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Help.

Posted: Wed Feb 28, 2007 12:48 am
by jah pat
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Posted: Wed Feb 28, 2007 9:39 am
by random trio
hit on the mates..

Posted: Wed Feb 28, 2007 10:25 am
by dolly
OK, I'm not a chap but would like to give my 2 pence on this...

You need to not be friends with her, or at least not have any contact with her for a while!

It must be doing your nut in even more if ur seeing her knowing its not gonna happen...thats just torture mate

If you dont wanna cut all ties then try not to see/talk to her for few weeks - your mind will drift elsewhere and you'll be over it

Posted: Wed Feb 28, 2007 10:38 am
by moldy
Don't drag it out... it could turn your heart to stone.

Posted: Wed Feb 28, 2007 11:13 am
by batfink
i'd stay her mate but start to buy her lots of cakes and pastries. You could offer to cook her dinner but slip a load of lard into her portions each time you do....

After a few more weeks of friendship she'll be a fat bitch and voila! problem gone.

Posted: Wed Feb 28, 2007 11:23 am
by spelf
Batfink wrote:After a few more weeks of friendship she'll be a fat bitch and voila! problem gone.
evil evil evil!

I'd go with dolly on this one, but that's just another girls advise...

Posted: Wed Feb 28, 2007 11:31 am
by monsta
at least try and sleep with her again. dont be a wimp :wink:

Posted: Wed Feb 28, 2007 12:03 pm
by cody
that situation is a bit fcked. it sounds like you have a case of oneitus

from my experience if you get to a place where your friends with a girl then thats how its going to stay.

do like dolly or cyrus says. cut contact with the girl till your over it or try hit on her mates which will either a) work out and you will have someone or b) make her jealous and come back to you (although that the chances are small)

plenty more fish in the sea .... :8:

Posted: Wed Feb 28, 2007 12:15 pm
by tronman
ctrl alt delete her

log off and shut down blud.

Posted: Wed Feb 28, 2007 12:22 pm
by elgato
tronman wrote:ctrl alt delete her

log off and shut down blud.
lol

i reckon the main question is what do you want out of it? what are your priorities? do you want to be together regardless? or are you more concerned about other things?

Posted: Wed Feb 28, 2007 12:24 pm
by j_j
tronman wrote:ctrl alt delete her

log off and shut down blud.
fukkin lol

Posted: Wed Feb 28, 2007 12:41 pm
by jah pat
hahaha

i feel better already

friendship = relationship without the shit bits + sex

i'll leave it and see what happens.......

Posted: Wed Feb 28, 2007 1:03 pm
by batfink
cody wrote:plenty more fish in the sea .... :8:
i hate that expression. the problem is the lack of pussy, not needing some cod to go with my chips. :lol:

Posted: Wed Feb 28, 2007 1:25 pm
by metalboxproducts
Your all a buntch of pussy's.

If you are really best mates you should do the best mate thing and talk to her. Together you should work out the best thing to do.
I had the same problem not long ago.

we were best mates
we loved each other
we used to sleep together
we couldn't be together
she got a fella
i was pissed off
realized it was for the best
still best mates

All sorted.

What ever do what you think is the right thing.

Re: Help.

Posted: Wed Feb 28, 2007 1:31 pm
by the wiggle baron
Jah Pat wrote:Help chaps?
...you tried rum?

Posted: Wed Feb 28, 2007 1:34 pm
by forensix (mcr)
metalboxproducts wrote:
we were best mates
we loved each other
we used to sleep together
we couldn't be together
she got a fella
i was pissed off
realized it was for the best
still best mates

All sorted.
Id prefer it if you didnt post details of our relationship on the internet

:roll:

Posted: Wed Feb 28, 2007 2:17 pm
by spelf
Jah Pat wrote:friendship = relationship without the shit bits + sex
I seriously don't get the problem :?

Posted: Wed Feb 28, 2007 3:10 pm
by delendi
moldy wrote:Don't drag it out... it could turn your heart to stone.
woah true story.

if you're properly best mates then u should be able to talk about it with her. if u can't... then you're not close enough to be best mates and u should back off a while n see how that works out. i always need at least a couple of months away from a guy after a break up before i can be cool with him... might work on the same principle.

Posted: Wed Feb 28, 2007 3:24 pm
by search
WARNING: DO NOT TRY TO UNDERSTAND THEM.
THEY OPERATE ON A TOTALLY DIFFERENT LEVEL TO US.
GET AWAY FROM HER. GET A BIRD THAT WANTS YOU.
IF SHE WANTED TO BE WITH YOU SHE WOULD.











try and fuck her mum