anyone in the NY tri-state area help me out?

[topkat]

i'm so sick of this 21+ to get into venues. i've missed so many events that I wanted to go to just because Im not 21. I turn 21 in june but can't wait any longer! I don't know what to do! do any of you guys know of any places around NY that aren't strict on IDs or that would let me in if i didn't drink...something