Re: ideas, tips for meeting women
Posted: Thu Jan 05, 2012 8:55 pm
do you not go to any gigs or anything? Seems like the obvious answer, you don't have to get smashed!
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Pedro Sánchez wrote:seriously though, gyms are a good place to meet fit women and you don't even have to be a sted head, just lurk in the sauna, I met one of my ex's this way, she turned out to be a fucking nutter but that's beside the point.
noam wrote:sit in a cafe and read an interesting book whilst producing music on your laptop
do this as much as you can
and masturbate more
Shum wrote:Do you have many mates outside of work OP? Serious question. Being more of a social butterfly with your existing circle of friends is bound to get you meeting more women.
Haha yes just don't drown yourself in Axe or colognes, it's gross. Perfumes make my stomach hurt, it's a turn off when I smell a girl's perfume before she's close enough to talk to. Honestly I prefer natural smell to chemicals. It just smells like you're trying to hide something anyway. Just keep clean as mentioned, no need to bathe in chems.knell wrote: make sure you take care of yourself hygienically every day.
I share this view. Aftershave & Perfumes are rank and uneccesary.wormcode wrote:Haha yes just don't drown yourself in Axe or colognes, it's gross. Perfumes make my stomach hurt, it's a turn off when I smell a girl's perfume before she's close enough to talk to. Honestly I prefer natural smell to chemicals. It just smells like you're trying to hide something anyway. Just keep clean as mentioned, no need to bathe in chems.knell wrote: make sure you take care of yourself hygienically every day.
i don't want to hijack this thread with my internet dating horror stories, so short list:DRTY wrote:what LACE said... spill us some o dem beansknell wrote: i've never met any mentally stable girls via dating sites so i'd use that as a last resort (just my experience).
If it's any consolation, I've met some pretty mental ones in the traditional manner... but there ought to be laws against the creatively shot profile picture. SHOW ME NECK AND ARMS, LADY.knell wrote:i don't want to hijack this thread with my internet dating horror stories, so short list:DRTY wrote:what LACE said... spill us some o dem beansknell wrote: i've never met any mentally stable girls via dating sites so i'd use that as a last resort (just my experience).
-rubber fetishist (not necessarily unstable on its own but terrifying in that case)
-mental breakdown in public restaurant
-the "i'm not letting you out of my sight after the first date" one
-the ol picture switcharoo (if I'm going on a date with Predator I usually like to know beforehand, I don't judge but jeebus have some self respect and don't lie to people)
nice ones lolknell wrote:
i don't want to hijack this thread with my internet dating horror stories, so short list:
-rubber fetishist (not necessarily unstable on its own but terrifying in that case)
-mental breakdown in public restaurant
-the "i'm not letting you out of my sight after the first date" one
-the ol picture switcharoo (if I'm going on a date with Predator I usually like to know beforehand, I don't judge but jeebus have some self respect and don't lie to people)
thats good advice. not to mention it gets you into something different than you are used to.meanmrcustard wrote:How it works is that the girls rotate around so you dance with everyone as the night progresses, which gives you a chance to meet everyone without any pressure. Then everyone goes to the pub afterwards where you can make more chat.
My mates last 2 girlfriends have been through facebook. One lasted for about a month and a half, his latest has been with him for just over a year now. Personally, I don't even know how to initiate that shit, especially if it's a hot girl from school you didn't really speak to. Not that thats relevant to meMr Hyde wrote:Facebook
meanmrcustard wrote:Start dancing.
Seriously, last year I started swing dancing (fuck you, it's awesome) in Brixton (same building, but just downstairs from Mass of DMZ fame actually). The classes get to the point where they stop letting girls sign up and only guys can sign up because there are already too many girls. How it works is that the girls rotate around so you dance with everyone as the night progresses, which gives you a chance to meet everyone without any pressure. Then everyone goes to the pub afterwards where you can make more chat.
I signed up with my girlfriend, but made the mental note that if I was to find myself single any time soon, dancing classes would be the way forward.
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