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Posted: Thu Mar 20, 2008 4:56 am
by nesslei
Vonboyage wrote:
nesslei wrote:it becomes VERY hard to even consider going home with someone because i always ask myself "why does he deserve to say he's had me?" so i always go home alone.
Woah, some pretty deep stuff there. Is that a regular occurance ?
well i do go out every weekend, so i guess yes, it is a regular occurrence. trust, i'm super fussy pants.

Posted: Thu Mar 20, 2008 4:57 am
by nesslei
tempest wrote:
nesslei wrote:
you speak my thoughts exactly. i have come to think of myself as exclusive (so exclusive i ain't gettin any). but seriously, when i'm as fussy as i am, it becomes VERY hard to even consider going home with someone because i always ask myself "why does he deserve to say he's had me?" so i always go home alone.

wow. ness spills truth!
This is why there are so many single unhappy people knocking about, loosen up yall!!! hit shit like rabbits cuz time is short.


As my old mans advice goes, "The one you knock back is the one you'll never get"
i never said i was unhappy! don't read between the lines bustah. i'm single and very happy to be so. wouldn't be about to move to the other side of the globe if i was a wifey now, would i! :wink:

Posted: Thu Mar 20, 2008 4:59 am
by vonboyage
Do guys try and approach you alot when your out then? I know it can be tedious when that happens, even more so if your a fussy pants.

Maybe you could flip the script on it, and change ur thinking from "why does he deserve to say he's had me?" to something different.. something you can relate to on your terms

Posted: Thu Mar 20, 2008 5:00 am
by amykamala
well who the hell wants to go home with a complete stranger ?

Posted: Thu Mar 20, 2008 5:01 am
by parson
where u movin 2

Posted: Thu Mar 20, 2008 5:04 am
by nesslei
Vonboyage wrote:Do guys try and approach you alot when your out then? I know it can be tedious when that happens, even more so if your a fussy pants.

Maybe you could flip the script on it, and change ur thinking from "why does he deserve to say he's had me?" to something different.. something you can relate to on your terms
yes, i guess they do. there will always be men to hit on tha ladiez tho, i wouldn't be any different from any other chica. let's just say i know what i want and when i see it i grab it... but when it ain't around, i don't sleep around.

Posted: Thu Mar 20, 2008 5:04 am
by nesslei
Parson wrote:where u movin 2
LANDAAAHHHN .. end of may.

Posted: Thu Mar 20, 2008 5:05 am
by parson
noice.

seems like NZ is a nicer place although i've never been to either

Posted: Thu Mar 20, 2008 5:06 am
by nesslei
nz (especially welli) is super beautiful and an amazing place to have grown up in and it will always be home. but the career opportunities beckon... and europa...

Posted: Thu Mar 20, 2008 5:08 am
by parson
also i don't wanna come off like i'm full of myself like the only reason i've haven't been laid in over a year is because i'm too picky, because there have definitely been some ladies that caught my eye that totally dissed me. a handful of em at least.

Posted: Thu Mar 20, 2008 5:09 am
by parson
and NO i'm not implying anything about you ness =]

Posted: Thu Mar 20, 2008 5:10 am
by parson
just sayin i DO get dissed plenty

Posted: Thu Mar 20, 2008 5:12 am
by amykamala
everybody gets their chance to diss and be dissed. such is life

Posted: Thu Mar 20, 2008 5:12 am
by nesslei
oh hai, here you is.

yes i am with you on your comment above (p-diddy parson). it's not like i don't crave the goodness, it's just that i do happen to be super picky and like you parson i have spied some fine men lately... just none as fine as a certain one. so i guess you have benchmarks.

or am i failing miserably to explain myself.

Posted: Thu Mar 20, 2008 5:14 am
by parson
no i understand completely

Posted: Thu Mar 20, 2008 5:14 am
by nesslei
nesslei wrote: like you parson i have spied some fine men lately...
OMG WTF! sorry! you know what i mean. fine specimens.

Posted: Thu Mar 20, 2008 5:16 am
by parson
-r-

Posted: Thu Mar 20, 2008 7:31 am
by nesslei
Parson wrote:-r-
the girls are crazy if they ain't jumpin at a mug like that.

Posted: Thu Mar 20, 2008 7:55 am
by metalboxproducts
Parson wrote:and i have my own retarded standards that rule out most of the population
Oh, i have standards. They're just very low.

Posted: Thu Mar 20, 2008 8:55 am
by dubluke
fuagofire wrote:how so?
i just find it a bit draining emotionally, to come home with a girl and be that close with them (if you catch my drift) and then probably never see them again is a bit shit for me, its ok sometimes but not something i could do regularly, i prefer something with a bit of longevity and actual connection