Socially awkward around females?

ScarletCyanide · Post by **ScarletCyanide** » Sat Mar 17, 2012 9:31 pm

Ite guyss, so I'm in a cliched 'I like a girl, that I've never spoken to and dunno how to get a conversation started' predicament, kindda pissing me off, she's not any more popular at school than me and I think I'm in with a chance in that respect, but dunno how to get anything started and I think she's on the verge of getting into a relationship with some other guy :/

Anyone else having shitey female troubles? In a mood to vent, would be nice to hear I'm not alone haha

Viineri · Post by **Viineri** » Sat Mar 17, 2012 9:34 pm

I'm socially awkward around everyone... Sorry OP, I'm not really helping you, am I? :/

Shum · Post by **Shum** » Sat Mar 17, 2012 9:37 pm

"Did I tell you about that time I went to a Skrillex concert... in BRIXTON!?"

Clean · Post by **Clean** » Sat Mar 17, 2012 9:38 pm

If you have a class with her, ask her about the assignments or something. As long as you seem interesting she will probably talk to you lol.

Pedro Sánchez · Post by **Pedro Sánchez** » Sat Mar 17, 2012 9:40 pm

If you having girl problems I feel bad for you son, I got 99 problems but being socially awkward around females ain't one.

cityzen · Post by **cityzen** » Sat Mar 17, 2012 9:44 pm

saint1 · Post by **saint1** » Sat Mar 17, 2012 10:43 pm

Just ignore her at all costs, this way she'll be gagging for in a matter of months

scattybeanhead · Post by **scattybeanhead** » Sat Mar 17, 2012 10:52 pm

if she's gonna go out with some other guy and you've never spoken to her then chances are whatever you say to her isn't gonna make much of a difference. go for a girl you can actually speak to dude

ScarletCyanide · Post by **ScarletCyanide** » Sat Mar 17, 2012 11:27 pm

cityzen · Post by **cityzen** » Sat Mar 17, 2012 11:30 pm

ScarletCyanide wrote:Excision

Well, there's your....
actually, nm

Genevieve · Post by **Genevieve** » Sat Mar 17, 2012 11:30 pm

You go to the same school, yet you've spoken on Facebook and not in real life?

I'm not hatin', man. I get that you're anxious. But that's making me feel old.

dubstepper · Post by **dubstepper** » Sat Mar 17, 2012 11:33 pm

I think most guys kinda feel awkward around a girl they like and don't feel confident enough to talk or ask her out for fear of rejection.
I can't reallt give you any tips on helping combat this. All i can say is some of the girls i have had i'd never thought they would go with me and they did.
So just bit the bullet and ask her out, coz i tell you this now if she does say yes it could be the start of something great. If she says no then apart from maybe a little dented pride/ego you have lost nothin. But if you don't ask her out you will never know what could have been.

ScarletCyanide · Post by **ScarletCyanide** » Sat Mar 17, 2012 11:38 pm

mcguiganking · Post by **mcguiganking** » Sat Mar 17, 2012 11:40 pm

Viineri wrote:I'm socially awkward around everyone... Sorry OP, I'm not really helping you, am I? :/

Shum · Post by **Shum** » Sat Mar 17, 2012 11:42 pm

nothing weird about asking her out via facebook, tell you wanna get to know her better IRL and that. added bonus being that rejection via the internet doesn't sting as much as it does in person.

say_whut · Post by **say_whut** » Sat Mar 17, 2012 11:54 pm

dubstepper wrote: you will never know what could have been.

it always comes down to this, really. Just do approach her, a rejection - a harsh word - is not at a bad thing, at least you would have went up to her. This is all under the assumption you fuck it up, but you might not

ascent · Post by **ascent** » Sun Mar 18, 2012 12:04 am

doesnt make sense to me that you have only spoken on facebook, why would you add people you havent spoken to??? go up to her and ask her out ya twat

Samuel_L_Damnson · Post by **Samuel_L_Damnson** » Sun Mar 18, 2012 12:10 am

Tell her you have a 12 inch

JBoy · Post by **JBoy** » Sun Mar 18, 2012 12:14 am

ascent wrote:doesnt make sense to me that you have only spoken on facebook, why would you add people you havent spoken to??? go up to her and ask her out ya twat

bright maroon · Post by **bright maroon** » Sun Mar 18, 2012 12:19 am

I think if you have a chance to see her in person - or can make effort to make he chance...

ask her out in real time...

Do it like this...

tell her that you are putting in a formal bid for her affection
and that you would like to have lunch to see if it could be fun...
at the very least you could be friends...

then either be denied entry...

or have a fun lunch - and then leave her with your number
to call back in a few days if she wants to go out again...

but be sure to tell her the offer expires in 10 days...so for her to be dilligent

then wait...

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