Always feel like out of the social circle?

Donaldbeebi · Post by **Donaldbeebi** » Tue Dec 30, 2014 12:45 pm

Is anyone with me? None of my friends would actively invite me to eat, hang out or play. They just sort of "hate" you in your perspective. Even I am in front of my friends' faces, they can just.. like ignore me, talk about eating together, when, where, with whom and just walk away like Im never there. Should I call them friends? They are "friends" that I have been playing with for 5 years. Five fucking years. They can organize any sort of social activities without me 99% of the time.
Whenever I call them out, they are like, SORRY, TOO BUSY BRUH. I tried to be the active one, rather than being passive and waiting for invitation, but it wont work.
Well what am I supposed to do? Tell them the problem? They make fun of me, keep mentioning me about me being the odd one out. They are joking in front of me like "Hey, why are you here?", you can tell they are joking, but it is not funny, and it is annoying.
I tell them again, to invite me, but guess what. My friend answered me saying "sorry, i wasnt the one who host the party"
And guess what, the host is one of my friends.
Is it hard to suggest me to be invited?
What the fuck is wrong with my friends.

soronery · Post by **soronery** » Tue Dec 30, 2014 12:46 pm

have you considered its because youre a whingy tnuc

Donaldbeebi · Post by **Donaldbeebi** » Tue Dec 30, 2014 12:49 pm

soronery wrote:have you considered its because youre a whingy tnuc

I tried not to be whingy, but that just hurts me
Imagine you are excluded from your friends, how can you not be whingy

soronery · Post by **soronery** » Tue Dec 30, 2014 12:52 pm

sounds like theyre not really your friends

or at least friends that arent very good for you

recognise them as a drain of your life

and cut them out

get better friends

jrkhnds · Post by **jrkhnds** » Tue Dec 30, 2014 12:57 pm

soronery wrote: recognise them as a drain of your life

and cut them out

DJoe · Post by **DJoe** » Tue Dec 30, 2014 12:59 pm

DJoe · Post by **DJoe** » Tue Dec 30, 2014 12:59 pm

terrible grammar

Riddles · Post by **Riddles** » Tue Dec 30, 2014 1:00 pm

yeah, what these guys are saying is right. I went through some stuff like this several years ago, dropped all the people who we're actually detrimental to my happiness and now I'm livin it large!

Donaldbeebi · Post by **Donaldbeebi** » Tue Dec 30, 2014 1:00 pm

soronery wrote:sounds like theyre not really your friends

or at least friends that arent very good for you

recognise them as a drain of your life

and cut them out

get better friends

That is what I have been thinking of bro, but I cant find any friends that are BETTER
I am limited to these douchebags.

Donaldbeebi · Post by **Donaldbeebi** » Tue Dec 30, 2014 1:01 pm

DJoe wrote:terrible grammar

It would be nice to point them out so I can improve

DJoe · Post by **DJoe** » Tue Dec 30, 2014 1:02 pm

you're a sideman. not your a sideman

soronery · Post by **soronery** » Tue Dec 30, 2014 1:02 pm

Donaldbeebi wrote:
soronery wrote:sounds like theyre not really your friends

or at least friends that arent very good for you

recognise them as a drain of your life

and cut them out

get better friends
That is what I have been thinking of bro, but I cant find any friends that are BETTER
I am limited to these douchebags.

no one is limited to anyone

as soon as you take these people out of your life

youll have more time for yourself

to pursue new interests

or at least the same interests in different crowds

and you will meet new people naturally

Donaldbeebi · Post by **Donaldbeebi** » Tue Dec 30, 2014 1:03 pm

DJoe wrote:you're a sideman. not your a sideman

sorry, tot you were talking about my post

wobbles · Post by **wobbles** » Tue Dec 30, 2014 1:04 pm

They are laughing at u bro

Cut them out. You will find new ones eventually

Donaldbeebi · Post by **Donaldbeebi** » Tue Dec 30, 2014 1:04 pm

soronery wrote:
Donaldbeebi wrote:
soronery wrote:sounds like theyre not really your friends

or at least friends that arent very good for you

recognise them as a drain of your life

and cut them out

get better friends
That is what I have been thinking of bro, but I cant find any friends that are BETTER
I am limited to these douchebags.
no one is limited to anyone

as soon as you take these people out of your life

youll have more time for yourself

to pursue new interests

or at least the same interests in different crowds

and you will meet new people naturally

Thanks man

rockonin · Post by **rockonin** » Tue Dec 30, 2014 1:05 pm

Your mates sound like tnucs. Fuck them off and meet new people. By the sounds of it they don't like hanging out with you.

Harkat · Post by **Harkat** » Tue Dec 30, 2014 1:07 pm

Bro you don't need friends now you have DSF, trust me

after coming on to here I realized all my friends were actually agents of babylon

nousd · Post by **nousd** » Tue Dec 30, 2014 1:09 pm

He who can only find friendship amongst douchebags is presumably...?

The answer is probably unsatisfying , unless you are willing to admit the truth.
Anyway, nothing wrong with being a douchebag as long as you stick to the company of your own kind.
Which you are.

Donaldbeebi · Post by **Donaldbeebi** » Tue Dec 30, 2014 1:13 pm

nousd wrote:He who can only find friendship amongst douchebags is presumably...?

The answer is probably unsatisfying , unless you are willing to admit the truth.
Anyway, nothing wrong with being a douchebag as long as you stick to the company of your own kind.
Which you are.

I dont exactly understand what you mean, but the only way I can meet friend BY NOW is school, only a narrow kinds of friends I can find, of course I will cut the fuck out of them, but right now I want to have a better group of friends.

nousd · Post by **nousd** » Tue Dec 30, 2014 1:17 pm

no worries Don
if you exactly understood what I meant, you'd probably feel like a douchebag.

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