some people don't know the difference between "respect" and "putting on a pedestal".
with the result that some guys ("assholes") think that ANY real respect for women makes them pussies
and others ("nice guys") think that fawning coupled with good old fashioned patriarchal bullshit amounts to respect.
both wrong.
had an okcupid message from this guy once with a horrible profile about how he's a nice guy and a nerd and you should try him for once because he'll totally worship you if you give him a chance and do anything you want. like, what? i don't need a cult following thanks
Re: ''nice guys'' of okcupid
Posted: Sat Dec 22, 2012 7:22 pm
by Sonika
too funny, good look
Re: ''nice guys'' of okcupid
Posted: Mon Dec 24, 2012 7:23 pm
by lovelydivot
I thought about this last night...and this is wrong
You are supposed to hit the friend zone...
It means you are on the track to an actual relationship...
You don't want to be the flash and bang dude....
That's juvenile...
Re: ''nice guys'' of okcupid
Posted: Mon Dec 24, 2012 7:26 pm
by lovelydivot
Am I gonna have to tell the story again...
The one about the guy spurring his girlfriend on in the coffee shop...
That was just flat out mean.
Re: ''nice guys'' of okcupid
Posted: Mon Dec 24, 2012 7:28 pm
by Terpit
Friendzoning means you're not on your way to a relationship tho
Re: ''nice guys'' of okcupid
Posted: Mon Dec 24, 2012 7:45 pm
by lovelydivot
Maybe for girls who like misogyny...
But you don't want one of those...or do you?
Answer this question wrong and you will suffer....
Re: ''nice guys'' of okcupid
Posted: Mon Dec 24, 2012 7:47 pm
by garethom
lovelydivot wrote:Maybe for girls who like misogyny...
But you don't want one of those...or do you?
it's just a phrase.
Re: ''nice guys'' of okcupid
Posted: Mon Dec 24, 2012 7:56 pm
by Terpit
lovelydivot wrote:
Answer this question wrong and you will suffer....
Im scared, not gonna answer
Re: ''nice guys'' of okcupid
Posted: Mon Dec 24, 2012 8:04 pm
by skell1ngton777
lol fedoras
Re: ''nice guys'' of okcupid
Posted: Mon Dec 24, 2012 8:05 pm
by Sonika
I spent way too much time looking at this
Re: ''nice guys'' of okcupid
Posted: Mon Dec 24, 2012 9:14 pm
by hifi
wht are these? memes?
Re: ''nice guys'' of okcupid
Posted: Tue Dec 25, 2012 8:37 am
by knell
jazzamataz wrote:obligation highlights something slightly sinister in their thought processes
agreed, there's something eerily transparent about guys who want to blame their failures on the opinions of others
Re: ''nice guys'' of okcupid
Posted: Tue Dec 25, 2012 12:36 pm
by Ficticious
Just sayin'
Re: ''nice guys'' of okcupid
Posted: Fri Dec 28, 2012 2:05 am
by lovelydivot
If you can't get through my friend zone...
than you can't get through at all.
Seriously - If I can't sit and chat shit with you over a plate of nachos than what is it?
A potentially humiliating pain in the ass - That's what.
Re: ''nice guys'' of okcupid
Posted: Fri Dec 28, 2012 2:08 am
by kingGhost
lovelydivot wrote:If you can't get through my friend zone...
than you can't get through at all.
Seriously - If I can't sit and chat shit with you over a plate of nachos than what is it?
A potentially humiliating pain in the ass - That's what.
wanna get some nachos together?
Re: ''nice guys'' of okcupid
Posted: Fri Dec 28, 2012 2:14 am
by Genevieve
lovelydivot wrote:I thought about this last night...and this is wrong
You are supposed to hit the friend zone...
It means you are on the track to an actual relationship...
You don't want to be the flash and bang dude....
That's juvenile...
You should become friends with the girl yeah, but make your intentions clear as soon as possible and never pretend that you 'just' wanna be friends. You shouldn't fall in love with her, pretend you didn't and then act like you just like the girl platonically and 'be there for her no matter what', while secretly feeling entitled to sex from her just because you're being 'nice' to her.
That's "the friendzone". I considered my ex-girlfriends 'friends' too, just with an added layer of intimacy.
