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^talking to strangers on the internet via forums is vastly different to what you are (probably) referring to as talking to someone though I don't disagree with what you're saying otherwise

Depression and crippling social anxiety fuels me almost as much as the alcohol does.

Too many people get depressed over nothing.

JBoy wrote:Too many people get depressed over nothing.

Definitely. I think a lot of people need to lighten up sometimes, people seem to be so seriously all the time now days.

i went to a psych ward one time for like 4 days because I had to immediately leave for a booking


true story

jameshk wrote:

JBoy wrote:Too many people get depressed over nothing.

Definitely. I think a lot of people need to lighten up sometimes, people seem to be so seriously all the time now days.

I get you, not very sensitively worded perhaps, but yeah. I guess with people making an effort to make people aware of things like depression it can become very easy for people to just think "well I'm sad, I guess I'm depressed" and just accept that.

Try talking to someone who is clinically depressed about starving kids in Africa and see what response you get.

this episode of adventure time is about depression and the gnostic revelation

the magic man is the demiurge
the freaks in the cave are humanity

dreamizm wrote:Try talking to someone who is clinically depressed about starving kids in Africa and see what response you get.

Thats proper depression though, not just someone thats crying because theyve finished uni and havent been given the 30k+ job they think they deserve.

_v_ wrote: great art comes from depression, take Billy Corgan for example, hes happy now and makes shit music...

could very well be something in that...

Should've done a Kurt Cobain years ago.

JBoy wrote:

dreamizm wrote:Try talking to someone who is clinically depressed about starving kids in Africa and see what response you get.

Thats proper depression though, not just someone thats crying because theyve finished uni and havent been given the 30k+ job they think they deserve.

Well done for getting my point.

dreamizm wrote:

JBoy wrote:

dreamizm wrote:Try talking to someone who is clinically depressed about starving kids in Africa and see what response you get.

Thats proper depression though, not just someone thats crying because theyve finished uni and havent been given the 30k+ job they think they deserve.

Well done for getting my point.

You'd qualify as the latter then?

1. Do push ups.
2. Never talk about it again. Ever.
3. Problem solved.

I force myself to work out. Weight training 3 times per week, plus high intensity interval training 3 more days. I don't talk about it or whine about it. I force myself to go to bed at 11 and get up and 9 and have breakfast. Despite my 3 hours of sleep every night. And you won't find anyone with a better, healthier, more balanced diet than me.

'Just going on and not being a pussy' and 'doing things to keep your mind off it' doesn't work. That's sadness, not depression.

No one cares about this 'one really sad friend of yours' who needs to 'stop bitching'. This thread is about depression.

i've struggled with depression for many, many years
And yes, this is a semi-anonymous outlet for admitting it, verbalizing it, venting about it, without fear of embarrassment/backlash IRL

and i fully appreciate that, so thanks OP

ffs im sick of people not getting how depression works and thinking someone can simply snap out of it, it doesn't work like that....ask a professional

i am usually on an even keel but have had a month or so back fucking dark bleak times, i didn't snap out of it....i just got out of it as i was able to but i will have a time like that again

anyone talking about depression like something people are putting on due to not getting a good job etc dont get it....and have never experienced it themselves, dont get me wrong with some people the best thing you can do is make suggestions to help them with solutions that are practical but jesus christ dont be so fucking arrogant and assured that YOU KNOW whats going on in someones head....lets see if you still think that when you have a sudden panic attack and hit rock bottom...everything is relative....if it was all to do with situation nobody would ever get depressed in the west as were in the top 5 percent of the worlds wealth...but it isnt to do with that...its chemicals mixed with the subconcious fucking us over

depression is not a choice like being gay










jk lololol

Good work all of you that basically say if someone is depressed then snap out of it- go and be useful and have fun. Clearly you've got a good understanding of how a depressed mind works.

anyone who would say something like that clearly doesnt suffer from depression

perhaps I should have added a or something, I was being sarcastic, something that doesn't translate too well in text!