It seems my question was founded on two misconceptions of previous pots made by you, so, sorry about that.
My main curiosity was to do with different kinds of feminism and the sliding scale from seemingly out-and-out misandry to, well, perfectly logical requests for sexual equality.
If your stance is found outside, but very close to, feminism, in the form of pro-feminism, then i'm not going to ask you to be a Wiki filter for me. That's a bit long.
I'd be interested to know how many feminist women enjoy/would consent to a thorough choke-fucking or being the submissive in sex play... What would that Venn diagram look like..?
I agree with your post on the whole - I don't have a problem with porn made consensually, I just personally don't see the attraction. That's more to do with my own shortcomings than any moral disgust brought about by the belief that all women in porn are sick in the head/drug addicts/being abused in some way.
Your last paragraph was a bit depressing though. I have my reasons.
I find it amusing that, for the non vanilla amongst us, there are only really two choices - we can either find a loving partner that is into what we are (potentially after weeks, months or years of introducing 'ideas' to the bedroom) or we have to indulge in 'organised promiscuity'. There is no option for randomly fulfilling our strongest sexual desires. You can't just go to Tiger Tiger and ask a girl if you can go back to her place and spank her arse half raw with a hairbrush.
Re: things that have made you happy today
Posted: Tue Apr 23, 2013 4:46 pm
by Lye_Form
Seriously, he started doing cocaine too much and ended up in rehab...
Re: things that have made you happy today
Posted: Tue Apr 23, 2013 5:08 pm
by Muncey
The fuck happened in here?!
Re: things that have made you happy today
Posted: Tue Apr 23, 2013 5:43 pm
by CreamLord
Porn
Re: things that have made you happy today
Posted: Tue Apr 23, 2013 5:44 pm
by Muncey
Re: things that have made you happy today
Posted: Tue Apr 23, 2013 7:04 pm
by wilson
This looks perfect! Def want to reach.
Re: things that have made you happy today
Posted: Tue Apr 23, 2013 7:06 pm
by dickman69
Muncey wrote:
M8 thats helix
Re: things that have made you happy today
Posted: Tue Apr 23, 2013 7:12 pm
by didi
Muncey wrote:
Shit like this annoys me. I see the funny side, but I still get baited.
Re: things that have made you happy today
Posted: Tue Apr 23, 2013 8:34 pm
by BonerJams04
Lye Form wrote:Seriously, he started doing cocaine too much and ended up in rehab...
then he punched eminem
like whaaaaaat
Re: things that have made you happy today
Posted: Tue Apr 23, 2013 9:25 pm
by Shum
wilson wrote:
This looks perfect! Def want to reach.
That is a truly beautiful lineup.
Re: things that have made you happy today
Posted: Tue Apr 23, 2013 9:29 pm
by Kochari
Laszlo wrote:
I find it amusing that, for the non vanilla amongst us, there are only really two choices - we can either find a loving partner that is into what we are (potentially after weeks, months or years of introducing 'ideas' to the bedroom) or we have to indulge in 'organised promiscuity'. There is no option for randomly fulfilling our strongest sexual desires. You can't just go to Tiger Tiger and ask a girl if you can go back to her place and spank her arse half raw with a hairbrush.
Laszlo wrote:I'd be interested to know how many feminist women enjoy/would consent to a thorough choke-fucking or being the submissive in sex play... What would that Venn diagram look like..?
Actually, and I have no experience record to go on but my own, I really don't think it's that strange a mix. It's not (at least on a societal scale) uncommon for men with demanding responsibilities, perhaps from a high powered job to want to be submissive in the bedroom, some even go as far as dressing up as babies or having their balls trampled on. We have, of course, got to be really careful to make sure that women aren't being coerced into this sort of thing by over-eager men, but I don't think it should be seen as a sign of weakness or frailty in the woman's character, just as getting reamed by bodybuilder dominatrix's shouldn't for Tory MPs. Thinking back to previous, err, encounters, I've probably done things that would make my mother deeply unhappy, but they've almost always been at the lady's request. I just pick the good rollercoasters, I guess...
I find it amusing that, for the non vanilla amongst us, there are only really two choices - we can either find a loving partner that is into what we are (potentially after weeks, months or years of introducing 'ideas' to the bedroom) or we have to indulge in 'organised promiscuity'. There is no option for randomly fulfilling our strongest sexual desires. You can't just go to Tiger Tiger and ask a girl if you can go back to her place and spank her arse half raw with a hairbrush.
I reckon the Internet will, well is, helping a great deal with this. If you met your chosen life partner through the traditional mating roulette of the dancefloor, you have to find these things out face to face whilst possibly blushing a bit and risking looking like (or becoming) a sex pest. The Internet is letting a whole generation of deviant mentalists meet and joyfully film each other getting anally fisted in the vestries of suburban Methodist chapels before going and having a nice latte in Starbucks... it's a beautiful thing, I just don't necessarily want to think about all that coffee.
Re: things that have made you happy today
Posted: Tue Apr 23, 2013 9:51 pm
by Phigure
AP twitter got hacked
The Dow dropped 150 points after this
Re: things that have made you happy today
Posted: Tue Apr 23, 2013 9:57 pm
by noam
gf been promoted to office manager after like, a month in her new job
gone from havin nothin to a sick new job/wage in like a month
what a G
/pride
Re: things that have made you happy today
Posted: Tue Apr 23, 2013 10:02 pm
by Lye_Form
Seriously, i think entourage got cancelled cus of that bitch.
Re: things that have made you happy today
Posted: Tue Apr 23, 2013 10:14 pm
by Johoosh
wilson wrote:
This looks perfect! Def want to reach.
Bagged a couple of early birds for this. Hoping they bring in some extra weight to the venue
Re: things that have made you happy today
Posted: Tue Apr 23, 2013 10:15 pm
by thekuku
''i think da intro is better dan the whole beat'' ''The drum beat is sick, the rest is just sorry.'' ''Sick drums but you need to fix rest of the beat.'' Comments on this video made my day. Goodnight DSF
Re: things that have made you happy today
Posted: Tue Apr 23, 2013 10:15 pm
by dickman69
Phigure wrote:AP twitter got hacked
The Dow dropped 150 points after this
m8 my jaw dropped 150 pts after reading that
Re: things that have made you happy today
Posted: Tue Apr 23, 2013 11:03 pm
by AxeD
Got offered a nice room in Dam, now just need to decide and sort shit out.