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no no that's not a fleshlight that is a vocal chord simulator mini tube lying under my bed, dad

it snowed here ffs

lol yeah feels like it was summer jus wile ago and now it snow

Shum wrote:Don't even recognise half the Korean dudes on that list.

you know Flash though.

ott - my girlfriend started medschool earlier this year. we both study fulltime and work parttime because our parent's are poor, and it's been really tough on our relationship. we don't see eachother for days, even though we only live 5 minutes apart. when we get to spend some time together she's often stressed out, or it's just for an hour or so because I have to go to work afterwards or sth. whenever we phone, all we do is complain to eachother how shit and exhausting our day was... also, we have next to no common interests, which makes planning activities a bit difficult at times.
this all makes me sad and leaves me a bit disappointed, dissatisfied. I hope we can work out some strategies one day in order to learn how to take care of eachother despite the circumstances.

Chin up lad, some blokes don't even have any gyaldom

that's rough

don't mean to sound like a dick but maybe it's time to call it quits? i mean, it shows you care about her but worst case scenario what you have right now will degenerate into seeing spending time with her a chore and/or seeing her as a downer

having nearly nothing in common is shitty too. like you said, can't really do anything together. maybe you should both stretch out of your comfort zones? this way noone is sacrificing anything

didn't you meet her at a rave whilst on mandy?

theres a common interest at least.

Harkat wrote:didn't you meet her at a rave whilst on mandy?

theres a common interest at least.

Well, yes, but I can't go on a belter every other weekend. And getting fucked doesn't exactly help with reducing the amount of work that needs to be done either. We tend to dip two or three times a year, but make it count. But she doesn't like any electronic music except hard hitting german izan techno (slight exaggeration) so when I'm going to see Forest Swords I'll take some friends but leave her home.

ultraspatial wrote:that's rough

don't mean to sound like a dick but maybe it's time to call it quits? i mean, it shows you care about her but worst case scenario what you have right now will degenerate into seeing spending time with her a chore and/or seeing her as a downer

having nearly nothing in common is shitty too. like you said, can't really do anything together. maybe you should both stretch out of your comfort zones? this way noone is sacrificing anything

I've been thinking about breaking up with her now and then, but it just isn't an option at the moment. The time we spend together I enjoy, even if it's just two grumpy people cuddling in bed for an hour and a half. It also helps that she really does make efforts and tries to spend time with me etc. so we do stell appreciate eachother and try to make an impression. The relationship is a far cry from stale yet. Some circumstances - and the way we try to work around them - are inconvenient, yes, but calling it quits would be a bit too early imho.
The whole thing has been working fine for three years now. Of course we had our little arguments and some minor hiccups, but all in all it's been a fucking good time. I don't want the ride to end just yet; I'm trying to figure out how to deal with the current situation without putting even more pressure on her (that's my main concern at the moment).
Regarding having stuff in common: yes you're right, we should definitely do that. It's just convenient to stay lazy and blame everything on study & work at the moment, so I don't feel compelled to do anything - if that makes any sense... But definitely a topic I want to tackle next week.

Thanks for the compassion guys.

jrkhnds wrote:she doesn't like any electronic music except hard hitting german izan techno

may have to steal yo girl

Embrace the izan techno IMO

ive had to embrace children by robert miles to get on with the student radio crew, it can be done

hope shit works out mate

you'll work it out, my gal ( well we're on a break so idfk) doesnt like any electronic music, so we find different interests. if not, you can always join me and the bottle of bourbon its been a great time

dickman69 wrote:

finji wrote:

holy shit don't google image vocal cords

SFW?

sheds a whole new light on the concept of deep throat.

OGLemon wrote:

jrkhnds wrote:she doesn't like any electronic music except hard hitting german izan techno

may have to steal yo girl

*lines forming*

nah boys get lost.

Harkat wrote:Embrace the izan techno IMO

Oh I do. love getting beat up by some hard hitting 4x4 industrial allnighter. throw some old acid records in there and I'm having the time of my life.

ehbes wrote:you'll work it out, my gal ( well we're on a break so idfk) doesnt like any electronic music, so we find different interests. if not, you can always join me and the bottle of bourbon its been a great time

Oh, Burbon? I consider myself more of a Gin guy; maybe we should just stay friends instead...
Thanks for the kind words.
I'm not sure common interests are even required to lead a happy relationship. What matters is that you can share your thoughts and feelings, be open about the things that bother you or make you happy. If somebody makes you feel loved, accepted and respected, gives you love and tenderness, likes the way your crooked teeth shine in the sunlight everytime you make a miserable attempt to display a smile - there's a strong chance you don't need any connecting hobbies for things to work out.

lol this thread =

AxeD wrote:

OGLemon wrote:

jrkhnds wrote:she doesn't like any electronic music except hard hitting german izan techno

may have to steal yo girl

*lines forming*

i believe they are called 'queues'. this is primarily a british forum after all.

(that word has two too many vowels in it btw brits get ur act togheter ffs)

blame the french for the spelling of "queue".