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Your partner is pregnant...
Posted: Fri Jun 14, 2013 10:51 am
by wub
You're about to have your first child. You get a test done, and it says that your child will have severe down syndrome. It's still early enough to abort the pregnancy.
Would you abort or not? Why?
Re: Your partner is pregnant...
Posted: Fri Jun 14, 2013 10:56 am
by deadly_habit
Abort, if only to stop one more shitty poster on here

Re: Your partner is pregnant...
Posted: Fri Jun 14, 2013 11:00 am
by syrup
Would.
Re: Your partner is pregnant...
Posted: Fri Jun 14, 2013 11:01 am
by wub
Re: Your partner is pregnant...
Posted: Fri Jun 14, 2013 11:02 am
by PinUp
Downs syndrome is not the end of the world and it's still possible for the child to lead a fulfilling life, bringing up a child with disabilities can be difficult but it also provides many rewarding moments.
If I wanted a child anyway I would keep it, however, if I was unsure which decision to make it may swing my decision in the other direction.
Tough question to think about, let alone make the decision in real life.
Re: Your partner is pregnant...
Posted: Fri Jun 14, 2013 11:02 am
by Sexual_Chocolate
would keep it.
Re: Your partner is pregnant...
Posted: Fri Jun 14, 2013 11:10 am
by Laszlo
Brutally honest, if my opinion mattered at all, I would abort the shit out of it because i'm selfish and cannot afford (time or emotional strain) a kid with disabilities.
This, albeit small, possibility is one of the (many) reasons I do not want kids. Fuck finding out you've got a disabled kid and your wife/gf saying 'i'm keeping it'.
Long.
No disrespect intended to anyone with a disabled family member/friend.
Re: Your partner is pregnant...
Posted: Fri Jun 14, 2013 11:11 am
by syrup
basically ^
Re: Your partner is pregnant...
Posted: Fri Jun 14, 2013 11:11 am
by topmo3
tough one, you cant ask that u kno!
Re: Your partner is pregnant...
Posted: Fri Jun 14, 2013 11:18 am
by deadly_habit
Anyone ever notice wub starts these conversations, but never offers up his opinion to start, or at all...

Re: Your partner is pregnant...
Posted: Fri Jun 14, 2013 11:21 am
by Muncey
I'd abort regardless of disability. Too young and got too much to achieve before I have a kid, let alone one with Downs. Thats life over.
Reckon my mum would never talk to me again tho.
Re: Your partner is pregnant...
Posted: Fri Jun 14, 2013 11:23 am
by Laszlo
deadly habit wrote:Anyone ever notice wub starts these conversations, but never offers up his opinion to start, or at all...
Of course. I always assumed these 'icebreaker' type threads was part of his responsibilities as a mod.
Either that or he thrives on conflict and negativity.... I choose to believe the former.
Re: Your partner is pregnant...
Posted: Fri Jun 14, 2013 11:24 am
by magma
Laszlo wrote:deadly habit wrote:Anyone ever notice wub starts these conversations, but never offers up his opinion to start, or at all...
Of course. I always assumed these 'icebreaker' type threads was part of his responsibilities as a mod.
'xactly.
We'd all have nothing to argue about if it wasn't for wub.

Re: Your partner is pregnant...
Posted: Fri Jun 14, 2013 11:39 am
by chekov
deadly habit wrote:Anyone ever notice wub starts these conversations, but never offers up his opinion to start, or at all...

gd threds doe
Re: Your partner is pregnant...
Posted: Fri Jun 14, 2013 11:46 am
by mIrReN
accidental stomp
Re: Your partner is pregnant...
Posted: Fri Jun 14, 2013 11:57 am
by ehbes
Keep, get him the services he needs. Might be because both my parents work in mental health tho....
Re: Your partner is pregnant...
Posted: Fri Jun 14, 2013 12:07 pm
by particle-jim
2 yung 4 kidz, kill it
Re: Your partner is pregnant...
Posted: Fri Jun 14, 2013 12:13 pm
by magma
Abort whether healthy or not right now, but yeah, uhh, probably abort.
It wasn't Downs, but a friend had a similar decision to make recently. Can't imagine a worse conversation to have with someone you love.
Re: Your partner is pregnant...
Posted: Fri Jun 14, 2013 12:16 pm
by murky21
I'd get my lawyer on the phone immediately, go on a 3 week crystal meth binge and write a groundbreaking debut novel à la Bret Easton Ellis
Re: Your partner is pregnant...
Posted: Fri Jun 14, 2013 12:18 pm
by mIrReN
going bi too?