i know im in the dubstepforum but in my opinion producing dubstep is quite similar in producing dnb and im about to ask quite general questions about mixing... yeah i already read a huge amount of tutorials and i know how to use an eq etc. but i think my ears are just not made for mixing tracks... (the earwax removal had already been

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if you listen to this wip you will notice that there is a copping like bass which is not really present in my opinion. it is but i dont know, its not really fitting in the mix. the last tutorial i read were of "dnbscene" and they descriped a 5 step way to mix down dnb. actually i always think that the sound wich is coming out of my daw (ableton in this case) is never the sound wich is coming out of my speakers after i rendered the track.
i tried to mix (dj like mixing) my wip with "heist - the verdict vip" just for fun and i noticed that the track is much louder and clearer then mine. i know there are tons of tutorials on how to mix a clear sound and i already read this thread called "how to get my tracks superloud like zomboy/skrillex etc." but that does not work for me because i always try NEVER to clip the master, so if i do, my waveform looks like other tracks as well but that is not my aim because ... you know clipping is bad in the master ...
the verdict is just a example, every other professional mixed track is like this, i never released a track wich is satisfying me in case of mixing and i just dont know why :S ( again: i read nearly every mixing tutorial in this forum and tons in the internet but i feel like a noob because it never worked for me oO)
that is a screenshot out of traktor. my mix is not clipping, i dont konw if i like the vol levels but they seem okay .. ( thats why i mean my ears are not made for mixing down(listening music too loud is the worst you can do ... ))
any tips?