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Electric_Head wrote:You kind of also need to realize that you are in a long distance relationship and it is understandable that she may be a bit concerned that you're loosing interest or something.
It's just a natural fear.

Reassure her.

I totally get that but I do reassure her of that nearly every day, she's coming to spend xmas with me and I'm gunna propose (she already knows this as we've discussed it), I'm probably going to end up moving to Mexico to be with her so it's not a case of me losing interest at all, I know she does worry about stuff a lot though so yeah I probs could do some more reassuring

particle-jim wrote:she's coming to spend xmas with me and I'm gunna propose (she already knows this as we've discussed it)

particle-jim wrote: Ishe's coming to spend xmas with me and I'm gunna propose (she already knows this as we've discussed it)

thats awesome man. big ups to you. hope everything goes well

Nevalo wrote:

particle-jim wrote: Ishe's coming to spend xmas with me and I'm gunna propose (she already knows this as we've discussed it)

thats awesome man. big ups to you. hope everything goes well

this

but tbf, isn't it a bit "soon"

particle-jim wrote: I totally get that but I do reassure her of that nearly every day, she's coming to spend xmas with me and I'm gunna propose (she already knows this as we've discussed it), I'm probably going to end up moving to Mexico to be with her so it's not a case of me losing interest at all, I know she does worry about stuff a lot though so yeah I probs could do some more reassuring

Women are incredibly fickle at times.
Even if you're locked in a steel box for a month they'll still have thoughts of your infidelity.

Not saying you've done anything wrong.
The distance between you would be more than enough for her to be fearful of loosing you.

mIrReN wrote:

Nevalo wrote:

particle-jim wrote: Ishe's coming to spend xmas with me and I'm gunna propose (she already knows this as we've discussed it)

thats awesome man. big ups to you. hope everything goes well

this

but tbf, isn't it a bit "soon"

I don't think so tbh, we both know it's the right thing

all I needed to hear, carry on!

particle-jim wrote:

mIrReN wrote:

Nevalo wrote:

particle-jim wrote: Ishe's coming to spend xmas with me and I'm gunna propose (she already knows this as we've discussed it)

thats awesome man. big ups to you. hope everything goes well

this

but tbf, isn't it a bit "soon"

I don't think so tbh, we both know it's the right thing

I'm all for moving abroad for love, don't get me wrong.

But how long have you been together, and what's the actual total amount of time you've spent physically in the same place as one another during that time?

(Also, how old is she?)

bro. listen to your heart

defo slap her when she comes over for xmas

just to set things straight for the falling asleep incident

and congratulations on ur proposal idea hope its successful

Electric_Head wrote:

particle-jim wrote: I totally get that but I do reassure her of that nearly every day, she's coming to spend xmas with me and I'm gunna propose (she already knows this as we've discussed it), I'm probably going to end up moving to Mexico to be with her so it's not a case of me losing interest at all, I know she does worry about stuff a lot though so yeah I probs could do some more reassuring

Women are incredibly fickle at times.
Even if you're locked in a steel box for a month they'll still have thoughts of your infidelity.

Not saying you've done anything wrong.
The distance between you would be more than enough for her to be fearful of loosing you.

I totally understand man, I'm currently working on some high level reassuring

Big ups Jim. Which side of the Atlantic are you planning on living?

magma wrote:Big ups Jim. Which side of the Atlantic are you planning on living?

Top side I'd imagine, the under side is a bit damp.

just need to show her how much you love her (bar the proposal)

Bold move on the proposal! Though saying that Im pretty much at the other end of the spectrum on "time passed till its "right"

Johnlenham wrote:Bold move on the proposal! Though saying that Im pretty much at the other end of the spectrum on "time passed till its "right"

My girl's parents, especially her Mum, ask when we're going to get married almost every time she calls these days. Apparently we've offended delicate Southern sensibilities by doing everything in the wrong order.

magma wrote:Big ups Jim. Which side of the Atlantic are you planning on living?

Thanks man, most likely be living on the other side though we did consider her coming over here, she's got way more aspirations and career prospects over there though whereas I've got fuck all going on here apart from the band, cost of living there is WAAAAAAAAY cheaper too

Also I'd quite like to run a soundsystem in Mexico and play loads of street parties and fiestas

Conquistador Sound

wub wrote:But how long have you been together, and what's the actual total amount of time you've spent physically in the same place as one another during that time?
(Also, how old is she?)

Though we haven't spent a huge amount of time physically together we do talk every spare minute of every day and the time we have spent together has been very full on, basically every second of every day save for toilet breaks, the idea to propose to show that i'm committed to making it work long term despite the current distance and also to make it easier for us legally when we want to live together, in all likelihood the actual wedding probably wont be for at least 18months - 2 years, in which time we'll still be making regular trips to see eachother and talking every day

she's older than me by 9 months

Fair enough

teamhobson wrote:Flying into Edinburgh later today and my Facebook newfeed is going OFF with heather the weathers reporting how ridiculous the winds are. Flights are being cancelled left right and centre. Got Karenn tonight at sub club and plan on getting wavey as fuck with my main man. Gonna be so pissed if i cant get home.

Tbh the winds have totally calmed down here, not sure about Edinburgh though. Hopefully you manage to make it along tonight!

EDIT: Although, it is snowing now...

Nevalo wrote:just need to show her how much you love her (bar the proposal)

the stronger the serpent, the longer the love