world where the media tells you what good looking is then thats what you accept you need, i would like to clarify i think the liberation of women last centuary was a good thing, i do go on looks but only at first i think a girls attitude can realy boost how good looking she is, you could have a girl who is plain looking but her attitude is good which to me makes her more desirable than a very good looking girl who is a stupid bitch.
there are lots of cool girls but the tend to be taken.

shonky · Post by **shonky** » Sun Apr 20, 2008 2:20 pm

TheEvilGirl wrote:
Shonky wrote:
bellybelle wrote:I know you guys don't seem to hear many of the times that your female dubsteppahs are having the same problems. It was said that we ladies won't go out with a guy who doesn't have any money. How many of you guys overlooked a chick because she wasn't tiny and stacked? You don't want the chicks who only want your money? Stop choosing the chicks, then, based on what she looks like and ask more questions than, "Boyfriend?" "Single?" "Whats your fav tv show?" and "Wanna fuck?"
Does any bloke really just choose purely on looks though? I mean it's important to find them attractive but if there's not much of interest mentally and personality-wise it's going to get very dull very quickly. I prefer women that spend more time on being witty and intelligent than what they should wear to maximise their narcissistic supply.
i can agree with this....but why humor them and then when they decline the invitation to have sex...all of a sudden they aren't worth the time?

thats happened to me so many times....I will be myself, make jokes, laugh, entertain your flirting comments, but if i don't wanna have sex with you tonight...you dont speak to me again? lame...

I've actually made quite a lot of female friends through this tack actually, which may have been not particularly my first choice but it's no bad thing

girls, why is it that..

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