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So this board has had some Emo thing going on recently i thought id fuel the fire. So ninjas you been cheated on? Any thoughts ?

Personally, I don't think it's possible to become so drunk that you have a valid excuse for cheating.

They cheat. They're gone. Simple.

I've been cheated on quite a bit.
But I never said anything at the time when I had found out.
Fuck knows why.

BNanni wrote:I've been cheated on quite a bit.
But I never said anything at the time when I had found out.
Fuck knows why.

My bird had left me when I found out....... we broke up because 'she wanted to work in London'......... turns out it was to move in with the tnuc. Would've quite liked to kill her slowly tbh.

Onwards and upward though, no point getting miserable over shit that's in the past.

/emo

Never been cheated on (as far as know) and don't think i've cheated on a girl.

btw is kissing a bird completely intoxicated whilst with another girl cheating?

these are the questions...what EXACTLY is cheating?

amick wrote:Never been cheated on (as far as know) and don't think i've cheated on a girl.

btw is kissing a bird completely intoxicated whilst with another girl cheating?

these are the questions...what EXACTLY is cheating?

I would say it is. You can't really do it with good intentions. Guess it depends person to person though.

DRTY wrote:Personally, I don't think it's possible to become so drunk that you have a valid excuse for cheating.

They cheat. They're gone. Simple.

depends on the situation but tend to agree tbh. got cheated on by my ex and tried to stay together and work it out but it inevitably fell apart and ended up being far more messy than it had to be

If you shag the middle bit of two shampoo-filled baloons tied together, is it cheating???

badger wrote:
depends on the situation but tend to agree tbh. got cheated on by my ex and tried to stay together and work it out but it inevitably fell apart and ended up being far more messy than it had to be

Yeah I think if you tried staying together, the one that got cheated on would end up getting too paranoid/possesive/untrusting etc to actually be happy. (guessing thats how it panned out)

DRTY wrote:
Onwards and upward though, no point getting miserable over shit that's in the past.

Yeah pretty much this.

I can say though, when I was cheated on, I done it awel.
Sort of a revenge thing.
It didn't make me feel any better, in fact it made me feel worse
Wouldn't do it again.

Think I've grown up enough now, that if anyone were to cheat on me again I'd confront them about it.
And sling their arse out the door.

Dead Rats wrote:If you shag the middle bit of two shampoo-filled baloons tied together, is it cheating???

no. nor is putting warm ham slices in a toilet roll tube.

sirsnaf wrote:

Dead Rats wrote:If you shag the middle bit of two shampoo-filled baloons tied together, is it cheating???

no. nor is putting warm ham slices in a toilet roll tube.

/me notes down.

/me logs off.

DRTY wrote:

badger wrote:
depends on the situation but tend to agree tbh. got cheated on by my ex and tried to stay together and work it out but it inevitably fell apart and ended up being far more messy than it had to be

Yeah I think if you tried staying together, the one that got cheated on would end up getting too paranoid/possesive/untrusting etc to actually be happy. (guessing thats how it panned out)

sort of. i wasn't so much paranoid or possessive but there was always something hanging over the relationship and it just wasn't very healthy, and you're less likely to want to work through these problems when you've been fucked around with

I've cheated and been cheated on, it's inevitable thy it will happen at some point in your life. it hurts more than anything else, I would never put someone in that situation again

Totally depends on the situation. It's probably a very good sign that something's up with the relationship though.

magma wrote:Totally depends on the situation. It's probably a very good sign that something's up with the relationship though.

hmmmmm. or perhaps you're going out with a massive tnuc

DRTY wrote:

magma wrote:Totally depends on the situation. It's probably a very good sign that something's up with the relationship though.

hmmmmm. or perhaps you're going out with a massive tnuc

That might be what's up with the relationship!

I'm not gonna come on here and bullshit, but here's what I'm going through at the moment. I started seeing a girl i met through unusual circumstances, long story short, the lady is a swinger, 2 years my younger.

Basically I'm head over heels about the gal, and can't find myself telling her this. More the fool me, texting whole day like a madman, so crazy. Anyway, I've been cheated on (who hasn't?) and I've cheated on (but not been caught ). However, I am of the strong belief there's some things people can expierence together, and with each other yet not with others or at least randoms.

The act of love making is a fine act. A really nice act, as is all the playing that goes with. The touching and cuddling, bla bla... the act of fucking around, being a dirty stop out is nothing in comparison and we've all got sins. So if people fuck around, more power to them, just do it right, and play it safe. But if you're insecure enough to think that one kiss, fumble, or handjob in the ladies bogs is going to be the be all and end all of yer relationship, more the fool you, wasn't strong enough to begin with.

It's rough and hurts like a bitch, and doesn't really jusify you doing the same in retaliation, but what's done has been done, you gotta learn from it, for better for worse, or not. Everyone has a past, not interested in peoples pasts, more interested in the future, and truth, no lies, can do without. Anyway, yeah depends on how strong the relationship was, if it was like your girl of say, 2 years, and your best friend, then FUCK, that's different story, cos it's a conflict of interests, but if it's some random tosser, then hey, if the relationship is worth it, it'll stand the test of time, for the time being anyway.

what about shagging yer missus best mate. anyone ever done that?

gwa wrote:what about shagging yer missus best mate. anyone ever done that?

Thought about it once or twice