The friend zone sucks.deamonds wrote:lol @ cigarette hag...
yea party girl's arent normally the ones you see attached to a fella, ill give you that...
to be honest with you though, any girls you think in your eyes that you see as girlfriend material (dont worry im going somewhere with this) seem to not be on it or tend to string you along, and im not talking about the girls that are banging and the ones you fall in love with on sight, because in my eyes thats lust, rather than love..but how does it fucking work, if you go on like that, they think you are only after one thing, but if you befriend them, they always say
*me putting on a whiney patronising accent*
"i dont want to spoil the friendship we have"
and the way you feel after, well boy...
and THEN they get the hump with you because u cant be as pally pally as you was before you told them how you feel....you just cant win
I'm beginning to grasp the subtle art of seduction though.
This works for me, straight up, every time:
- Never buy a girl a drink when you met her
- Engauge her in conversation
- get her number
- walk away, and text/call her a day later
- a few small converstaions (you have to get this right - talk about a wide range of things, but extract info about exes and the like if you wish... the key is to know what you're looking for - don't be afraid to answer your own quesions either.)
- ask her out...
Make sure it's all done within the week. If not, you've lost your window of oppertunity.
The one thing I have learned - honesty, is a brilliant policy.
